| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 4:17:01 PM | If you send a picture and get no response back I think you have your answer. What I hate is when you have no interest in someone, didn't even click on their profile and they email you, do you have anymore pic's you could send? Whats up with that? | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 4:23:23 PM | What I hate is when you have no interest in someone, didn't even click on their profile and they email you, do you have anymore pic's you could send? Whats up with that? ~ chelsea
They are selfish and horny. It's easy to spot guys that are only here for one night stands or for friends with benifits.
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 4:40:50 PM | | It's not only men, girls do exactly the same, they ask for a photo & I never hear from them again, I don't think there's an answer to that, just put it down to some strange element of human behaviour, or maybe they just collect pics. Let me know if you ever find the answer! | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 4:43:50 PM | | terminallycute, thank you for spelling gorgeous correctly.......op, men and women both want to see who they are talking to, why not post a picture (current) with the profile? You are going to be asked for one, that is, if you plan on contacting someone. It goes for both men and women. It's like posting a picture of yourself ten years younger and 50 lb's lighter, there is no way you can change into the person you were, nor should you want to....Post who you are and the right one will come along and scoop you up..... | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 4:59:17 PM | | The simple solution is to post a picture on your profile. Then, if they don't like how you look.....they just wont contact you. The ones that contact you have already seen what you look like, and obviously like what they've seen. There you have it, no hurt feelings. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 5:20:51 PM | | Flowers nailed it perfectly. Of course, the pic should be recent and be who you really are on a normal day. You would be amazed to see what is on a profile and what is sent to you as a recent pic. The profile pic is perhaps 5-10 years old and beautiful, while the sent pic is what is really there presently. I consider this deception. Post a recent pic and hope the right person will see you for your beauty. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 5:44:11 PM | Aargh. All humans use physical attraction as a basis for getting involved. Female and male. That may suck, but the truth just is what it is. Intelligent people eventually grow beyond that, with luck and time, and it's funny, but sometimes attractive people are even good people.
Sometimes they aren't.
Me? I learned. Age can do that.
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 5:47:31 PM | WELL TO ANSWER THIS I USUALLY DO NOT ANSWER ANYONE W/O A PIC...I HAVE MINE ON THERE AND I THINK IT IS ONLY RIGHT THEY SHOW ME THEIRS...PART IS VISUAL BUT MAINLY YOU CAN PUT A FACE ON WHO YOUR TALKING WITH....THE PIC OF COURSE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR PERSONALITY BUT IT IS A START AND THERE ARE A LOT OF MARRIED PEOPLE OUT THERE OR JUST PLAIN CREEPOS.....A PICTURE TELLS A THOUSAND WORDS AND FACIAL EXPRESSIONS DO ALSO.....BUT ON THE OTHER HAND IT IS NOT SO GOOD FOR THE ONES WHO ARE NOT PHOTOGENIC...UNFORTUNATELY MOST MEN AND I SAID MOST ARE VERY VISUAL AND THAT IS JUST HOW THEY ARE PROGRAMMED..MOST MEN WANT WOMEN THAT LOOK LIKE BUT ACT LIKE IN BED...LOL.. SO MAKE SURE YOU PUT YOUR BEST PIC UP..AND MAKE SURE IT IS RECENT NOT 5 YRS AGO OR 50 LBS...LOLBE CREATIVE....JULIET | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 6:09:37 PM | Hey! Can't help liking how someone looks...wish it was different, but it isn't.
At first when somone didn't have a picture on their profile I would respond to their contacts, but not anymore. Lifes too short to piss around like that. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 6:44:49 PM | | maybe they too busy they had to go to work instead of the internet chatting? who knows? i find this situation a pain in the ass because it's like a waste of time chatting to fools you don't even know.... btw your family and friends are the most important things in your life so take care | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 7:01:33 PM | its coz most boys r nasty, immature, and stuckup thinking they r goodluking and great!! :/
beauty comes from the inside babe,.. no matter how ur face may be sculpted and how low clothes size u may wear, if u r ugly inside you will ALWAYS EVERYTIME eventually endup being seen as the complete minger you are!!
But if you are nice and sweet and lovely inside, then your beaty will ALWAYS eventually shine through in your looks, and hopefully you will find a person who actually appreaciates that!
(coz if they dont appreciate they then they simply dont even come close 2 deserving you!!) xXx | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/2/2007 8:07:31 PM | Men (and women) willingly indulge in the unfortunate worship of illmannered partners due to beauty issues. Once we are sated, we then react the way we should have in the first place by running away as asoon as possible.
Beauty decieves but temporarily, the core personality soons shines through and the realization that we loved poorly snaps us out of our revery and we lick our wounds and try again, sadder but wiser | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/3/2007 4:35:40 AM | I dont know if this happens to men, but i know of people who have politely told someone after seeing their pics that they werent interested...
only to recieve a whole pile of nasty abuse back...
if they dont reply you have your answer anyway - why do you need it to be spelt out? | |
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dpd22
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Joined: 11/9/2006
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/3/2007 8:17:22 AM |
I dont know if this happens to men, but i know of people who have politely told someone after seeing their pics that they werent interested...
only to recieve a whole pile of nasty abuse back...
if they dont reply you have your answer anyway - why do you need it to be spelt out?
IMO it's more polite to be upfront with tact than ignore a person when you are no longer interested in him/her. If that person responds in a rude way, then that's their problem. I have recevied a few rude emails when I told a woman that I wasn't interested after I saw their pics. I don't let it bother me. BTW ignoring a person doesn't always stop rude emails. I know some people who have received rude emails after ignoring someone they weren't interested in. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/3/2007 10:52:36 AM | This is the space where another one of my forum posts has been deleted without my knowledge. Yet the link from my profile still leads to this subject and right onto someone else's post, (before I put in this update). If I am to spend my time contributing to these forums, it would only be good manners to inform me of any possible objections that led to removal. It is possible a moderator thought I wandered off topic in places, I do not know... for all you know, reader, I might even have posted something highly objectionable and if this is the impression given, then that is not good. It is one of the reasons I wish the moderator would have the good manners to let me know it was being removed.
Or at the least don't leave a link leading to where my mail used to be... or directly onto someone else's mail.
I put time, thought and trouble into contributing to your forum, and not only that, i get mails from women who ENJOYED what I have to say...
What is going on here???
Thank you.
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Joined: 6/30/2006
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/3/2007 1:18:12 PM |
beauty comes from the inside babe,.. no matter how ur face may be sculpted and how low clothes size u may wear, if u r ugly inside you will ALWAYS EVERYTIME eventually endup being seen as the complete minger you are!!
while i agree with this somewhat, I have said this over and over again. You cannot see personalitly from across the room. Its the way life is, the "hott" chick will get hit on more than the "not so hott" chick, well.....cause she is hott...duh....
But if you are nice and sweet and lovely inside, then your beaty will ALWAYS eventually shine through in your looks,
you watch way too many chick flicks. I dont care how nice a women is, I dont care how much she has "inside", if im not inatially attracted to her, then im not gonna talk to her.
I have known lots of hott chicks that are complete nutbags, and I have met some 'average" chicks that are nutbags, but all in all, if im not attracted to them, it wont matter cause im not gonna talk to them anyway.
I know i know...im shallow cause i want someone who is attractive, and someone who isnt a nutbag......
but then again, everyone who cries on here about "they shouldnt focus on looks, and get to know the person inside".....are probably a bunch of hypocrites, cause unless you go out with EVERY PERSON that has EVER asked you out, then that makes you just like everyone else.... | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/3/2007 4:26:48 PM | | Here it is HOTPINKANGEL.......Men! and that includes me are very simple and at times superficial creatures for the most part...Thats initially..... and then if a guy feels an attraction other than physical he will pull out all stops to make you happy...But at first I think we (men) make a decision in our minds if we can be seen with this person (in the pic)..Would we be proud to show her off to family and friends????Its not to be mean or personal...It's instinctive..men make up their mind right then and there..Its either a go or its a no-go.....Heres part 2 to my response...Men are SIMPLE so why do all you women out there try in vain to expect something differenet from us...If you ask us a question expect an answer...dont ask us a question that you already know in your mind the answer YOU WANT...you'll always be dissapointed when you dont get it...Then you get mad because WE didnt read your mind or we should know what your thinking......If y'all realized that we have less fighting going on.....my 2 cents with Love...cheers! | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 8/3/2007 4:50:16 PM | Why is that we assume that only beautiful women or handsome men can be rude. I have seen plenty of unattractive people  with chips on their shoulders that can be mean and hateful as well. The bottom line is - you like what you like! So save yourself the trouble and heartache and post a picture. If they're interested, fine. If not, that's ok too.  | |
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