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 vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006
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Posted: 1/27/2009 3:25:18 AM
OK Op you know you are no great beauty but did you ever try to work with what you got?

How about making yourself more attractive? Seek either profession advice or start reading alot of fashion and beauty magazines . It does not take much. Something as simple as a new haircut,different makeup, changing your style of dress , glasses to contacts , tweezzing a few stray hairs and getting those nails and toes done , maybe a weight loss programar a gym visit or two. But the big change you have to make is your confidence . Stop thinking of yourself as average . Everyone has some special talent.

The men that dissing and dismissing you.....F**K 'EM!
 KaptainAmericana

Joined: 5/16/2008
Msg: 375
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Posted: 1/27/2009 7:02:01 AM
Even good looking guys like me, get the same treatment. I don't take good pictures.

REALITY CHECK:...........
The vast majority (of guys) are looking for a Playboy Bunny, or (for women) a GQ Stud, with a 39 Foot Sting Ray cabin cruiser.

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 KaptainAmericana

Joined: 5/16/2008
Msg: 376
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Posted: 1/27/2009 7:06:26 AM
......We do???..........ha, ha, ha.


Just checked out the "ON-LINE" at Plentyoffish.com.
It was 80% guys, and 20% women............Good luck.

You're better off going to a bar tonight.


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 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 377
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Posted: 1/27/2009 7:26:52 AM

REALITY CHECK:...........
The vast majority (of guys) are looking for a Playboy Bunny, or (for women) a GQ Stud, with a 39 Foot Sting Ray cabin cruiser.


Yep I did a reality check,, I conclude if that's what we were all looking for,, most of us would be on a different site,, or hanging out at the yacht club..

Where as most of us, I would think don't have a hidden agenda,, excluding sex of course,,,, not many admit to liking that right off the bat.. there are some men and women who will admit openly that they like it,, but they need to be attracted to that person,, therefore good pictures are a must..
 bigtony87

Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 378
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Posted: 1/27/2009 11:25:19 AM
There are two types of men on POF, the way I see it. Men who are attracted to a woman first and foremost on an emotional and mental level, and worry about the physical aspect next, and men that are attracted to a woman first and foremost on a PHYSICAL level, and worry about compatability next. If you are the type that bases a desicion upon the former, being compatable first, then these men that see your photo then never respond are obviously not your type. However, ask yourself....if a man with no profile image sent you a message and seemed at least slightly interesting, then sent you a photo and turned out to be overweight and unattractive,....would YOU respond? Once you answer this question to yourself, or better yet, experience the result firsthand, you will know much more about yourself. Happy fishing!
 wiktor1985

Joined: 8/19/2008
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Posted: 1/27/2009 1:19:11 PM
maybe he just used them for jacking off
 CountryLivingStyle

Joined: 12/31/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:31:18 AM
Honestly girls look at my pic
The quality is bad im not smileing.
That is probly the first reason no one sends me a message

My response: Because the pic looks all fuzzy or what not has nothing to do cause mine is too but I have some awesome people talking to me.

Secondly women look at money
At leat a guy only looks at whats on the outside not whats in your wallet.
Who is more superficial now eh?

By the way NOT all women look at wallet or assets... some people just enjoy pleasure of life and AREN'T materialistic.

Good luck in your search
 CountryLivingStyle

Joined: 12/31/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:35:01 AM
But why most men dont have a picture up?
 CountryLivingStyle

Joined: 12/31/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:36:45 AM
And why should we not respond? that would be being 2 face... Not only can you find a mate here but what about the friends you encounter ... much better then being alone
 miss_contemplative

Joined: 3/12/2008
Msg: 383
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Posted: 5/30/2009 5:23:50 PM
It seems so obvious I'm not sure how this thread even remained alive.

OP...they were trying to avoid saying "oh, yeah...well, not interested" because they did not feel attracted to what they saw.

And I consider it masochistic for someone to post a thread to their self-images demise.
 stenmanexe

Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 384
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Posted: 5/30/2009 5:28:05 PM
Unfortunately, women are guilty of the exact same thing, and i speak from experience. It's either because they just arent interested, or are very shallow and stuck-up.
I hate people who judge just on looks. It's stupid.
 titan99

Joined: 7/25/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2009 5:35:45 PM
Because they were probably looking for sex, and are not man enough to say it to you. The way you should look at it "their loss" You have more to give. Good luck. xxxx
 elvira black

Joined: 5/20/2009
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Posted: 5/30/2009 8:34:17 PM
When they see my pics think I'm stuck on myself or they ask me are those your legs and how could a 57 year old woman have those kind of legs? After that they read my profile and they see that I'm not just a pair of legs they trip because I no what I want in life and I no where I'm going. I've got me together and some men don't like that. They like some women that are so dependent on them I'm not. Besides most of these men just want a role in the hay. For me, it's to many S.T. D. they can pass along to you and I don't want to get caught up in that kind of situation ever. You ladies out don't sell your self cheap you are what GOD made you WOMAN for one good man
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 5/31/2009 8:50:24 AM
I'd be one of the ones to say "sorry, but you're not my type". Too bad all men can't be that way.
 clito

Joined: 4/6/2008
Msg: 388
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Posted: 5/31/2009 7:19:06 PM
For the same reason that women who appear genuinely interested, are quick to end an online conversation and scurry away-not interested or turned on!
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 389
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Posted: 7/20/2009 11:23:45 PM
Maybe you should beat em to the punch by posting a pic

 ProdigalSon81

Joined: 1/18/2009
Msg: 390
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Posted: 7/21/2009 6:20:43 AM
Both men & women do this, and there's nothing really wrong with it either. I would surmise they concluded that you weren't attractive enough and if your pic was up, that you would've found this out sooner.
 transit_tom

Joined: 12/24/2008
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Posted: 7/23/2009 6:16:54 AM
men get the same treatment, and to let it bother you is a waste, I have my worse pic for sending because I like camping and working outdoors with my hands fixing things, that pic is what I look like after a week long fishing trip, and if they don't like it they probably won't like camping with me for a week. I find alot of women are into wallets though another reason I try to avoid what I do for a living or what I make.. If ti was about the money theres women that will fufill certain needs for a price.. thier not for me..
 oldmaid72

Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 392
Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 7/24/2009 6:59:42 AM
Because they probably aren't attracted to you and don't want to be rude by saying "not interested" after.
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