| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 1/27/2009 3:25:18 AM | OK Op you know you are no great beauty but did you ever try to work with what you got?
How about making yourself more attractive? Seek either profession advice or start reading alot of fashion and beauty magazines . It does not take much. Something as simple as a new haircut,different makeup, changing your style of dress , glasses to contacts , tweezzing a few stray hairs and getting those nails and toes done , maybe a weight loss programar a gym visit or two. But the big change you have to make is your confidence . Stop thinking of yourself as average . Everyone has some special talent.
The men that dissing and dismissing you.....F**K 'EM! | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 1/27/2009 7:02:01 AM | Even good looking guys like me, get the same treatment. I don't take good pictures.
REALITY CHECK:........... The vast majority (of guys) are looking for a Playboy Bunny, or (for women) a GQ Stud, with a 39 Foot Sting Ray cabin cruiser.
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 1/27/2009 7:26:52 AM |
REALITY CHECK:........... The vast majority (of guys) are looking for a Playboy Bunny, or (for women) a GQ Stud, with a 39 Foot Sting Ray cabin cruiser.
Yep I did a reality check,, I conclude if that's what we were all looking for,, most of us would be on a different site,, or hanging out at the yacht club..
Where as most of us, I would think don't have a hidden agenda,, excluding sex of course,, ,, not many admit to liking that right off the bat.. there are some men and women who will admit openly that they like it,, but they need to be attracted to that person,, therefore good pictures are a must.. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 1/27/2009 11:25:19 AM | | There are two types of men on POF, the way I see it. Men who are attracted to a woman first and foremost on an emotional and mental level, and worry about the physical aspect next, and men that are attracted to a woman first and foremost on a PHYSICAL level, and worry about compatability next. If you are the type that bases a desicion upon the former, being compatable first, then these men that see your photo then never respond are obviously not your type. However, ask yourself....if a man with no profile image sent you a message and seemed at least slightly interesting, then sent you a photo and turned out to be overweight and unattractive,....would YOU respond? Once you answer this question to yourself, or better yet, experience the result firsthand, you will know much more about yourself. Happy fishing! | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 5/30/2009 11:31:18 AM | Honestly girls look at my pic The quality is bad im not smileing. That is probly the first reason no one sends me a message
My response: Because the pic looks all fuzzy or what not has nothing to do cause mine is too but I have some awesome people talking to me.
Secondly women look at money At leat a guy only looks at whats on the outside not whats in your wallet. Who is more superficial now eh?
By the way NOT all women look at wallet or assets... some people just enjoy pleasure of life and AREN'T materialistic.
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 5/30/2009 5:23:50 PM | It seems so obvious I'm not sure how this thread even remained alive.
OP...they were trying to avoid saying "oh, yeah...well, not interested" because they did not feel attracted to what they saw.
And I consider it masochistic for someone to post a thread to their self-images demise. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 5/30/2009 8:34:17 PM | When they see my pics think I'm stuck on myself or they ask me are those your legs and how could a 57 year old woman have those kind of legs? After that they read my profile and they see that I'm not just a pair of legs they trip because I no what I want in life and I no where I'm going. I've got me together and some men don't like that. They like some women that are so dependent on them I'm not. Besides most of these men just want a role in the hay. For me, it's to many S.T. D. they can pass along to you and I don't want to get caught up in that kind of situation ever. You ladies out don't sell your self cheap you are what GOD made you WOMAN for one good man  | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 7/23/2009 6:16:54 AM | | men get the same treatment, and to let it bother you is a waste, I have my worse pic for sending because I like camping and working outdoors with my hands fixing things, that pic is what I look like after a week long fishing trip, and if they don't like it they probably won't like camping with me for a week. I find alot of women are into wallets though another reason I try to avoid what I do for a living or what I make.. If ti was about the money theres women that will fufill certain needs for a price.. thier not for me.. | |
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