| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/8/2006 10:51:26 AM | | When asking for pictures was it also mentioned a conversation would follow critique of said pictures.Sometimes silence is golden.I never ask for pictures or send.My messenger has the show a pic option and I change it frequently for my family and friends. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/8/2006 11:07:48 AM | BIKE-MAN.....you got the right idea...I would much rather they say NOT INTERESTED....You are not my type or you are UGLY than not say anything at all....
One day I will be able to correct the fact that I can't walk...but my looks are not in that pictuer....I am me and either accept me or don't your choice....but one thing is for sure my profile is totally honest and
STITCH.......I am glad I do not appear to your standards of life...but this way the guy knows I am straight up and not a fake!!!!! | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/10/2006 4:55:58 AM | | Well some people on this earth ( me for one) actually care more about other things then looks. I wouldnt date somene who has no common ground with me no matter what they looked like. If the picture is nice and we share no hobbies or are in different places in life what would be the point. I wish more guys read the profiles and didnt just look at pictures but I have found that not to be true. if someone has interest in me i check there profile and see if our personalites would jive. just my take | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/10/2006 10:26:02 AM | some are cowards, true.
some don't want to hurt your feelings by being rude.
some do it just because they figure you would understand.
But don't feel left out, women do it to men also. Truth be told we all do it.
TRUTH-THE ANTI EVIL-
WHT GOD LOVES. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/10/2006 9:44:55 PM | i think everyone on these sites should have to have a pic up..
so when you ask for one you are not dissapointed...
the whole point to these sites in my opinion is to look through the photos and profiles and decide who you would like to talk to!!
and i dare say many people would not click on someone they found ugly!!!
that is why everyone finds different people attractive....
so i think you should put your pic up and then only people that think you are nice looking will speak to you and everyone will be happy... | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/10/2006 10:07:33 PM | lol the day we can answer that is the day we may get a honest truth out of some men
i only showed my pic to 1 guy after he asked....since i figured he was open minded..over what he said for his looks in his profile.
he did email me back...saying my daughter got my good looks..the pic was of both of us together.
not a word from him since..oh well... my daughter got the compliment she deserves..she is gorgious!!  but i am a prejudiced mother | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/10/2006 10:39:41 PM | | Dear Hotpinkangel. Very sorry to hear that. Believe it or not I get that all of the time from women. From no response at all to "Unread/Deleted", which is not very kind. I guess SOME people on the internet who hide behind their computers have really lost all sense of common courtesy and politness, and respect for others. Perhaps people today expect that and think it is cool. But, there are still some of us who don't. My friends just tell me that I have high standards and high expectations that many do not have. I would never just IGNORE someone who contacted me. I also have had some women write to me and tell me that they are not interested and I write back and tell them thank you and wish them the best of luck. Why? Because I am a gentleman and know how to show proper respect. Now as for this guy, you are obviously better off with out this kind of person. After all if he is not willing to give you the time of day, then thank God you he did not waste anymore of your time or energy with that guy. Be patient and hang in there. You will meet somebody worth your time, but it may take time. Reall good things in life rarely come easily and quickly. Or else we would all be rich and famous. Sincerely Armurian. | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 8:59:30 AM | I empathise with you on this one.
But I have to also add that I have a very good friend on this site that is a man who has the same question towards women. I personally think he is attractive, but that is just my opinion.
First of all, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What is attractive to one person may not be so to another.
Secondly, many people just don't have the finesse to be able to nicely say they feel no attraction is there. This is probably a kindness on their part and in no way meant to hurt or bother you... it is similar to just walking away.
Best Regards | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 9:05:22 AM | Babe I would always tell someone if they were not my type and wish them luck on their search. I guess SOME men cant be bothered and just move on.
It is called manners!!! They dont have to be offensive.
I have put my pics on my profile so i dont have this problem if they like what they see they can message me. However their are many men on here i wouldnt message as i dont think i will be replied to so i dont waste my time.
Keep trying babe XX | |
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Saige
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Joined: 5/4/2006
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 9:15:26 AM | Is there a difference when your out at a bar and you exchange phone numbers with someone and then you dont call.Are you going to call and say, im not interested, how many people give out fake numbers to not hurt someones feelings.. I give it 7 days, if I dont hear from that person, then they werent interested, who cares, move on,these people are stranges, it always amazes me how many people think we should take the time to tell someone we arent interested, like someone else said .......no response = not interested.....That's my personal oponion. | |
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Joined: 10/16/2005
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 9:20:11 AM | Cast your bread upon the water, and spear the fish who comes to nibble. As a guy,hearing a girls response,"Were not a good match" Hurts. I'd Rather just stop hearing from them than get a 'Too bad for you ' note. I can guess the rest. But otherwise, count yourself lucky. You found out early there wasn't a mutual match (without the hassle involved being on a date you wouldnt want to be) | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 9:22:00 AM |
No reply=No interest
wait!!..thats way to obvious!!..
giggles...
It happens all the time! men and women both do it....We humans are a visual bunch..and yes..we are all shallow to some extent..
but there is someone out there...who will think you are absoulutly gorgeous...and they are all that will matter! | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 11:45:47 AM | For the same reason, us too, women do it!
The profile looks ok, but than, once you see the pic, you don't find yourself attracted to that person. And not because they are not good looking...........it's because you are not attracted to them. Honestly, Brad Pitt could contact me...and I'd show no intrest, since I'm not attracted to fair/blond guys. (Actually, I probably wouldn't completly ignore Brad Pitt, I'd take the time to send him a quick NO...lol lol)...
But, if Denzel Washington would contact me (or George Clooney...on his good days)....hell yeah!!!! Yes, I would take the time to respond...
Do you see my point??? | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 11:58:20 AM |
Armurian......You have hit the nail directly on the head...I'd rather they say NOT INTERESTED
So would you also like them to explain why they are not interested....ask yourself that.
True some people will not repsond, then again there are those who will be blunt, and sometimes say things we really don't want to hear.
Sometimes just dropping it and moving on, is the best way. | |
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Joined: 4/26/2004
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 3:54:14 PM |
HOTPINKANGEL:
Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
I see that you do not have a Pic posted on your profile? You could relieve yourself a lot of stress by posting one up... Then those who would normally ask for a pic then run when they saw it would not bother you to begin with...
Why can't they be man enough to say NOT INTERESTED???????....My profile says I am not a beauty..I know that but GEEZ.....
I suppose it's for the same exact reason why the majority of the females on these sites tend to read & delete. A lack of decency runs rampt in our society today!
Sorry, to be so forward but the truth sometimes has to be direct to mean anything to us. I know for one that it took me a while to accept the fact I was undesirable and unattractive. I feel much better now knowing the reality and realising it was a waste of my time to search any longer... As the Country song goes "I've given up on love because love gave up on me"
Best wishes & hope things improve for you.  | |
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| Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....?
Posted: 6/11/2006 5:26:47 PM | Hello all I have a question.... its totley off topic and i do apologize!!
I just want t know how when some of you are quoting what someone else has said...
You can highlight it and start your post with it?
then i can join in on the fun
Thank you... | |
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