| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 1/9/2008 7:20:48 AM | | The First thing you need to do Poooh Bear,is just be friends with the guy that your with,nothing more.You need a man who is willing to accept you for who you are,I'm referring to being a big woman.Most men don't like big women,and you found one of those men.The best thing to do is to find someone who do love big women and go from there.Believe me,there are men out there that do. | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 1/14/2008 12:29:19 PM | If you are happy and feel good about yourself,then he should see you the way you see yourself,Personally I find nothing more attractive then a full figured woman,usually her her is as large as her frame.
As a Large and big guy I find we have sometimes been thru the same situations,like having someone say they care and are dying to meet up only to see we are not what they wanted in their eyes.
Physically you are what you are,sure you can change ,but if someone cares for you ,truly cares you would not need to change. | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 1/20/2008 5:36:17 PM | | Good question....one word answer...boobs. Or having fun eating and preparing food....I find women more fun if they like cooking with me and eating....especially new things., testing new recipes. But, again...boobs are good too. | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 2/7/2008 2:52:01 PM | yna6 says it takes "boobs ". I'm supposing he means big boobs! If so, I agree!
I find BBWs need to be well-proportioned to be visually appealing - big boobs help give them a more proportioned look....
...plus, big boobs are more fun all-round!   | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 4/5/2008 10:44:42 AM | | Simple, lose weight or find someone who's going to accept you as you are. He's not wrong for wanting someone thinner and you're not wrong for wanting someone to accept you as you are. You're on different pages so my advice is...move on. | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 1/23/2009 11:29:34 PM | | If a guy finds you wonderful in every other way but hesitates because of your weight, run like hell. It's amazing to me that guys will put up with verbal abuse, lying, ****iness, cheating and other demeaning behaviors if the woman is 'thin and beautiful'. But heaven forbid that the ideal woman comes along and isn't good enough for him because her appearance isn't up to his standards. Get rid of him, stick to men who either appreciate your weight, or don't give a d*** because who you are is what matters most. | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 2/24/2009 9:21:09 AM | Sorry to say that the majority of men are only attracted to slim women. That may not seem fair, but that is the reality of it. Although, there are other dating sites that cater only to BBW. From experience, I used to be very slim and "in shape" up until my late-thirties/early forties. Then, as nature escorted me into the reality of pre-menopause which is often accompanied by weight gain, of course I became less and less attractive to "attractive" men and loss their interest to younger and/or slimer women. So, we're left to choose from men who are also overweight and "out-of-shape"... though even they still often try to pick up the young and fit one's...LOL ...which personally...I find entertaining to watch 
Regarding your present "friend". ...personally, I wouldn't waste my time. He will end up by hurting you and make you feel unnatractive and destroy your self-confidence when he will date slimer women. If you want to keep being friends with him, that's okay, as long as you can accept the fact that he most probably will see other women. Do you think he will sit around, and wait for you to lose weight? Men will be men Pooh, if he gets an opportunity, he will take it. You're not his wife, you don't have children together...what's to stop him?
You really should check out other sites where you can meet people, like you, who don't see weight as a problem. They do exist. I don't believe POF is one of them.
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 2/24/2009 8:57:00 PM | I am ONLY attracted to bigger guys. Yet it's hard to find a good one of those too, freaking SIGHHHHHH. You'd think it'd be easy right?
It ain't. At least though, they're far more in touch with reality than "fit" guys are. They don't have that arrogant godawful sense of entitlement that so-called "fit" guys have. Let the fit guys get their Barbies. I'm sure her looks will last until the end of time. Uhhuh.
Meanwhile, I'll cuddle up to some sweet gorgeous guy with a gut....
P.S. my GOD THIS POST IS SO RIGHT ON!!!!
If a guy finds you wonderful in every other way but hesitates because of your weight, run like hell. It's amazing to me that guys will put up with verbal abuse, lying, ****iness, cheating and other demeaning behaviors if the woman is 'thin and beautiful'. But heaven forbid that the ideal woman comes along and isn't good enough for him because her appearance isn't up to his standards. Get rid of him, stick to men who either appreciate your weight, or don't give a d*** because who you are is what matters most. | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 2/24/2009 9:32:46 PM | After posting in this thread, I was inspired to google and find some sites with beautiful pictures of large women.
What an incredible thing to see beautiful, affirming pictures of people like me.
Every day, bigger women are faced with a serious dearth of postive images and information regarding themselves. It's constant, and I wonder if others like me just sorta suppress it.
Then when I come across pictures of others "like me"...it's so soothing, so familial, so comforting. For that time of viewing, I actually feel beautiful, appealing, and real. | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 3/6/2009 11:32:33 AM | | I'm only going to say this ...... Bigger is Better.... I do not have problems meeting new girls, but what I am looking for is BBW only. The curves some BBW have beats any skinny top model and average womens out there . I almost find them hard to find, and believe me .. I am searching. I have an athletic body , not because i train, just born like that. I already know what it's like. To touch a BBW that have the curves well developp ... let's just say .. THAT 'S MY THING !!!! ... | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 3/13/2009 3:29:35 AM | Did you see the Tyler Perry movie where Jill Scott's husband made fun of her and cheated on her...She found a very handsome guy who helped her work out, and she slimmed down. If he wants you to lose weight, I suggest he change eating habbits, walk, and exercise with you...It could bring you closer too...MK | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:30:42 PM | ....beeing in this category for last few years. Some man like almoust everything about me and they found my weigh as excuse,...well,..they can find anybody else, their choice. .First i was upset and was hurting . i was unhappy, but then i look at it from other side and learn to love myself. I accept my weight. I love who i am and how i look like.If i wan to hard, i will loose that extra unhealthy weight......
I do not have problem to find man for dating, presently i am in relationship for 6 months, he loves both: exterior and interior....but i am not perfect and in my age can't give him child...and that i can't fix,..he is still young and love to have family.....so again,....i am still looking for that right person, ho will acsept my weight, me and fact about..........not having child together...nobody is perfect and iof that person dos not love you with everything, he will find other excuse...
so, weight is not that hard to fix, loose or gain,...personality, intelligence, takes more time
Plastic surgery will not fixed you inside.
hm,..if anybody understand my rough english?...i can fi that, take some courses,..lol | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 3/18/2009 11:03:03 AM | "What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw?"
How about: Being attracted to BBW, in the first place?
You cannot change other people's preferences. There are so many men attracted to BBW, why go for those who don't? You might say: "Because I cannot control who I am attracted to." True! But it's the same with guys, they cannot control who they're NOT attracted to. That works both ways. | |
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| What does it take for a man to attracted to a bbw
Posted: 3/20/2009 7:41:47 PM | | What does it take for a man to be attracted to a bbw? As far as I'm concerned it would take a miracle, a very dark room and a lot of alcohol in my system, sorry... But that's just me, I'm just not attracted to bbw. Some guys are , so don't dispair... You can always diet and exercise, so it's up to you, not up to others.... I don't see myself starting out with a woman this way, but somehow if she gained weight later on in the relationship, I would still love her and be loyal to her... My baby could get anybody at the time, and my baby chose me... That says a lot... It proves to me that she really likes me a lot, and not that I'm all she can get... But that's just one part of the equation... | |
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