online dating service
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just u      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 3 of 3 1, 2, 3
 Author Thread: How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
 cinsav

Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 51
view profile
History
How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 8/6/2009 3:25:12 PM

BUT I have noticed a significant shift in most men's ideas about love and sex at the age of 30 and up. While most are too busy playing the field in their twenties (before someone starts protesting that I'm stereotyping younger males, I DO realize a "FEW" of you aren't like this--note the word FEW!) I think as that challenge begins to wear thin, they start entertaining the prospect of settling down and actually finding someone to share their life with.


And the droves and droves of twenty-something women who's second career is clubbing and bouncing from guy to guy? It's not a male thing - it's an age thing - for BOTH genders.


But seriously. I am fascinated by men's ability to completely fake relationships.


And I'm just as fascinated by women's adility to lead men on thinking they're chances for an LTR are solid, then at the last second she yanks the rug out from under him for the guy she's been flirting with at the gym. Again, this is an illness of BOTH genders. Women are just as guilty as men.


Then again, some just meet that "right" girl...you know, the girl that he can't believe his luck he found, usually beautiful, sweet and willing to put up with his shit


And of course men never have to put up with women's silly shit all the time? Right.
 purrtypurr

Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 52
How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 8/6/2009 4:55:34 PM
When he turns over every time after the deed and avoids cuddling with her....when he invites her over and tells her he has other plans hinting she must leave, after he got his....when he calls her just for sex on his own terms and wants nothing else to do with her..........that's usually an indication that he doesn't give a dam....
 IdRtherBeHiking

Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 53
How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 8/6/2009 6:39:33 PM
If he's around after the initial hot cant get enough sex period is over he probably likes you. Women play at sex for love men play at love for sex. Me i love sex

hahahahaha...nicely done.

mind, heart, body goes hand in hand, no? A good woman could rock a man's world and leave him shaking and begging for more. But can you do that if you don't have feelings to back it all up? And..can you have feelings for someone who doesn't put it out there for you, and really try?

Listen to your heart. Awesome...now I'm quoting 80's tunes. Hahahaha. 5 bucks to the person who can name that band and what year!
 yamahaforboth

Joined: 6/17/2009
Msg: 54
How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 8/6/2009 7:22:56 PM
When he shoots off on her face, gets up and leaves, you can pretty well guess it isn't love On the other hand, if he shoots off in her mouth then kisses her afterwards and holds her tight, he's in love.
 jacob8088

Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 55
How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 10/13/2009 8:37:25 PM
When he shoots off on her face, gets up and leaves, you can pretty well guess it isn't love On the other hand, if he shoots off in her mouth then kisses her afterwards and holds her tight, he's in love.


^^^Now this is hilarious....and of course if she happens to swallow every last drop, well that's just an added bonus.
 FLArmyVet

Joined: 10/6/2009
Msg: 56
How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 10/13/2009 9:20:31 PM
Wow that is a tricky one. Personally, I will not go down on a woman unless I am really into her. I would think every man is different. I would imagine the way he holds you and "makes love" to you, so to speak, would be a good clue. If I was to say, only be after a lady for the horizontal lambada, then it would be a quick, get it done thing and then find any excuse to get out of bed. Now while I have never personally done that (as it's really a F**cked up thing to do), that is how I would think some males handle it.
 Chitownguy40

Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 57
view profile
History
How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 10/13/2009 10:17:51 PM
You don't. At least not for a while. There are no risk-free relationships.
Page 3 of 3 1, 2, 3
 
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??