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| she has 2 kids 2 dif dads
Posted: 2/1/2008 4:04:50 AM | I have two children by two different fathers, 7 years apart. My first child's father did a bunk when I ws pregnant. Should I therefore never have had any other children in order to be able to say 'I only have one child by one father'. Nope.
Both my kids are happy, healthy and well-adjusted. I have never been unemployed, I am solvent, own my own house, car etc. Does that sound like baggage or the story of a strong women who any man would be proud to be with?
I'd have liked to have said 'give the girl a chance' but I don't think you deserve her. | |
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| she has 2 kids 2 dif dads
Posted: 2/1/2008 4:06:25 AM | I think you need to meet up and then make up your mind, you can't create a impression of somebody based on how many children they have, and if they are with different fathers.
My mother has three children and we all have different fathers.
I haven't judged that, just understood the circumstances. I think in a ideal world children with the same father would be much better and easier. But generally you cant ever know whats going to happen, or what your partner/husband is going to do.
If she is that lovely, just bite the bullet, but keep an open mind.
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| she has 2 kids 2 dif dads
Posted: 2/29/2008 12:00:37 PM | | To reply to Kirkey and his message post I will say this: She is a good looking 40's woman. At least give her the benefit of the doubt and enjoy her for a few weeks. Apparently this BLONDE doesnt get the facts behind the two messed up "relationships". I may have 2 children but they are from ONE woman that was a 5 year relationship. I hope she allows the children to see their fathers.Hopefully she has learned from these experiences and is able to move on. Peace,God bless. | |
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| she has 2 kids 2 dif dads
Posted: 3/1/2008 1:20:19 AM | TIGER WOOD !,
First of all if this lady was as promiscuous as you seem to think, then you should have worked out your math a lot better, she would have had 8 kids by now, not just 2!!!
Secondly, as you seem to so strongly argue, two different parents are not always better than one, as statistics show. Sometimes marriages do not work out and the kids are better off being with one parent who gives them a happier life. I think that you should become a volunteer helping out kids in Children’s homes prior to stating your opinions; you might learn something about life and stop talking nonsense!
People’s aspects of themselves that are passed on are called genes. But even genes may not be a guarantee that your kids will turn out OK, look at the population in jail for any crime and research their family backgrounds, not ALL of them come from single parent families.
Yes, lets leave Religion to one side, but surely as an intelligent man, which you seem to be, you cannot deny the legal rights of unborn children, it is called a HUMAN RIGHT. Imagine if we all took such drastic opinions as yours, but this time about race, because then nor you or I would be here today!! Who are we to decide who or what to have more rights over another!
It is obvious that you are not a parent because if you were, you would not make such an absurd comment. A child does not remind you 24/7 of how it came to be here on earth!!
If they do so and a parent does indeed feel negative thought when looking at their child, then that person should seek mental health help. Life is tough and kids without parents do question where the missing parent is, but that happens under any circumstance that a child has lost a parent, not only with kids who come from single parent families!!
I hope your opinion on this post is just that, YOUR personal opinion, because if it is not, I would be very interested to read your statistical source. | |
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| she has 2 kids 2 dif dads
Posted: 3/1/2008 2:15:36 AM | Well obviously you are perfect and have never made a mistake.(but do share why your marriage failed) For one their are no mistakes only lesson learned.,and children are NEVER mistakes. No one knows her story so don't judge her by how many kids or how many fathers. Walk a mile in her shoes and then see. Things happen in life no body foresees or they would never hook up with deadbeats that lie cheat and beat them in the first place and it would be a perfect world where you don't make at least TWO-mistakes in judgement and that hot guy you fell in love with turns into a woman beating ,cheating, DRUG ADDICTED ,control freak. So you stuck it out for 5 whole years and your kids are by the same parents !You get a gold medal. Or you can choose what Bob has behind door no. 2 but be careful that might be a mistake?But when you look at the facts you still have kids from a failed marriage. And what about the parents out there who don't deserve to see the kids they neglected and don't pay for.....If we were all just born with hind sight...fortunately I hope she learned from her so pointed out failed relationships and doesn't give another jerk 5 min let alone a couple weeks of fun...someone needs some serious therapy and I don't think it is "She has 2 kids from 2 dads"....get real people put down the stones...I think all of us have made a few more than TWO BAD CHOICES in our lives.But then again she could have made two other choices and gotten abortions and then had no visible mistakes as you call them....but then someone would throw stones over that.And yes I read every post from the begning and I see plenty of mistakes...I bow before those of you who have never chose the wrong guy...oh but this is a singles site or is it all full of mistakeless virgins without children?  | |
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