I'm just wondering what others think when they see a profile that's been around quite a long time who's looking for a relationship. Does it put up a red flag for you?
I've been on here for three years. For the few that have sent me messages, I wasn't interested and for the few I sent messages to -- they weren't interested.
You know, I enjoy the forums. If I find someone to date off this site, or I don't, it doesn't really matter. I'm not desperate. So when I'm browsing the forums and see the join date (which you don't see on anyone's profile), maybe they have a similar outlook.
I've got a couple of friends who have had lots of dates off this site. They are still looking. But they don't participate in the forums. I would bet only a small percentage likes to post here.
Regards,
Mac