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 Fid Copya
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 51
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does being smart make me unattractive??

Only to those with fragile egos.

Intelligence is sexy. If the woman is more intelligent than I am, then she's also sexier. No so bad, imho.
 jenzagirl
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 52
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 8:02:24 AM
A substantial brain is a beautiful thing.
 prettygrl
Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 53
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 10:35:43 AM
as much as i would love to say brains are everything i think you have to have some amount of physical attraction to the person as well
 Phresh
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 54
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 2:56:08 PM
brains vs beauty.... both are important but i cant say ive ever been attracted to a womans brain. and ive never walked up to quiz someone based on they're looks. bottom line is if im gonna be with someone, ive gotta be attracted to them. if im not attracted to them in the first place then it doesn't matter how smart they are.. it wont work.
 bugsybears
Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 55
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:16:02 PM
i'd have to say beauty. the attraction is always what comes first and then you find out the rest later.
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 56
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:39:08 PM
I 'know' a guy can grow on me (as long as he is not skinny or 'overly' the other way - sorry, we all have our problems ), so looks are not really an issue. Mixing two forums together here... I 'may' sleep with someone I am attracted to, on a first date (but I don't usually meet 'anyone' from the net), if I was feeling rampant but I would only do that, because 1) I am bored of being sensible and 2) because I know from experience that, that person is likely to be dangerous and not very intelligent. If I want to get to know someone however and I am interested in something much more fulfilling, it's best to keep the sex out of it, I find. However, once 'they' get to know 'me'...... sex is out of the question anyway and it becomes that "will you be my friend and hold my hand forever!" situation :-s *sigh*.

((((((( No! I will not! )))))))))))

No win situ? :-s <<<<<<<<<<<<< still working on it!!! lol.



(answers on a postcard again?)

Given my first sentence, there is one statement from a man, that really puts me off them and it's this: "I just didn't fancy her anymore". <<<<<<<<<< What on earth is 'that' about, when you love someone? (Obviously they never did in the first place, it's not important to them or they are incapable. )
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 57
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:41:08 PM
Oh..... and by problems I meant me, over the skinny thing. Soz skinny guys
 Sherryberry67
Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 58
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:47:28 PM
hands down for me it's brains... looks are all good and well but if they don't have the brains too it's not even going to remotely attract me.
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 59
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:58:28 PM
You're so cool and schweet, 'schweetassdoll'

 chels2
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 60
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:52:15 PM
Thanks guys for all your opinions....its given me some insight to society and how it isn't as shallow as it portrays to be!!!
 LEXI_IS_TROUBLE
Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 61
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:56:12 PM
i say brains, because i dont care how good looking someone is, if they are a mental midget, i just feel this incredible need to bury them in my backyard.
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 62
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:59:40 PM
Well done Chels. Me too.
 ashley1861
Joined: 11/6/2004
Msg: 63
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Posted: 2/23/2005 6:23:24 PM
Brains because when the old body doesn't do what you want it to anymore and the stooped gait is looking poorly - the brain and conversational ability is what carries you through to the end of him.
Repect is what it amounts to
And I don't respect stupid people.
 HeavenLeigh
Joined: 1/15/2005
Msg: 64
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 8:13:16 PM
I couldn't settle until i found someone with both brains and looks. They do exist...somewhere. :)
 HeavenLeigh
Joined: 1/15/2005
Msg: 65
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/23/2005 8:14:43 PM
only to a fool
 lateā„¢
Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 66
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Posted: 2/24/2005 1:42:45 AM
@ Ash

I love your brain, .....and all the bits attached to it.
 artistca71
Joined: 4/17/2004
Msg: 67
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/24/2005 4:13:33 AM
Beauty. Ignorance is bliss. Best of both worlds.
 artistca71
Joined: 4/17/2004
Msg: 68
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/24/2005 4:16:03 AM
On a serious note, though, I do have to agree with the "mental midget" comment. My hubby is attractive and a hell of a thinker. So it's all good for me.
 JaysonC
Joined: 2/8/2005
Msg: 69
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/24/2005 4:22:26 AM
Yeah, sometimes you get that icing that's made from pure icing sugar and it tastes like crud... :) I've never had a girl who tasted like icing sugar though...chocolate sauce maybe...but that was after...well, nevermind.

Definately brains...at some point you have to talk to a girl, and regardless of how good they look it would be nice to have conversation beyond "I like shoes, sunshines and marigolds.."

I think I mentioned in another post the last girl I dated tried to argue with me that water turned blue when it was frozen (cause I questioned about the end of 'The Day After Tomorrow' how hardly any [if any] water was frozen from the satellite view, yet they were clearly walking on frozen water to get to the helicopters). She also argued that cracking your knuckles all of the time is not unhealthy in any way, shape or form, because a girl who works at the local coffee shop told her so. I know if I were a doctor I'd stop practicing medicine to sell coffee.

So yeah, brains...though to be partially shallow, I'd like to find someone who's cute with brains... I had one once, but she slipped away (too much chocolate sauce maybe) ;)
 ashley1861
Joined: 11/6/2004
Msg: 70
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Posted: 2/24/2005 5:14:16 AM
To Late: I luv your Big Brain too and can't wait to kiss all the rest of it.
javascript:smilie('') kiss for your brain & handsomeness...
 Jazzy1962
Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 71
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Posted: 2/24/2005 12:31:12 PM
Beauty will open the door, but to maintain a relationship, there has to be more.
"Attractive" say it again "Attractive", then you will attract people, the trick is to be able to hold onto someone once you've found them. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.
Regards Jazz
 exavier
Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 72
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/24/2005 1:04:56 PM
Brains dont matter....
It s about the eye candy on my arm.

Joking.
I am going to go with brains.
 bds4711
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 73
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 2/24/2005 1:20:10 PM
Brains.

I can't respect a person that is a complete moron, no matter how good looking they are. But, I also must be attracted to a person as well.
 VictorWill
Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 74
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Posted: 2/24/2005 3:52:42 PM
Me.
 harrys80849
Joined: 2/1/2005
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Posted: 3/1/2005 3:27:59 PM
A Good Loving Heart
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