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does being smart make me unattractive?? Only to those with fragile egos.
Intelligence is sexy. If the woman is more intelligent than I am, then she's also sexier. No so bad, imho. | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/23/2005 10:35:43 AM | | as much as i would love to say brains are everything i think you have to have some amount of physical attraction to the person as well | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/23/2005 2:56:08 PM | | brains vs beauty.... both are important but i cant say ive ever been attracted to a womans brain. and ive never walked up to quiz someone based on they're looks. bottom line is if im gonna be with someone, ive gotta be attracted to them. if im not attracted to them in the first place then it doesn't matter how smart they are.. it wont work. | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/23/2005 3:39:08 PM | I 'know' a guy can grow on me (as long as he is not skinny or 'overly' the other way - sorry, we all have our problems ), so looks are not really an issue. Mixing two forums together here... I 'may' sleep with someone I am attracted to, on a first date (but I don't usually meet 'anyone' from the net), if I was feeling rampant but I would only do that, because 1) I am bored of being sensible and 2) because I know from experience that, that person is likely to be dangerous and not very intelligent. If I want to get to know someone however and I am interested in something much more fulfilling, it's best to keep the sex out of it, I find. However, once 'they' get to know 'me'...... sex is out of the question anyway and it becomes that "will you be my friend and hold my hand forever!" situation :-s *sigh*.
((((((( No! I will not! )))))))))))
No win situ? :-s <<<<<<<<<<<<< still working on it!!! lol.
(answers on a postcard again?)
Given my first sentence, there is one statement from a man, that really puts me off them and it's this: "I just didn't fancy her anymore". <<<<<<<<<< What on earth is 'that' about, when you love someone? (Obviously they never did in the first place, it's not important to them or they are incapable. ) | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/23/2005 3:47:28 PM | | hands down for me it's brains... looks are all good and well but if they don't have the brains too it's not even going to remotely attract me. | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/23/2005 5:56:12 PM | | i say brains, because i dont care how good looking someone is, if they are a mental midget, i just feel this incredible need to bury them in my backyard. | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/23/2005 6:23:24 PM | Brains because when the old body doesn't do what you want it to anymore and the stooped gait is looking poorly - the brain and conversational ability is what carries you through to the end of him. Repect is what it amounts to And I don't respect stupid people. | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/24/2005 4:16:03 AM | On a serious note, though, I do have to agree with the "mental midget" comment. My hubby is attractive and a hell of a thinker. So it's all good for me. | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/24/2005 4:22:26 AM | Yeah, sometimes you get that icing that's made from pure icing sugar and it tastes like crud... :) I've never had a girl who tasted like icing sugar though...chocolate sauce maybe...but that was after...well, nevermind.
Definately brains...at some point you have to talk to a girl, and regardless of how good they look it would be nice to have conversation beyond "I like shoes, sunshines and marigolds.."
I think I mentioned in another post the last girl I dated tried to argue with me that water turned blue when it was frozen (cause I questioned about the end of 'The Day After Tomorrow' how hardly any [if any] water was frozen from the satellite view, yet they were clearly walking on frozen water to get to the helicopters). She also argued that cracking your knuckles all of the time is not unhealthy in any way, shape or form, because a girl who works at the local coffee shop told her so. I know if I were a doctor I'd stop practicing medicine to sell coffee.
So yeah, brains...though to be partially shallow, I'd like to find someone who's cute with brains... I had one once, but she slipped away (too much chocolate sauce maybe) ;) | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/24/2005 5:14:16 AM | To Late: I luv your Big Brain too and can't wait to kiss all the rest of it. javascript:smilie(' ') kiss for your brain & handsomeness... | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/24/2005 12:31:12 PM | Beauty will open the door, but to maintain a relationship, there has to be more. "Attractive" say it again "Attractive", then you will attract people, the trick is to be able to hold onto someone once you've found them. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. Regards Jazz | |
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| WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY?? Posted: 2/24/2005 1:20:10 PM | Brains.
I can't respect a person that is a complete moron, no matter how good looking they are. But, I also must be attracted to a person as well. | |
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