| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/9/2007 2:35:55 AM | I have a confession to make. I was a closet cuddler. For years I lived in shame, but with the help of a good woman I was finally able to come out of the closet. Now I can say with pride I LOVE TO CUDDLE!!! | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/9/2007 2:45:49 AM | lol above.
Its depends on the cuddlee. I mean if its Angelina Jolie. I would like to cuddle for days on end. If its Rosanne Barr. I would rather cuddle with a porcupine, lol Or if she were Paris Hiltonish. I would be afraid to cuddle. Might break her or summin. Eat a sandwich girl, damn.  | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/9/2007 4:16:44 AM | OP
Sure, men can enjoy cuddling with someone they are attracted too.
Not all men do it, might show a weakness.
Cuddling can be comforting | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/9/2007 4:36:59 AM | One of my favourite pastimes.
Cuddling can serve a number of functions: Reassurnce, simply relaxing close to someone, showing you love and care, someone showing you that they care, or as a pre-lim for (ahem) more athletic events.
Good locations: On a quiet beach, by a living room fire watching TV, around a campfire, and in bed.
Love it! A 'sharing' moment!
PS Maybe it's cos I'm European I have no hang-ups about this. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/16/2007 1:33:47 AM | | I love cuddling. There's nothing better than the feel and the warmth of the person you care about. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 9:56:50 AM | I was told by a male friend of mine that guys love to cuddle if it will lead to sex... but that after sex is done, some men don't even want to be touched.... they cuddle only because they feel that they have to so they don't hurt our feelings, but the real truth is that they are done and would rather get up watch tv or something other that continue to cuddle.
Guys am I right? or Wrong? be honest..... | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 10:07:25 AM | | i can't speak for the other guys, but i know i love to cuddle, theres nothing like watching a movie with your girl in your arms or right before bed where you are settling down and recaping your day and you got your arm draped over her thats where the good stuff is | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 1:17:44 PM |
but you're both suave, European, younger men! Maybe you're the exception?
Nope my bf is Canadian and 38 and loves to cuddle.
Like other posters have said there is nothing better than cuddling up with a loved one to watch a movie, listen to music or whatever. Ok maybe there is ONE thing better | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 1:35:30 PM | | I think that you should expand the question to : Do humans enjoy physical contact. When I have a girlfriend, usually we spend the afternoon either rotting our brains out watching a video, or listening to music while cuddling. Besides it's communication without engaging the frontal lobes. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 1:38:02 PM | personally i really do.the last girl i was dating really liked it too.so i was in heaven when it came to that.lol
i couldnt be with a women who wouldnt want to cuddle.its part of being affectionate for me. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 1:42:46 PM | | 'misscasual36' your wrong.personally when i cuddle its not just cause i want it to lead to sex.im sure some guys just like to cuddle to get the women in the mood for intimacy but not all of us guys are so cheap. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 1:51:56 PM | | I love to cuddle. Curled up on the sofa or while watching a movie in bed. But then something happens. She will move a certain way or I will pick up the sent of her shampoo. Then slowly I begin to transform into a hideous monster. I can’t help it! It’s as if there was a full moon and I was marked by the beast…… And what was innocent cuddling for me turns to something much more personal. It’s not my fault really! | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 1:56:48 PM | | When I was younger, I think I processed cuddling as a warm-up and an after-glow thing. Now that I am older I like it, in and of itself, but nowadays, time is so short there doesn't seem to be enough time for that and everything else that seems to get on the agenda. Other things have changed completely over the years as well, that track with this. When I was younger there was more stamina. Now I find I would rather just take a good long time to do things and make it more of an experience than an action. If that makes sense. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/19/2007 3:09:51 PM | | I think most men, or should I say, most men that I have met/dated - like to cuddle - when they find someone that they want to cuddle. I have met men that cuddling with them never crossed my mind - so I think its about an attraction to being with a specific person. I met one man and when we talked after a few dates, was told that from the first moment we met, all he wanted to do was to kiss and hold/cuddle me and I thought that was an awesome compliment. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:45:42 AM | | The truth is there are alot of guys that will put up with cuddeling to get what they want later. But there are also a few that love to cuddle cause they just love being with the person and dont care about after, only whats happening right then. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/21/2007 10:19:01 AM | | We say we like to cuddle and we will cuddle if it gets us what we really want....breakfast in the morning. I have to say that cuddling leads to sex as well so to recap...pay attention now... cuddling= breakfast and sex. Did you get that? Breakfast AND sex. What a great invention to make the female mind feel at ease and safe. Remember ladies, if the next guy you meet wants to cuddle, really he just wants to eat...and have breakfast in the morning.... | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/21/2007 11:43:16 AM | geez ... hope you dont bring the 44 into the sack.......... maybe yer packin a different rod...... | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/21/2007 3:13:27 PM | bcexpat - I really liked your reply - thanks for the male perspective. You say, cuddling = breakfast and sex...................in that order? I have not yet met a man that from his cuddling has inspired me to want to cook breakfast for him.......hmmm......what to say?
However its going to take a very special man with very special talents and a lot more than cuddling for me to be making him breakfast...........wink, wink............as quite often the quality of cuddling and kissing winds up closing the door for anything else going on for me anyway. Picky you say?? You bet your a$$.............. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/21/2007 3:25:48 PM | | the simple answer is, Yes. Obviously, just like the women who like to cuddle (and believe me, speaking from experience, not all do), the level and type of cuddling that is enjoyed and what it leads to, if anything, is very much up to the individuals. I'm sure some guys put it in their profiles because they think it is expected, but it's probably something about which ladies should believe the guys are being truthful. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle?
Posted: 5/21/2007 4:05:02 PM | of course, men like to cuddle, speaking for myself, I like to smell clean hair and just lying together without a care in the world...
Bill in Oakville | |
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