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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/26/2007 2:50:09 AM |
Mmmm lots of cuddlers on here!! How come all the cuddlers are single??
I'm not single. I stay here for the good forums. My other half knows I'm here and even sees what I post if she so chooses.
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/26/2007 4:04:22 AM | yes- but probably depends on the time, and what he is doing at that moment.He wouldn't be in a cuddling mood , if he were mowing the yard, in 90 degree heat! i wouldn't be either- too hot!! I would be drinking my lemonade, in my air- conditioned comfort, looking at my dear ziz-zagging all across the lawn, through the picture window, admiring him. Afterwards, after shower, yes cuddling would be on ... | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/26/2007 4:07:54 AM | | I cannot speak for all the guys but as for myself I love it. Nothing better than cuddling on the couch watching a movie or TV show | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/26/2007 5:42:52 AM | I'm a pure cancer so i'm a natural cuddler...although I like to maintain some form of dignity and prefer to call it "grasping" lol. Sounds more manly that way  | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/26/2007 8:04:35 AM | Words I hate in a profile............. Cuddle...............usually means someone less active than me, bowling....... smoke & drinks inside.......... country music.......... sorry, just not my thing,
what I like to see.......... nature, walks, kayaking, art, theater (not movies), 5 star.....under the stars............
just me........and hell, I'm single............... what do I know ????? | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/26/2007 8:43:29 AM | This man likes to cuddle. That's why I like cuddly women. Nothing worse than bony bits sticking into you to ruin the mood.
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/26/2007 2:55:55 PM | | All the men I've been with have been very affectionate and "cuddly". There are so many stereotypes out there, but I don't think men are so different than women when it comes to affection and love. Even the self-professed "hard" guys I've known in my past have cried, had their hearts broken, wanted to be loved and held. I'm now able to appreciate that side of men, so when a man feels comfortable enough with you to show that side of himself, it can melt your heart. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/27/2007 1:33:34 PM | | i've been curious about this subject. do men just put "luv to cuddle" on their profiles because they think women want to see that ? | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/27/2007 8:17:18 PM | | Sillyclownfish, I don't because I want a woman who wants the same things I do. At least the more important things. A woman who doesn't like to cuddle could be a deal breaker with me. Unless you are a player, why lie?m It will only hurt you in the end. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/27/2007 9:12:42 PM | ok personally I love to cuddle. kick back on the couch cuddle up and watch a movie. Hold her close in bed as you talk etc. Yup, I'm a cuddler.  | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/27/2007 11:57:45 PM | | I love to cuddle. But only naked. I love skin on skin. I could seriously not leave the bed the entire day and just cuddle naked and be totally content and happy. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/28/2007 2:29:12 AM | no, Cuddling is just a cuter way of saying the wanna get in them panties. lol. I mean seriously. Women like to cuddle not men. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/28/2007 4:34:51 AM | Maria, your comment cracked me up. However, I am probably the only women that doesn't like cuddling. "Get off me, already !" LOL  | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/28/2007 4:53:42 AM |
I do. Women are awesome. Soft, curvy, warm... Why wouldn't you want to cuddle that!?
Guys who don't like cuddling probably don't like women in general. To them, women are just a step up from their true love -- their own jerk-off hand. Guys who don't like cuddling are usually to caught up in themselves to be of any real use to a woman.
I admit though, at times it can get too much with a clingy, needy woman who attaches herself to you like a disease and saps you of more strength than she gives in return. This is why self-esteem is attractive -- you know they're not gonna be sucking you dry like an emotional vampire.
I love cuddling, if the woman is giving a cuddle. Less so if she's taking it from me.
That hit it on the head exactly.....I have felt like and agree with this post 100%. Poster, we see eye to eye on that one. I was gonna reply the same thing in this thread but now I dont have too .....well except the last line actually. I personally like to give so Im not so much in the plane of only giving out when receiving back, sometimes you need to carry the load.....sometimes she's had a bad day and relies on you for comfort.....and she will do the same for you when you need her. Thats what partnership is all about, being there for each other. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/28/2007 5:00:55 AM | | I love to cuddle, to me its reassuring, shows affection, Im not a huge TV watcher, but used to sit with my ex on couch, she'd be nestled between my legs (clothed - get your minds out of the gutter lol) & Id read aas she watched her soaps, was a nice way to relax on an evening | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/28/2007 7:33:59 PM | Maria411 writes:
no, Cuddling is just a cuter way of saying the wanna get in them panties. lol. I mean seriously. Women like to cuddle not men.
Excuse me mam but who are you to speak for others? Everyone both men and women have their own preferences. Myself, I love & enjoy my time with my honey either before, after, or nothing to do with making love to each other but just the simple closness it brings to those who love each other. It's a wonderful way of staying connected. So please, speak for yourself and not for others.
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/28/2007 7:45:44 PM | Short answer: Um...yes! Gets uncomfortable in the summertime with no air conditioning, but generally with the right girl it's great. Sometimes you just want to squeeze the girl you're with because she's squeezable and fragrant, and you're damn happy to be with her. ;-)
I haven't read the other posts in detail, but I'm sure someone else points out that men think of cuddling as a prelude to sex. I'm not gonna lie, sometimes it gets...ahem..."frustrating" after awhile because other ideals get into your head, but in general it's quite nice even on its own. And let's not discount the post-coital cuddle, which is also very satisfying, calming, and builds a strong sense of connexion and intimacy. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/29/2007 6:03:06 PM |
Cuddling is just a cuter way of saying the wanna get in them panties.
Ah yes, that would be the reason! Because as we all know, men are only interested in sex and women only want to stop them from having sex. My god it's a miracle the human race has got as far as it has. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/29/2007 6:08:09 PM | | No, diffinitly not. They will tell you anything they think you want to hear. I love sports and hunting also.............Ha, Ha. | |
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/29/2007 6:34:42 PM | We're sitting around the poker table. Guy stands up, slides his chips forward, says: "Cash me in. I think I'd rather go home and cuddle with my wife."
Do guys like to cuddle? Sure; if it leads to something more. But maybe I'm just a perv.
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| Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 6/29/2007 7:41:42 PM | | As a guy, I feel cuddling is perfectly cool ... until the circulation in the arm goes. That's where I kind of draw the line. :-) | |
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