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 fame28

Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 76
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Posted: 1/30/2007 10:11:46 PM
First of All: If you want the ladies to stay away u should change the subject line. Or is this one of the things the Tom talk about? I have listened to him. And I completely agree with everything he's been teaching...So for any girls to hate on him.. those are the ones that he's referring to in his daily broadcasts...And that is why all of his rules do not apply to me.. Common sense..baby!
 r u looking

Joined: 7/16/2006
Msg: 77
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Posted: 1/31/2007 12:58:47 AM
First of all, if you are going to a radio station for advice, you need help, and even more than that Tom L. You need counseling. Last is that you have proven the point about most guys here on the site are just out to get , as you call it "tail" is true, and you are giving the good guys a bad name. No wonder the girls don't answere back.

If you don't have a picture, I don't answere, since I put myself up front and show mine. What are you hiding?, or hiding from.?
I don't think we need dating advice, as much as we need, caring , loving and honest men. Try that for a change.
 Designs4u

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 78
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Posted: 12/22/2007 8:52:13 PM
Come on do we have to take this back to the day of the cave man when he beat a woman that he wanted over the head with a stick and drug her back to the cave to have his way.I'm an archery hunter and I'd rather meet with my prey on its own turf face to face .The smarter the better.If you want to think on those terms. The counterpart is with time people get smarter.Male,female,color etc.It's time basically for equality .The problems are growth.
We now have Alpha male AND Alpha female.Figure that one out and Tom Lykus whoever he is will be out lol
 SeattleArtist

Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 12/23/2007 2:24:39 AM
I am one of the agelled minority of men who are looking for a long term, I dare say even marriage and of course a dating site is not the best place, but a bar or club is no better....

Now for us, smart, intellecut, nice guys, guys who are look not looking for sex, and in my case, will TURN DOWN SEX IF OFFERED, we are in a catch 22. Women my age dont like nice guys. We are boring, dull, not fun to be around. This Radio jock has it right, no matter how awful it is, for singles my age, bad boys are the way to go for fun times but dont expect them to settle down in their prime. Nice guys like myself i think women in the back of their heads they want but are not ready for. Even the OP who talked about that woman who wanted a pic before a reply is very much reminiscent of the age of cyber dating that we all have been drawn into. Women and men would have their needs and wants met if they met ppl naturally or instead of like I had said in previous postings, a very small start and allow a foundation to be built and at the agreement of the two parties then talk about a meet up time, but more often then not it seems to work best when this pattern is followed.

1. First contact
2. Exchange of Emails for a at least a week or two
3. Chat Services for another week or two
4. First date
5. Second date
6. third date
7. forth date (last date before judgment as whether to continue to date or not)

Always allow a few days to go by between each date, or even a week for reflection. Talking to your date online is always good after dates. It can really help you get a feeling about what the other person is expressing and feeling behind the screen. The last thing anyone needs to do is to rush.
 susu_1wa

Joined: 2/17/2006
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Posted: 12/23/2007 7:41:20 AM
I like it. Except I would substitute number three for telephone chat. [Chat Services for another week or two] IM, email, texting, etc is a type of communication which by its very nature eliminates a lot of the essential elements of communication, voice, tone, etc. It is an exchange of ideas rather than an interaction between two people. I would prefer to keep the emails down to one week. I am not too sure if I feel the need to go all the way to the fourth date with some people. The guy must at least be hygenic and courteous to get to this point. You would be surprised at the men out there with bad breath, terrible body odor, and a mean spirited attitude.
[bad boys are the way to go for fun times but dont expect them to settle down in their prime.]
Something that younger women may not realize about "bad boys" is that they age badly. Some of them look years beyond their age when they reach their forties and fifties. If by chance they chose to change their lifestyle before it kills them, they have diseases like diabetes, heart disease, etc. Who wants to settle down with a man who looks like he has been rode hard and put up wet?
 SeattleArtist

Joined: 5/23/2007
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Posted: 12/23/2007 1:06:44 PM
Susu,

I forgot to add that in, yea a phone talking is important as well.

I would hope someone would be of good hygiene and have a good attitude or else why would they even make it to a second date lol!

I think you right on the effect of the bad boy life style but when you think about it, nice guys are often way ahead of their years in their personality, and life style and hence we might as well be 40 or 50 because our party days seem to of happened that long ago lol.
 Hiway-Man

Joined: 12/17/2007
Msg: 82
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Posted: 12/25/2007 2:27:49 PM
LOL F*ck have you looked at yourself latily SuSu. Your hardly looking good yourself. If anyone has beem rode hard its you. LOLOL Bet you'd do better if you swam the river again huh. LOLOL
 susu_1wa

Joined: 2/17/2006
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Posted: 12/26/2007 5:40:13 PM
Dear Sad Hiway man, You are the epitome of lacking in PC. Thanks for your frankness. You lend a breathe of fresh air to this world of PC. Thats Political Correctness. I know you are somewhat illiterate.
 ydymas1923

Joined: 11/13/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2007 8:07:54 PM
It would be nice if every one except each other for who they are not what they have and who they are. Please have respect for each other.
You don’t need name calling , if you went on a date there was no chemistry so move on , don’t take things to personal. If you really like some one or love some one and like to have a happy and healthy relationship, try not to change each other but to understand each other .
And for all the man you are smart you don’t need MR. Lykis to tell you what to do! Not every one or every date is the same, there are always some exception’s. I have listened to his radio show some things his right and some he is not. So go have fun,live in peace. Happy New Year.
 Two Hawks

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2008 1:50:18 AM
Hiway-Man.....(That is.....I presume you ARE a man?) Have you ever considered taking an anger management class? You have a little bit of an ugly attitude here and your hostilities are spilling out. They seem to be directed at some of the nice ladies here. I am curious to know why you have this attitude toward women. Could you, perhaps, tell me about this? There appears to be a lot of anger and hostility in your postings. You don't seem to have anything nice to say about anyone to anyone. You keep on posting your anger. You keep displaying that you are nothing more than a Net Troll with computer access. I strongly suggest an anger management class.
NIHI GITLI!
 susu_1wa

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 86
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Posted: 1/3/2008 12:48:15 PM
I reported him for his racist remarks and he got canned.
 SeattleArtist

Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 1/3/2008 2:33:09 PM
you go Susu, Ladies you should stay away from that dude.
 Two Hawks

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2008 11:21:18 PM
Su Su said:
I reported him for his racist remarks and he got canned.
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RIGHT ON! WAY TO GO! BRAVO!
 Two Hawks

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 1/5/2008 2:10:13 AM
The only problem is.....he'll get another screen name and be back with his trash again. I've seen this before on other sites. Someone gets booted and a week later they're back. Different screen name.......same M.O.
 peppy1um

Joined: 6/3/2007
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Posted: 1/28/2008 9:14:50 AM
Nice work everyone.......

I have heard of Lykis, but have never listened. I do think it a shame that all the radical feminists out there have ruined us who enjoy a little chivalry. I tend to be drawn towards self confident men. I have had it with spineless jellyfish with no strength. I think those are becoming extinct, much to the fault of feminazis.

My concern for guy's trying to transform to the Lykis advice, is it almost sounds like a little game playing, and worse than that, is you will be portraying yourself as something you are not. I can spot phony a mile away.

If you are looking for raw sex, listen to Lykis. If you are looking for something long-term, just be yourself and see who you attract. Wow, that was way too long!!!!!

Sorry if I was not suppose to post, poster!
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