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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 9/28/2006 1:12:29 PM | | I think your right, we do know what we DON'T want, but I think men can say the same thing. Yes, we've experienced marriage, kids, building a home, etc. For myself, I'm a better woman now, I want to focus on building a great relationship with someone that's also my best friend. I think we can focus more on the man now than we could before. I think the little things you don't mind anymore, you focus more on what's really important. At this time in life, lets have fun, laugh, have great sex, just enjoy life. | |
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 9/28/2006 2:24:49 PM | TY LonelyNcBaby: glad you could put in words what you are looking for in "your last love". We all have different criteria whether it be looks, brains, brawn, money, etc. But it appears to me that most of us want someone who is excited about "us" and able to handle all that it entails.
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:39:02 AM | i tend to date men over 40 for alot of reason, most are not immature, they are stable in there life, know what they want life, and especially know how to treat a lady, i want to be treated with respect and that is important.Most are trustworthy as well, not all i know, it goes both ways | |
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pasky
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Joined: 12/10/2005
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 9/30/2006 5:42:43 AM | Yes musicNme
A wallet... that's perfect...until
Muskoka says
with money in it...that's really perfect
Well ok maybe a Ferrari would be nice with the money and wallet. | |
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 8:55:09 AM | A wallet....that's good....but I look to see how many of his kids have their hands in it...and how many ex-wives have their hands outstretched !
Depending on what I see....I may run for the hills. | |
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:15:53 AM | nurcnurc and marieinottawa are on the same track I am. Plus whoever said "caring, kind and intelligent and i like a man with his own mind, a bit dominating i don't like someone too soft."
I don't have much more to add except that as a free, all grown up, mature woman I like sex just as much as the next hottie. If I want to I will (and he'll know), if I don't, I won't and there's nothing he can do or say to change my mind.
Does that sound as if it's been happening? Draw your own conclusions lol.
Happy Canadian Thanksgiving everyone.
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:39:34 AM | Saphire, msg 13, for the most part is what I want too...but I think it is asking a lot of a man. That's perfection, and I don't expect perfection, as I'm not perfect, myself.
Moraima, msg 18, you never cry??? I have been through death, too, (too much of it), but that isn't the only thing that makes me cry. I cry when I hear of a child (or animal) being mistreated, someone I know finds out they have Cancer or some other incurable disease, when I read something equally sad in the news. I cry with happiness when a child is born, someone gets married, or I hear that someone is in remission from Cancer. (I have even had a 'break up' where we cried in each others arms)
I DO want him to have morals...be honest, loyal, and trustworthy and definitely has to be my best friend. I also want sexual compatibility, and NO (unnatural) DRAMA! At this age, I no longer care if he has a job, as long as he can support himself.
I want someone who isn't fooling himself into thinking he IS still a kid..he can ACT that way, but still accept that we are growing older and will 'grow old along with me, for the best is yet to come'.
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 5:44:37 PM | | well im 44 hmmmmm let me think,a wee tad of alzhemiers setting in ok im looking for a great body tall and handsome a man whom can dress down and takes care of himself,and knows how to kiss and love from the heart | |
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 7:34:35 PM | I want a man like me, who tries to do something about things that make him want to cry, instead of sitting around like most people crying.
He wouldn't cry from happiness. He would be too busy enjoying his happiness.
Yes, I know. I am far too practical for most people. | |
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 7:37:44 PM | | I believe that most women over 40, want a handsome, kind, caring and sensitive man. Unfortunately, most of those men already have boyfriends | |
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 7:50:59 PM | I want a man to have human emotions.
However, when I read a profile that list a man being sensitive, I question what he may mean by that.
Does that mean he is thin skinned?
Is he saying what he thinks a women wants to hear?
When I think of the word sensitive, I think of sensitive skin.
Then - Does it mean a man/women who says they are sensitive reacts health wise to life?
Seriously posters, this confuses me.
By my defination of the word sensitive, I wouldn't want a sensitive man.
I would want a man who is balance physically and emotional so that life doesn't break him.
Of course, our bodies can break, but we have to ability to carry on and enjoy life. | |
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RJB888
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Joined: 11/23/2005
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:34:32 PM | | I have always dated men younger than myself. But now that I'm 48 ( a young looking 48 ) I find my self looking for for a man closer to my age that also looks young for his age, has a younger out look, attractive, but is in the same mindset as myself, relationship minded. It has been very difficult to find. Money, materials things aren't important to me as they use to be. Honesty, compassion, love for his family these are the important things. I'm not giving up I know he's out there some where. | |
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:44:18 PM | | OP, what do women look for in a man after 40? As you can see by the previous 5 pages, the answers are as varied as the shape of a snowflake. However, the wonder of it all, is that if she is serious about being in a relationship, she will tell you how to win her heart. All we need do is listen, learn and act. | |
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| What do women look for in a man after 40?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:47:30 PM | | Women over forty want what they expected to have when they were twenty.....a good man.....a man they could count on to always be there...to continue the faith in the man's words,,"I love you for better or worse". But those men turned into forty year old men who lied when they took vows and the younger ones try to imitate what they think they should be. There are no men anymore...just individuals who concentrate on their own needs/ | |
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