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lotslove68,

Well, you seem honest in your profile, that's for sure. So I think that's a positive thing.

Some issues to consider, and I'm going to be honest here, so this is not personal,

- Well the first thing I notice is your height. I wouldn't call you extremely short, but you are probably smaller than many other caucasian males in America. That's going to limit your dating pool some, lots of women like taller men, that's no big secret. Unfortunately the way you come across in your profile is short. There a long shot of you where you are scaled out to a ceiling and a door, sorry it makes you look shorter than you are. (Or it might make you look as short as you really are, which is just as bad) There is another picture where you are scaled out to the door, again making you look smaller. Then there are three pictures of huge speakers and what looks to be an entertainment center. Again, the perception could come across that you are trying to compensate for your size.

- Your photos, you've got two with tank tops and another in a distant profile shot. To be honest, no one can really make out your face too well. Without a closer photo, I don't know if women can fairly gauge your looks. The photo with white tank top, looks like you are pushing out your biceps underneath your crossed arms with your fists. I haven't seen that since the DVD cover of The Outsiders with Tom Cruise doing the same thing. The two tank top shots, sorry but it looks like a middle of the road compromise. It's not shirtless, but it appears you aren't cut up enough to be shirtless and have that wow women. So to be honest, not sure what you are trying to achieve with the photos, unless you wear tank tops/wife beaters all day long. Your physical build looks stocky, which only makes you look shorter, and the choice of clothing you are wearing in the photos make you look shorter. (Dark colors might help you some there) This might not be your desire or intention, but it looks like you are trying to compensate for your size in the way your photos come across. Maybe a different array of photos would help you more.

- You list "Long Term", which IMHO, looks desperate for a guy.

- You have Undecided/Open for children, which looks like you don't know what you want, which kind of looks desperate for a guy

- Your interests say "Self Improvement", and there's nothing wrong with self improvement, but it's not really a selling point for dating. It kind of makes you look like you have issues that are unresolved, and that's probably not attractive to women.

- Your career says Industrial Technician, you might want to discuss a little more indepth on what you do and your career track, so women can gauge out your earning power ( whether men like it or not, it matters)

- In your About Me area, you talk about 1) your faults 2) shyness, anxiousness, impatience 3) snuggling 4) romance 5) fear of regrets (which denotes fear in general and the perception that you might be regretting alot already) It doesn't come across as confident/masculine and sorry to say, but a lack of confidence/masculinity is Woman Kryptonite. Might help to talk about yourself in strictly positive terms, also using paragraphs might help you there as well.

- In your First Date area, you basically say you'll do whatever the other person wants. Again, reinforcing the idea/perception that you don't know what you want and that you might be desperate.

I hate to say this, and this is not personal, but you have what appears to be a textbook case of what a person, with seemingly good intentions, should not to do with a profile if they actually want to date. You seem like a sincere person, which I think is a positive, but it only tends to compound the fact that you'd almost be better off with a blank profile than the one you have now. Sorry man, just being honest here, I think it could use a major overhaul.