| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 12:21:04 AM | | yep ya said it big lol this thread is funny especially seeing how many people are picky to even when it comes to "bad teeth" but whatever floats their boat eh?, lol everybody is different. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 4:53:46 AM | | Thats defenatly a hard one. Teeth are a big issue to me to. There are 2 things I look at when I meet a man, their teeth and their shoes...lol. I feel if someone can't take care of their teeth then I have to wonder if they are really a clean person. Not saying they may not be a great person cause I am sure they are. A smile tells alot about a person in turn so does their teeth. BUT if hes a great person then why not try. Can't lose out on a great man because of his teeth, they can always be fixed down the road. But you have to be willing to accept him for who he is inside and if you can then you can get over the bad teeth issue. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 5:32:30 AM | | I am so sorry but if the teeth are rotting that means he doesnt take care of himself ....he doesnt take pride in his appearance. My opinion anyways..... There is a difference between crooked teeth and teeth that are gross. Getting your dental work no doubt is expensive but in our world your smile means alot in the business world.Your smile means alot so when u smile and u have teeth missing in the front or there are rotting teeth ....definite turnoff .... | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 5:38:05 AM | Shallow swimers, teeth can be fixed, the outside of the package is going to age with time also, the boobs will sag, the hair turn grey, glasses or contacts will come with time. The inner glow will always be there, you need to find out about the real person. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 5:40:41 AM | met this guy who was kinda cute and nice and we talked for a little bit =====================================
Just forget the damn teeth for a second please. I've just noticed something far more serious.
Youve said he was kinda cute but was he cute enough??
You said he was nice but was he nice enough.?
Cute is not vital but still helps things along. But "nice" is vital. Absoloutely vital. If you have your doubts that he's nice enough then that is an important reason to take your time.
Daggy teeth can be fixed. Nice is something in the depths of your soul. It's important | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 5:44:04 AM | I am so sorry but if the teeth are rotting that means he doesnt take care of himself .... =====================
Garbage Cutiie=
I've had two brothers lost all of their teeth to tetracyclin antibiotics by the time they were fifteen and they brushed the same as the rest of us.
I've got two freinds in their eighties who have never brushed and still have flawless teeth. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 5:47:36 AM | And even when it's a situation such as lobos, there's the stigma attached to those that take their teefers out at night. Can these peeps ever win? Methinks not.
================================ It's wierd Funny Girl
As you said, everyone gets so nasty towards guys who take their teeth out at night. But I've known six guys who took thier leg off at night and the only one who didn't have a gf was one who didn't want one. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 6:03:47 AM | I WAS PUT IN THAT SITUAT LAST MONTH, THE MAN WAS NICE, BUT NO MATTER WHAT I DID HE WAS NOT INTERESTED IN ME. AS I LOOKED UP AT HIM WITH A SMILE OR TWO I NOTICED HIS TEETH WERE ROTTEN, NOW I CAN NOT COMMENT FOR I DO TO 7 YRS OF ORTHDONIST.. LOSEND MY TEETH AND I WERE A PLATE. SO I CAN NOT BE A HIPORCRITE
IF YOU DO NOT FEEL COMFORTABUL KISSING A MAN WITH BAD TEETH THEY IT WILL ALWAYS GROSS YOU OUT.. MY DAUGHTER MARRIED A REAL OKLAHOMA AND HE HAS NEVER BEEN TO THE DEINEST IN HIS LIFE..
THE POINT OF THAT WAS.. WHEN YOU LOVE A PERSON OR YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO HIS HEART AND SOUL YOU MY DEAR... DO NOT SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH THE PERSON.
IT IS THE EYES I HAVE BEEN TEACHING YOU ALL ON THIS SITE THAT DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP... DO YOU THINK A BLIND MAN KNOWS IF YOU ARE UGLY OR BEAUTIFUL. DO YOU THINK HE KNOWS IF YOU HAVE BAD TEETH OR FRIED HAIR... HE CAN TELL IF YOU ARE FAT OR SKINNY TALL OR SHORT, HE CAN TALL IF YOU HAVE LARGE BOOBS OR ARE FLAT CHESTED.. BUT HE CAN NOT SEE THE COLOR OF YOUR EYES, HAIR, SKIN, AND IN THE END.. HE LOVES YOU BECOUSE YOU LOVE HIM.
I HOPE THAT HELPED YOU.. PLEASE MY DEAR.. DON'T JUDGE THIS MAN UNTILL YOU GET TO KNOW HIM. GO ON THE DATE MAMA SAY'S.. IF YOUR BEST FRIEND TOLD YOU TOO JUMP OFF A CLIFF.. WOULD YOU.. IF SHE WANTS TO RUN YOUR LIFE THE LET HER SHE DOSE LIVE ACROSS THE STREET AND SHE DOSE NOW HIS LIFE OUT SIDE THE DOORS..BUT DOSE SHE KNOW THE MANS HEART. DID SHE EVER GET TO LEARN THE KINDNESS IN HIS EYES.
I AS A MOTHER WOULD TELL YOU THIS.. GO OUT WITH THE MAN IF YOU LIKED THE DATE MAKE ANOTHER ONE. UNTILL YOU FEEL YOU HAVE HAD ENOUGH ANSWERS FOR YOURSELF..
HAVE A GREAT DAY MY DEAR.. MAMA LOVES YOU... BRING HIM A FLOWER TO SHOW HIM HOW BEAUTIFUL HIS HEART IS.. NOT ANY CANDY YOU ALREADY LEARNED IT ROTTS THE TEETH.. LOL  | |
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| Are all you women this shallow? Posted: 6/19/2006 6:11:17 AM | Laugh and enjoy your good fortune. I was born with what is called chalk teeth. not enough enamel. They never had a chance. Let alone the light green patina all the way through them. Even being a GM Executive, my dads plan wasnt any help. 12 yrs with major medical wouldnt fix them either, all I can do is wait until they get so bad I cant eat, and try to buy dentures. My wisdom teeth have the lower jaw neves run right through them, and its going to take surgery to the tune of 3500, just to pull them alone. No insurance will cover this, then or now. My dad had dentures at 18. And no, i havent smiled in 30 yrs. So now since crackheads are losing their teeth i suppose all of you think I am one? Think all you like. Perhaps I can arrange some dental work for you too... Regardless of your holier then thou attitudes, millions of americans have inferior dental plans, if any, and around my age will be faced with dentures, regardless of wether they can afford them or not. The last estimate i had for complete dentures, oral surgery, {hospital, not the dentist} and all was near 10,000 dollars. I am sorry, I dont have 10k to throw away, just to make you happy to see me. If thats what it take, well get this. I dont want to see you. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/19/2006 6:16:39 AM | Bad teeth are almost like a bad sole. So much of your oral hygiene can be linked or cause a lot of other health problems throughout the body, some very serious. Just look up gingivitis on webmd. Bad teeth can be a sign of drug use too. During a dark period in my life when I was hitting drugs really hard, because of the type of drug I was doing I ruined my teeth. They were still white, but damn they got cut up really bad at the tops near the gums.
Appearances can be important to some people and not to others. Hygiene should be important to everybody. If he doesn't look after his body well, what do you think his house looks like? Hope he doesn't own any pets because if he doesn't clean his own teeth, will he clean up any accidents from his pets?
If he's getting them looked after, I wouldn't let it bother me, just keep him on the hot plate so to speak until he has them fixed. If he's not getting them fixed try dropping a few hints, I dunnno buy him a toothbrush or something.
But you have something else to think about to. Why your friend told you to stay away from her. When I get told this by a friend, I ask why and if I don't get any reasons I don't pay attention to the warning. But after finding out why, I'll still go back to the person and talk to them, ask certain questions that could tell me if what I've been told is true or not. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/24/2006 6:58:14 AM | | i wonder why your friend said this for one..and 2..my gosh the thought of kissing him..if his teeth are that bad..his breath must smell like sewer water..i'd say..go with your gut feeling on this one...... | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/24/2006 7:16:26 PM |
Wheww....this thread makes me feel so lucky that I've never had to go to a dentist for any reason.
Trishnaa, It's kind of gross you haven't ever had your teeth cleaned. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/24/2006 7:24:45 PM | ^^^^Jeez....that is just stupid.The OP is talking about messed up teeth. She is not talking about going to the dentist for monthly or weekly cleaning like you are assuming. Therefore, I obviously meant I have never had to go to a dentist for any unfortunate reason such as dentures/braces or anything like that.Wasn't that obvious, Mr. Smartypants??You know, thankfully I was blessed with perfect teeth if not anything.Lol...if I never had my teeth cleaned, why would it look white?!You are just making no sense.
Or are you just trying to get a rise out of me??????Now it makes sense why people attack my post instead of 100s other.Very weird.
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/24/2006 8:13:26 PM | I guess there are a host of reasons his teeth could be in that kind of condition.
This is not just about aesthetics...the state of his teeth (and the warning given to you) is more importantly about indications about/implications of the kind of person he could be and so forth.
Yeah I would steer clear...sounds like he is most likely a chronic drug user...perhaps meth? If one goes to the dentist as needed for weak enamel or the like...no way their teeth would be BLACK and ROTTING...
Sorry but that sounds shady and illogical (unless someone was a former drug user and can't afford a dental plan to get their teeth taken care of). Plus let's be honest...black rotting teeth aren't sexy, appealing or pleasant. There's nothing wrong with saying that. You don't have to make him or anyone else a charity case just to appear "nice"...What's the point?
Thus...you aren't obligated to this dude in any way. Just be on your way. Simple.
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/24/2006 9:33:10 PM | She shouldn't be worried about the guys teeth, she's in a relationship(says so in her profile.) so why would she have to worry about the guy's personal problems? Save it for the chick he'll end up wanting to date in the future.
I've got a cousin who just had some sort of disease in his gums which made all his teeth just fall out as if they were nothing but marsmallows. Anywho lady, there's no need for you to worry about his 'yuck' mouth. | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/25/2006 12:08:17 AM | | oh jesuuuuus no not bad teeth that is one of my pet hates I no way could go out with a guy with minging munchers. I can't help but stare at ppl whos teeth are rotting it's grim and the thought of kissing them makes me wna be sick hahaha It makes u think their teeth would run out their mouth if they were to see a toothbrush and if it''s that bad then what's the rest or their personal hygiene like. I wouldn't care if a guy was nice or not either tell him the score or walk away LOL atleast if u tell him u are giving him a chance to sort it out xjx | |
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| Are all you women this shallow? Posted: 6/25/2006 12:19:50 AM | uh gmain
you can have that done in Ct. for about 3500$ pm me and I'll give you his office# 10grand is BS!!!
just so you folks know I have many friends in the dental industry and bad teeth do not smell..lol! bad breath comes from stomach problems and problems surrounding the tongue, never the teeth. | |
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| Are all you women this shallow? Posted: 6/25/2006 1:00:03 AM | i think the brain is a lot more important than the quality of someones' teeth.
if you really like him don't let his teeth stop you from something that could be really special | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/25/2006 1:08:34 AM | Well i must say it is sad that we are superficial but some things are just a turn off. In my opinion teeth is a big part of oral hygiene and i could not be with someone with a bad grill or breath because that just says too much, and i would feel uncomfortable with the whole teeth situation. I think teeth are a very important part of the body so no i would just not deal with it but good luck on whatever you decide. | |
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| Are all you women this shallow? Posted: 6/25/2006 2:30:12 AM | ReD RiDinG HooD..
I agree with you lol when you mention
"i think the brain is a lot more important than the quality of someones' teeth.
if you really like him don't let his teeth stop you from something that could be really special " | |
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/25/2006 1:30:10 PM | ^^^^Jeez....that is just stupid.The OP is talking about messed up teeth. She is not talking about going to the dentist for monthly or weekly cleaning like you are assuming. Therefore, I obviously meant I have never had to go to a dentist for any unfortunate reason such as dentures/braces or anything like that.Wasn't that obvious, Mr. Smartypants??You know, thankfully I was blessed with perfect teeth if not anything.Lol...if I never had my teeth cleaned, why would it look white?!You are just making no sense.
Or are you just trying to get a rise out of me??????Now it makes sense why people attack my post instead of 100s other.Very weird.
Well then we're in a mutual agreement because I think what you said was stupid. I know you were trying to sound holier-than-thou, but it didn't quite work. She's not talking about crooked teeth. She's talking about gross oral hygiene; rotted, crusty, nastyass teeth. You said you're glad you've never had a reason to go to the dentist. Having your teeth cleaned is a reason to go to the dentist. I'm saying if you NEVER went to the dentist (your words.) then that's gross. You can't possibly be that retarded to actually have typed "If i never had my teeth cleaned, why would it [sic] look white?" Orthodontists do braces, just for the record.
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| Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/25/2006 1:36:26 PM | ^^^Okay...opps....sorry...thought you were a Mr., because unless you are a lesbian in denial, I don't see why you would attack my post.Anyway, missy...I was not acting holier than thou, I was being sarcastic.Sure, it's my fault,I did not write down the obvious.But it's not my fault if you can't pick up clues.Sheesh.... Why are you getting so defensive anyway, do you have ugly teeth?!Lol.
"If i never had my teeth cleaned, why would it [sic] look white?"
As far as that comment goes, it was not retarded.It was sarcasm, something you don't seem to understand.I said that because the OP is talking about brown teeth, if I'm not wrong.So that's why I wrote that comment down about white teeth.Got it? Good! If you still don't get it, then please feel free to keep wondering.
Now lay off me or you can keep on arguing back and forth with yourself.I for one have no intention of hi-jacking this thread.
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