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 geddyalexneil

Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 226
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/13/2007 4:23:26 PM
Tell him exactly what you just typed. If he won't, I'll do it.
 crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 227
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/28/2007 2:21:57 PM
Tell him exactly what you just typed. If he won't, I'll do it.
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You, me, and almost all of us.
She doens't want us spanking her. She wants him to do it.
 davidmacdonald

Joined: 4/9/2007
Msg: 228
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/29/2008 6:18:38 AM
hi there from david.i was reading your profile where you would like to be spanked.you can email me to henrydavid_mac@yahoo.ca cos i can help you out with that okay.
 dragonshungry

Joined: 1/5/2007
Msg: 229
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/29/2008 6:32:37 AM
buy some panties that say "I like a good spanking" and give him a paddle! and play the naughty school girl... gets them everytime!
 DDay555

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 230
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/29/2008 7:44:49 AM


How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?

Ask him and explain it's a fantasy. If he won't abide by that, find someone that will. Having fantasies and acting on them is something that leads to a long lasting, well-adjusted sex life IMO.
 millibean

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 231
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/29/2008 7:53:13 AM
tell him you slept with his brother !!! lol no seriously take him to anne summers and look at the paddles tell him that being spanked might me nice and see what his reaction is..that way youll know if it s something he has thought about too.. maybe suggest you buy one... i speak from experience i once dated a guy asked him to spank me while riding him and he was so nervous he was tapping at my cheeks like it was a door knocker lol...proper turn off paddle is a great way of guarenteeing a great spank xx
 talula1018

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 232
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:47:59 AM
During sex say "I have been a naughty naughty girl, I think I need a spanking"
If he wants he'll take it from there!!! Hugzzzzzz Talula
 Nachogirlfriend

Joined: 5/24/2007
Msg: 233
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:50:58 AM
Get a riding crop and smack him in the balls... that should do it! Works every time.
~T~
 ReformedCatholicGirl

Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 234
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 8:27:43 AM
Well it can't hurt to ask... but it probably hurt when he follows through with a hard spanking! Sounds like that is the intent though...
 wondering1980

Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 235
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 8:37:36 AM
well find out what your boyfriend is willing to to and try....ask him if he wants to try new things...some don't try new things some do only one way to find out.
 nocalsingledad

Joined: 11/27/2007
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Posted: 1/30/2008 8:53:15 AM

tell me what it is that would make them want to spank a girl


Tell him to do it. NOW! Else there will be no poontang later.
 subbutnormal

Joined: 1/2/2008
Msg: 237
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 12:18:53 PM
Well I am a very open kinda guy and would love to do something like that!! Hell just ask!
 A Spiritual Man

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 238
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 12:45:43 PM
If your boyfriend begins to go off you when you mention your spanking fantasies/reveal your fetish and mild masochistic tendencies, then I'd be more than happy to step in and thrash you to within an inch of your life! Whatever turns you on love.

You know, this spanking quirk of yours comes from your childhood. Your Dad put you over his knee one day and proceeded to give you a whupping and you liked it.

If your Boyfriend gives in to your whip... I mean whim, then each time his hand stings your ever glowing peach, remember to say...

'Thank you Sir! Please may I have another?'.

Rusty.
 fancynanci

Joined: 8/21/2007
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 1:40:58 PM
Be a very, very, very bad girl!!
 kinkdude

Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 240
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Posted: 1/30/2008 2:28:18 PM
My vote is to wear the Parochial School outfit with the short plaid skirt, the Mary Jane shoes, and white socks. And don't forget to act bratty.
 garnet73

Joined: 1/2/2008
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Posted: 1/30/2008 3:41:01 PM
The oft-repeated phrase "just ask him," is both obvious and correct. The runner up sentiment "forget him, I'll do it," also has something to be said for it...

A couple of people have said if you want "an angry style" spanking the best way to get it is to make him angry enough to do it. I could not imagine worse advice to give someone. Even if you want to feel like your lover is angry, and really lay a smacking on you, you do not want to have a sexual encounter with someone who is actually angry. I know without even the tiniest bit of room for doubt that there is only one way my partner could make me angry enough to hit her, and that is by hitting me first. This isn't the gateway to a hot, ass-reddening spanking, it's a way to become single. I'll say it again, because it's worth saying again: deliberately making your partner angry enough to do something to you is a catastrophically bad idea.

You also don't want to tie sex-play to any "real" infractions. Like, someone suggested being deliberately late getting home and "earning" a spanking that way. Sure, that would work if you're deliberately late, and that's what you wanted... but what if you're late because you got a flat tire, you spent half an hour messing with the jack while traffic sped past you, and creepy people kept bothering you? I imagine most women (or anyone, really) would want their partner to show concern and offer comfort, not administer punishment. If you want to inject some spontaneity into getting a spanking, or an element or roleplay into it I'd suggest a clear, unambiguous signal that you're horny and would love a spanking as foreplay. Something like leaving your panties lying around.

Some folks have also suggested going straight for the paddles or other tools. If you're interested in being spanked, you probably have a notion (or even a kinky vision) of how much discipline you're up for, but I'd still suggest start "small." Once your boyfriend has a notion of what you want you can explicitly say "I need a hand spanking to teach me to behave." So, he knows to start with his hand. You can progress from there, depending on your tolerance and kinkiness.
 Jayderaven

Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 242
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 5:49:25 PM
Send him a copy of this post.

Tell him you want him to spank you.
 AManofAdventure

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 243
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:11:51 PM
Obviously you are not being naughty enough!
 TonyAlmeda

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 244
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 1/30/2008 8:31:02 PM
if you took my beer and rubbed against your clit and handed me a belt id spank you
 SlumberParty

Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 245
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Posted: 1/30/2008 8:32:41 PM
When he is doing you doggy style, just tell him "SLAP MY ASS!". And if he only does it once, say it again "SLAP MY ASS BABY!" Then repeat as needed! And if he isn't slapping hard enough just say "HARDER, SLAP MY ASS HARDER BABY". This should work like a charm, good luck!

Get a slap for me would ya?
 HandsomeGeek21

Joined: 4/11/2007
Msg: 246
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 2/2/2008 9:36:59 AM
Funny and great advice here lol take it. Ask politely or take it into your own hands.
 Angelnurse10

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 247
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 2/2/2008 12:39:03 PM
I just let then know I have been a very bad girl, and at that point, my naked butt just happens to be next to their hand. Works every time.
 harleyridingman

Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 248
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 2/2/2008 2:45:10 PM
tell him you screwed his brother
 SlumberParty

Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 249
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 2/2/2008 3:03:50 PM

tell him you screwed his brother


The OP didn't ask for a smack, she asked for a Spank. And a loving one. What is with all the lame ass answers like this?
 Edovaeels

Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 250
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 2/2/2008 3:44:16 PM
Tell his best mate hes got a big wlliy and if hes got any balls he spank the pair of ya

If ya cant cook me dinner on time, i spank ya
If ya ask me to wash up,. i spank ya
If don't do the cleaning,i spank ya

Why don't ya spank him first....see what happens, not to hard tghough ya might end up in hospital....if hes watching the football you WILL end up in the hospital.....start slowly and than slap him as hard and as fast ya can...if that don't get a reaction use both hands......do not at any stage shove ya ar$$e in his face....hes just had his dinner and ya cant cook propley...thats enough sh t for one night.....thank you.

If all that fails jump off the nearest bridge there be a few spanks on the way down....and hopefuly ya look better when ya get there.






Firm and fair

Come on get a sense of humor or ya will get a spank
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