| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 7/1/2008 3:51:08 PM | | Ask him....If that doesn't work write him a letter and stick it in his lunch box or wallet, he'll be so hot for you by the end of the day that you may not sleep all night. Most guys are not mind readers...ya gotta tell them what you want. Especially something like this. All the guys are hearing a lot about sexual abuse and harassment all the time these days. He might be afraid to try something without your permission... so give him permission. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/10/2008 8:39:38 AM | Um, I'm thinking, ask him to spank you. Better yet, tell him to spank you, esp. when you're going at it doggie style. That's always fun!
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/10/2008 8:48:14 AM | | Just ask him while your making love if your a bad little girl, do this several time while nonchalantly placing your ass in striking distance. He'll register the feeling and when he strikes go crazy as if this is the best thing he's done by far. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/8/2009 4:19:46 AM | It depends on how serious you are about being spanked. Do you just want to see what it feels like? Are you playing at it? Are you seeking a discipline, erotic or playful spanking? Do you know the difference? If you don't know, and he doesn't know that could be interesting - and risky. If you're serious and really think it would be an erotic experience (for you both), or you're craving it - like the posts above - then, ask him. If he's into it, and you don't know it yet, all the better. However, there's NOTHING more miserable or annoying than someone who spanks you out of obligation or out of humor ... a half-azz spanking aint no spanking at all. If he's not turned on, you will NOT get the end result you crave ... 
On another note, if this is something you two decide to explore, you have to realize that you must approach it in a respectful manner - yours and his; it's not about abuse, or bullying - just a sidebar - but make sure you both know what it is you desire, and what he's willing - or not - to do. TMI?  Bottoms Up! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/10/2009 8:16:31 AM | | i like both kinds.. sexual spankings that get me hot and real ones. takeninhand.com is a wonderful site about domestic discipline. check it! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/10/2009 8:36:47 AM | Careful what you ask for!
The lady I am seeing told me in the course of one evening:
#1 She likes to be dominated, sexually. She likes it rough.
#2 She likes to be spanked.................................I respected her honesty.
During the" act" later that night, I slapped her bottom, and she told me not so hard! I told her that if she wants to be dominated...she doesn't get to tell me how hard. Domination means giving up control. "DOMINATE" She called me the next day to call off our relationship. I shrugged and said O.K. NEXT!
She called the following week, and we are back together. But the subject of spanking has never reared it's ugly head to me again! I just don't like it!
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/10/2009 9:59:56 AM | Just ask him! I think that would be the general consensus on here. If you want it to happen then it is a real turn on for the guys. Mainly I guess that you are becoming subnissive and he can get his rocks off dominating you. It has to be taken one step at a time, we dont want him whaling into you to the extent that you cant sit down for a day. Or maybe that is what you want. The thrill of being over the knee (otk) is that you dont know when and how hard.
Hey maybe you still around to read this even !! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/10/2009 10:07:03 AM | | You could take the approch of "Monkey see, Monkey Do" Playfully or depending on your SO you could get a little rough. Remember some of us Guys can be slow in catching on to whats up!! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/12/2009 4:21:10 PM | | Shipoker, you're right! Careful what you ask for ... Something I learned early on is that some women (and a few men) actually think of spanking and/or submission/domination as more of a fantasy. And, when reality sinks in and they're actually on the "receiving end" of things, they'll back out quick fast and in a hurry! Not something to play at, unless you really, really know/trust that person, their body language, chemistry, and knowing if NO really means NO. And if one of you is not really all that into it, it's not worth being that uncomfortable. You handled it perfectly well. Don't bring it up again, and if it makes you uncomfortable and she brings it up, just let her know it's not really your cup of tea. It's not for everyone; not everyone's taste, and definitely not always what she (or he) thinks it will be. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/12/2009 4:24:37 PM | | simple just tell him u want to be spanked some blokes wont do it because they think some girls will run a mile the other way. chances are he wants to but thinks he will offend you if he does | |
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