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 kayliecat

Joined: 12/8/2007
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/12/2009 7:19:27 PM
The idea of the note in his briefcase or lunch box is pretty appealing...

How about a short text message in the AM while he's at work "I'm so naughty...I think tonight you need to give me a spanking"...

OH yeah...he'll be thinking about that lil text ALL day long...

Then greet him at the door wearing a lil red nightie...

No panties...

When you see him, ask him if he got your text.

When he nods, turn around, bend over, and pull your nightie up.

PRetty sure that'll get the job done....

Hmm... I'm kinda liking this idea myself. Might have to try it sometime when I have a guy to try it on. (prolly not a first date kinda thing though, huh?LOL)

Kaylie...the cat...
 Jashaa

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 327
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/12/2009 9:18:10 PM
I'll do it for him. Whats your address?
 SirSpankaLot7

Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 328
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/13/2009 8:11:53 AM
It sounds like KaylieCat has done this before.
 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/13/2009 8:19:11 AM

I love fantasizing about spanking and would like to get a real one, are there any guys out there who can tell me what it is that would make them want to spank a girl and how I can go about this. or any females who have gone through this with some advice.



Be a Baaaaaad Girrrrrrl!
 P C 1

Joined: 5/18/2008
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/13/2009 9:03:07 AM
YES guys usually like to spank the bottom of a women, so i guees you wouldnt have to ask or use many excuses.
my partner starts behaving like a brat, she usually dresses in stockings suspenders and heels this and her attitude tells me she wants a spanking, i sternly tell her to hitch up her skirt and bend over my knee, sometimes i order her to pull down her knickers and sometimes not!!!! simple as that. it always up with us making passionate love
 blowmydoorsoff

Joined: 3/19/2009
Msg: 331
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/13/2009 12:53:16 PM
I have been thinking about this and Ive come up with the perfect solution for ya girl. Here's what U do. When he's kicking back on your bed, ya run into the bathroom and write SPANK ME, on one of your butt cheeks and RIGHT NOW !!! on the other one. Then go back in the bedroom and lay across his lap. HA ! how's that for the perfect friggin solution. If he doesnt get that hint, then he's too stupid to have sex with, just kill em.


 RedHeadedVixxen

Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 332
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:20:48 PM
Ask him ? ? ? Works for me
 surely im shirley

Joined: 6/14/2008
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:34:49 PM
I read the OP....thats' it.

GAAAAGGGGGG! Attention seeking much?

Just ask him you silly @#!%#!
 cestlaviefemme

Joined: 6/17/2007
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Posted: 4/13/2009 6:04:42 PM
ASK!!LOL!!.....ex: ooo baby slap my @ss..or...oo ya baby spank me!!! LMAO!!
Sorry just havin fun! :)
 JAGLFL

Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 4/18/2009 9:04:08 PM
Whats up with all the HOT women in Ontario?

I'm no expert but;
You might want to work out a way to communicate beforehand, such as hand squeezes, and also a stop signal or word. Just in case things get out control. As far as getting him angry I think the term is called bratting. You must know some way to push his buttons if you have been together for any length of time.
 El_Mariachi

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 336
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/18/2009 9:13:30 PM
Ask him...

Just.. not while he's driving... learned that one the hard way!
 lololkevin

Joined: 4/13/2009
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:38:06 AM
lolololol good ideas FTW!:modhammer:
 Need2possessu

Joined: 10/30/2008
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Posted: 4/20/2009 3:34:35 PM
Wait until you are in bed, with him on top going at it. Conveniently leave your belt from undressing near on the bed. As things heat up and the noises start... and the beds a rockin...
Look at him directly and say point blank "Spank my ass NOW!!!" Don't let him side track for a discussion. If he balks, tell him" Just to do it, we'll talk about it later. "

We'll have classes on caning and electro stimulation next week. (GRIN)
 santeriasister

Joined: 9/10/2008
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Posted: 4/20/2009 6:26:52 PM
1. Take a visit to your local sex/leather shop.
2. Try out as many paddles as you can until the find the perfect one.
3. Pay for it.
4. Take it home and hide it under your pillow.
5. When your man gets in bed with you, take it from it's hiding place and say...
6. SPANK ME DADDY!
 parklabrea

Joined: 1/4/2009
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Posted: 4/20/2009 7:05:15 PM
put on a g-string and nothing else. as soon as he comes home start running around the house, smacking yourself on the butt, yelling, "i've been a bad girl!" throw yourself over the end of the sofa, with your ass in the air and cry, "who's going to punish this naughty girl?!" if that doesn't work either shoot him or become a nun.
 SirSpankaLot7

Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 341
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/17/2009 4:44:02 PM
Sneak out with your boyfriends credit card and max it out at Saks Fifth Avenue.
 ImAHotMess

Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 342
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/17/2009 5:56:05 PM
Don't ask. TELL him to do it. Throw in the word "Daddy" he may do it like he owns you. :) Hair pulling is fun too. Just a little extra thought.
 DAVE632

Joined: 6/17/2006
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/17/2009 10:29:59 PM
WOW, posting to a thread that's almost 4 years old. The OP is likely all growed up & get'er fanny whacked on a regular basis. Good on her!

For all the rest who read this topic with some degree of interest read pg 6 from my TRY THIS thread on Lit ..... URL below.
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For anybody who has tried the GSpot technique and found that it works AND likes a little spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO.

A good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her two to five rapid G-Gasms and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission AND the GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!" It is awesome.

Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based
body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Give her a few more (slower - softer) G-Gasms while you're doing the bum rub.


http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
 plaidass

Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 344
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/18/2009 11:02:20 AM
i spank all my women. not that i have any. but when i do have a girlfriend........yeah, she's gettin spanked. like the bad girl she is. tell your man to spank you. the problem with a lot of couples is there's no communication. if your fantasizing about that, then tell him. say,"boy you better spank me tonight, you know i've been bad."
 Forums001

Joined: 4/15/2009
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/18/2009 11:29:51 AM
OP tell him next time you two are in bed, on the couch etc having sex. Tell him you want it doggy style and then demand he spank your butt. I think most men love it when a woman talks demanding in bed.
 blowmydoorsoff

Joined: 3/19/2009
Msg: 346
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/18/2009 12:01:38 PM
Buy him a bunch of assorted paddles, whips and other sex toys utilized in spanking for x-mas. Then buy yourself a T-shirt, that sayz. " Ive been a very baddddddd girl" on the front. And "Why dont U spankkkkkkk me." on the back. With an arrow pointing down towards your butt. Ha !!!! Another ingenious solution ! U should let me spank U, Im doing all the work here.

Ummm OP, for real, occurs to me. U are having serious communication issues. Why in the feck, dont U just tell him, that U like to be spanked ?
 blowmydoorsoff

Joined: 3/19/2009
Msg: 347
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/20/2009 1:52:41 PM
update: The T-shirt should actually read. "I'll be a very baddddd girl." and the backside ( no pun intended ) should say. "If U spankkkkk me." Well I guess either one works. Nah I like the first one better, nevermind this post.
 southernlady22

Joined: 8/3/2008
Msg: 348
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/20/2009 2:59:03 PM
It took my partner a long time to realize that being spanked in sex and having your hair pulled, well just rough sex is ok as long as you want it. Talk to him, and if its embarassing to you to ask before hand, get in doggy style and just yell it out. He will be so into it he will just follow command- :)
 tmotts

Joined: 5/10/2009
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/20/2009 3:09:47 PM
tell him you like it
 KISS MY A$$

Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 350
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 5/20/2009 3:18:43 PM
Tell him if he doesn't do it you will find someone that will.. Now that gets me a good spanking every time!!!
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