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 DAVE632

Joined: 6/17/2006
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/20/2009 10:47:00 AM
WOW, sez a lot about how much people actually read the 15 PAGES of posts and not just respond to the OP's 1st ( and ONLY ) post. She coulda died March of 2006 and you'd still be telling her how to get her fanny tanned!! And such originality too!! "Ask him to." seems to be the main theme. Wow. Who woulda guessed it might happen that way???




 Cowboy4u2c

Joined: 9/13/2009
Msg: 377
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/20/2009 11:31:42 AM
Better late than never, but my response is that if you want anger involved, you're safer making it into role play, because I don't know anyone who spanks when they're mad...well not spanking an adult anyway lol. Communication is such a powerful thing.
 jacob8088

Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 378
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/20/2009 2:08:22 PM
LOL Never ceases to amaze me how some people are always hard up over others posts.
 Exciting1

Joined: 1/26/2009
Msg: 379
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/20/2009 5:11:50 PM
Show him the thread right above this one that says women like it rough
 Exciting1

Joined: 1/26/2009
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Posted: 9/20/2009 5:30:39 PM
oh now i've read more of the 16 pages, lol. heck i've run my OWN car out of oil, wouldn't want to do that to anybody else's car:(:( well, it sounded like in the beginning that this guy was going to be sort of abusive, not spanking for fun. she may want fun but i think this guy sounds a little bit scary. no, i'll disagree about asking him, in bed or out. what if he's somebody who thinks it's weird? what will his reaction be then?? he may not be, but he might be, esp since he hadn't done it. so if he hasn't done it, chances are he doesn't want to. men have a way of asking for what they want. every guy is different and he could be totally vanilla. if she wanted it and didn't manage to get that info before she got to that point, well, chances are they want different things from sex. one person will sacrifice. maybe other things in the relationship are worth it if that's the only issue on which they are incompatible. so if she values that relationship, she might not should ask. but, this particular guy sounded scary. dump him and find somebody who is into it, lol.
 Pleaser1965

Joined: 8/3/2009
Msg: 381
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/20/2009 8:52:15 PM
Ask your guy what he thinks about doing it?
How about you just tell him you would like to have it done to you.

If he is reluctant bargain a bit, would he like a nice bj, or something in particular?
Maybe HE would like to be spanked too, or something unexpected, keep an open mind.
If he will absolutely not do it and it really means a lot to you I dare suggest you find someone on the side to spank you if youare comfortable with this,but make sure mister stranger and you are on the same page where this is not going, buthemy expect a bit of something back, be prepared and be careful.
 TheReason_

Joined: 5/16/2009
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/21/2009 9:17:41 AM
Do something bad.


 KinChandlerAz

Joined: 8/13/2009
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Posted: 9/21/2009 11:20:40 AM
I'm thinking the OP isn't here anymore and she's resolved the spanking issue.

Let's guess what happened!

I vote she dumped him and met a guy who spanked her the first time they had sex, so she married him and is getting spanked on a regular basis. (a girl can hope, right?)
 revilors

Joined: 10/9/2008
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Posted: 9/21/2009 11:42:17 AM

I vote she dumped him and met a guy who spanked her the first time they had sex, so she married him and is getting spanked on a regular basis. (a girl can hope, right?)


You are so far off!

He spanked her and she realized it just friggin' hurts. But now he is into it and has opened an S&M specialty shop in the burbs and she is seeing a district court judge, Ernie, who likes to be bottle fed while wearing a diaper and bonnet when not on the bench.

She only spanks him when he is naughty.
 HadleyVBaxendale

Joined: 8/25/2009
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Posted: 9/21/2009 11:52:30 AM
Have you considered just asking him?
 2run

Joined: 7/31/2009
Msg: 386
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/21/2009 12:54:15 PM

I love fantasizing about spanking and would like to get a real one, are there any guys out there who can tell me what it is that would make them want to spank a girl


Call him by his best friend's name while having sex, but you might get more then you asked for so be careful.


Happy Hunting!
 amyala

Joined: 8/22/2009
Msg: 387
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Posted: 9/21/2009 11:49:48 PM
I can bet you...that you won't have to ask twice...lol....
 aaronzz

Joined: 6/19/2009
Msg: 388
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Posted: 9/21/2009 11:53:16 PM
if you told me to spank you, I would arch my hand back and put a 9 iron hand print.
 namcazam

Joined: 9/4/2009
Msg: 389
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/22/2009 2:39:50 PM
Just ask him I'm sure he won't refuse.
 Ependa

Joined: 7/16/2009
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Posted: 9/22/2009 3:27:26 PM
just ask him...not rocket science =)

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WOW, sez a lot about how much people actually read the 15 PAGES of posts and not just respond to the OP's 1st ( and ONLY ) post. She coulda died March of 2006 and you'd still be telling her how to get her fanny tanned!! And such originality too!! "Ask him to." seems to be the main theme. Wow. Who woulda guessed it might happen that way???



Well Geez Louise, Dave I've always found simple and direct the best approach in such things..and lol, I never read any of the posts (well usually never , unless I'm at a total loss) before I respond.

lol kinchandleraz =)
 pearlj

Joined: 3/1/2007
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/23/2009 9:11:00 AM
My guy friend says, "just do something fvcked up".
 hydroil

Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 392
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/23/2009 3:53:43 PM
!6 pages for a question that is answered

TELL HIM TO. call him a **** and see what happens.
 P.R.Handgrenade69

Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 393
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/23/2009 4:20:00 PM
The OP has probably been spanked a million times since 2006 and this thread is still going strong.

I have a sneaking suspicion that the Op's bf found her on pof and spanked her really bad cuz she's outta here.
 DAVE632

Joined: 6/17/2006
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/26/2009 10:56:07 PM
Lots of people just respond to the OP's original post without reading any of the 17 or 23 PAGES of responses since. Generally it makes the poster appear to be the same sort of retard who walks up to a group of people at a party and says something that confirms what everybody is already thinking about their IQ. Same as shoe size.


I've always found simple and direct the best approach in such things..and lol, I never read any of the posts before I respond.



And don't call me Louise!!
 serenity0202

Joined: 9/11/2009
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Posted: 9/27/2009 8:31:14 AM
ASK HIM!!!!

I've found that most guys are quite willing... but they're not mind readers.
If you want it... ASK. Same goes for the men. If you want it... ASK.
 GWSmith

Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 396
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Posted: 9/27/2009 8:33:34 AM
People always ask other people how they can get their lover to do this or that... how about ASK THEM.
 Turkish Snowcone

Joined: 7/23/2009
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Posted: 9/27/2009 6:02:12 PM
be naughty..........obv
 ellena.

Joined: 3/20/2009
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Posted: 9/27/2009 8:31:42 PM
I think you are nutz
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