| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 3:05:35 PM | --- how do I get my man to spank me? well when I am riding reverse cowgirl or he is taking me from behind, I usually just moan at him to "spank me baby"... works like a charm  | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 3:37:56 PM | | Some guys just can never do it. Your boyfriend might be one of us. You should consider advertising for it, just like you are doing now. I am sure you'll get a few offers in your mailbox | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 4:10:49 PM | Drop the pants...or pull the skirt up.... and give your butt cheek a firm slap.....while looking at me ..with your best mischevious look.
and baby.....watch out...you are gonna get it.
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 4:31:19 PM | | SexyEyes, I agree with the people who are saying ask him, and I'd also suggest that you think more about what you want from him and your relationship. Do you only want a spanking, or is there more (or less)? Is it just for fun, or does it really work for you? Be prepared to talk with him by knowing what you want and why you want it. Then, HAVE FUN!! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 5:05:45 PM | Tell him what you want! If you can't or you're too embarrassed...you shouldn't be having sex!
Tell him WHAT you want, HOW you want it, and WHERE you want it! Then slap him and call him a who*e!!!
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 5:17:24 PM | | lol that sounds good, he's actually the one who started this fantasy. one night a few months back we were arguing and i threw a pair of his boots across the room at him and he said to me "if you ever do anything like that again i will put you across my knee and spank you" i was scared of his tone at first but when i thought about it more in the next few days i would get turned on and fantasize him actually doing it. since then we have argued a few times and one time i actually provoked it and did throw something at him again i think it was a bowling ball ( lol jk) i dont want to hurt him! it was something soft and i didnt really aim for him, but he didnt take the bait and never ended up spanking me :( | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 5:36:58 PM |
when i thought about it ... i would get turned on and fantasize [about] him actually doing it. ... i actually provoked it ... but he didnt take the bait and never ended up spanking me :(
Yep, you've gotta talk to him about this. And, HAVE FUN!!! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 5:39:28 PM | jeez, i was kiddin about the running his car out of oil. -if you really did, he would probibly be spanking someone new.
easy thing to do is just tell him you want a couple of whacks on your ass. you dont necessarily need to sit him down in front of a chalkboard and explain the physics of it. or showing him your barbie playhouse with the little ken doll spanking barbie, -allthough trying to picture a grown woman spanking a barbie doll for her boyfriend sounds a bit arousing.
(have a few glasses of wine, get him in a dark room and show him what you like) i love it when a woman shows some initiative in the bedroom. i allready know what i like, now give me a taste of your kinky side, and dont spare any details unless your tounge is too tired to talk. then just show me... | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 5:54:52 PM | | Doing things to make your boyfriend want to spank you out of anger is liable to get you abused...trust me, you don't want to go there. If you are fantasizing about being spanked by someone angry, then I'd suggest you get counseling. Starting to venture into abuse in relation to sex is a slippery slope and eventually you'll be wanting more and more and it gets dangerous and very dysfunctional. My ex dated this woman who was in her thirties, and she had to be beaten by her ex-husband to get aroused...she said it started with some light wrestling around and spanking and over a few years escalated to beatings where she was black and blue on her body and face. I suggest not going there, but seeking counseling for your unresolved issues. Spanking for fun during sex is one thing, but wanting someone to get angry enough to spank you is just dysfunctional. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 5:58:48 PM | SexyEyes, Do an internet search on the phrase, "domestic discipline." I don't know if what you'll find there will be interesting to you, but it couldn't hurt to look.
And just for the record in case anyone reads this post later, this is not something that interests me personally, but I've talked with people who were very interested in it. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 6:08:49 PM |
jaya4cd wrote "Doing things to make your boyfriend want to spank you out of anger is liable to get you abused...trust me, you don't want to go there. If you are fantasizing about being spanked by someone angry, then I'd suggest you get counseling. Starting to venture into abuse in relation to sex is a slippery slope and eventually you'll be wanting more and more and it gets dangerous and very dysfunctional. My ex dated this woman who was in her thirties, and she had to be beaten by her ex-husband to get aroused...she said it started with some light wrestling around and spanking and over a few years escalated to beatings where she was black and blue on her body and face. I suggest not going there, but seeking counseling for your unresolved issues. Spanking for fun during sex is one thing, but wanting someone to get angry enough to spank you is just dysfunctional. " [\quote]
I agree with most of what jaya4cd wrote in terms of actual abuse or having to be beaten to get aroused, but I've also known some people who were emotionally healthy but were more than a little kinky and would get a bruise now and again. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 7:36:21 PM | "if you ever do anything like that again i will put you across my knee and spank you"
It's obviously crossed his mind so it shouldn't be difficult for you to bring up the subject again.
Or send him an e-mail, telling him all the thoughts you've had since he made that suggestion - ending with 'my bad, my need spanked' . . .
There's also plenty of web sites on the subject - which may interest him. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 7:37:35 PM | As many have stated, there are various types of spankings ranging from erotic/sexual to what I would consider out and out abuse. What you are describing sounds like domestic discipline with perhaps a little erotic twist. Basically, the thought of the guy in your life holding you accountable for your actions by turning you over his knee and giving you a good, old fashioned spanking is alluring on many levels. You may not even be aware of all of those levels currently, as you seem to be just discovering your interest. One important note, though...even if your boyfriend HAD followed through with his threat to upend you in the incident you described (which, of course, you wish he had), that does NOT mean that he would/should act in anger. Yes, you may feel his displeasure with your actions. He may be stern with you, but he should never touch you in anger - ever. Ultimately, I don't think what you are seeking is angry abuse like spanking, I think you are looking for that dominant, no nonsense demeanor of discipline.
All that being said, the first thing that might be helpful for you is to do a bit of your own research...work on understanding yourself, what is desirable to you, etc. Then, bring it to the table and discuss it with your boyfriend. In the type of spanking you are describing, you can't really initiate it without first discussing it. You are liable to lose your guy from your crazy behavior instead of get what you want. Just describe it to him the same way that you did here...tell him about that past incident, that you want him to follow through on those lines of thinking in the future. You might want to consider trying out a more playful spanking with him first as well. Once the lines of communication are open, everything will fall into place. The plus to this is that you know he will be responsive to your desires, as he is the one who initially threatened them. He may never have had an intention of following through with them, but it does mean that the concept of hauling you over his knee isn't totally strange to him. It is a lot trickier when the guy doesn't have those naturally dominant personality traits! Rather impossible, actually!
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 10:01:53 PM | | So far the general advice seems to be to just ask him and I have to concur with that. I have never had a problem with spanking any woman who has asked me. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 10:38:16 PM | I posted this under a previous spanking thread and actually am quite fond of it, sometimes I'm just so damn creative....
There are many things I'd like to try
like sex on a boat or sex up real high
but lately I've been thinking alot
of this soft cushioned area, her firm sitting spot
In jeans or in panties it doesn't really matter
It's all I can do to not just jump at 'er
The way it moves or even when still
my hands are drawn to those white global hills
Let me spread them and lick them and even a bit more
let me bite them and tease them, let me feel your sweet core
but one small last thing, for it I dearly will thank
just bend over my knee, and your ass I will spank. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 11:05:55 PM |
There are many things I'd like to try
like sex on a boat or sex up real high
but lately I've been thinking alot
of this soft cushioned area, her firm sitting spot
In jeans or in panties it doesn't really matter
It's all I can do to not just jump at 'er
The way it moves or even when still
my hands are drawn to those white global hills
Let me spread them and lick them and even a bit more
let me bite them and tease them, let me feel your sweet core
but one small last thing, for it I dearly will thank
just bend over my knee, and your ass I will spank.
Hah! I like it! | |
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 47 | |
| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 11:20:56 PM | Just fracking TELL HIM!
Geesh.
What is with all these "Oh gee how do I get what I want?" whiny a$$ threads!?
It's called communication people. Give it a whirl. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 1:42:00 AM | HAHA; this is hilarious!!! OOOhhh spank me baby!
Just make sure that you tell him, how hard.
Or not.
Hey; maybe HE wants a spanking! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 2:26:19 AM | | OP, if you're too bashful to initiate this topic with your partner, you might consider a trip to the nearest adult video store, and purchasing a few spanking videos to watch with your partner. It may develop his interest. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 2:26:25 AM | | say to him "Ive been a naughty girl baby , i need putting over your knee lol " , they dont usually need further encouragement than that | |
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