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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 8:18:47 AM | | omg u are scaring the shyt outta me jaya i dont want to be beat up~!! i was thinking about it and if it hurt i would probably never want to get spanked again but just him threatening to do it turned me on soooo much it made me want to see if he would actually do it, but now i am scared when i hear it leads to getting black eyes and bloody noses :( | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 8:22:54 AM | | wow... i just want to say THANK YOU to honestly over your knee, its like you read my mind!! i am not looking for abuse in any way. I think I am just looking for a dominant man, not overpowering but a man who knows that he is the man. Thank you for your advice!! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 9:18:38 AM | As someone with a serious interest in the joys of spanking, this is WHAT HAS WORKED FOR ME!
Communication is the key--in life, you never get what you want unless you clearly define it...so ASK! I understand many people get shy over asking for what they want, especially in regards to their sexual pleasure--so try another approach. This has also worked well for me!: Send your partner web links and ask them to read them in their free time; let them know that these topics turn you on and ask for feedback or would they be willing to play with that idea?
I have also written some erotic stories to email them that describe a fantasy encounter, sometimes even using our names--they get the idea real quick! My general reaction has been VERY positive.......I have enjoyed a hot, red tushie on many occassions! ( a combination of punitive/sexual can be mind blowing!) All that spanking brings a rush of blood to a certain region and....well, need I say more!? HOT HOT HOT! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 9:26:58 AM | | Its so simple....just ask him to spank you for being such a naughty girl..if he still refuses...tell him that a whole group of men offered to do it for you...trust me he'll do it then | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 10:44:59 AM | Just ask! And maybe dress up as a school girl, give him a note from school saying that you were a bad girl and need to be punished | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 11:40:48 AM | Well it sounds like He already knows what a spanking is all about and now time for you to tell him "you want to know what a spanking is all about first hand" (pun intended) as you have fantisied about being taken over his knee in the old fashion time honored manner.
Trust you do have open communication with him as there should be dialogue regarding the matter to a great extent and then "que sera sera".
Love to know how it all turns out.
WARM Regards
TheLonz | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 11:58:50 AM | | He should of already spanked you by now. You've been neglected. It's just play. I like the post about hoping onto his lap very playfully and saying....."I've been bad you know." It's really cute. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 1:57:55 PM | | welllll sexy.. mark a bullseye on ur a$$.. c if that works 4 ya.. oooooooor u can outline a handprint on ur a$$ & c if his hand fits.. if both of these don`t work.. then go out & buy a riding crop.. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 2:58:33 PM | | you could always roll play..and at some point present your behind to him and say. I've been a naughty naughty girl....what are you going to do about it. Or something along those lines...lol and if he can't take that hint...just ask! Discribe a fantacy. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 3:02:40 PM | Sometimes the men just aren't into it.. I love being spanked.. (as I recently found out)..
My ex-date would gie me a few little smacks on the behind.. but really.. it didn't do the trick.. it sucks and sometimes we really want that hard spank on the bottom.. I suggest you tell him your fantasy.. maybe he will accomodate you. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 5:00:28 PM | | Ya might want to ask. There negotiation too he's probably wanted something from you that your not into so trade him. I bet he'd spank ya if you asked though I would and by the way I think this is just the beginning of a whole new world thats about to open up for you! If he's smart he'll explore this with you if he isn't your going to end up going down it on your own I'd lay odds on that! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 5:25:57 PM | It sounds to me like you just need to figure out how to bring the subject up. Here's on to try. Next time the two of you are wrestling or play fighting, try this:
you - " Remember when you threatened to spank me next time I threw a boot at you?"
him - "yes, i remember"
you - "I just need to know that if I throw it harder will you spank me harder?" (you need to give him a look at that comment) Then throw the boot at him. He'll get the point.
Good Luck! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 5:26:51 PM | first off dump the girly boyfriend,communicate ur feelings of role playing. DOY INK, OPPS. there goes one of my horns. SORRY. when just purr up to him with that sexy hot azz of urs. THUP! THUP! --------------
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 5:53:48 PM |  man.. I really can't believe some blokes, .. Sexy, why don't you try the approach of asking him what his sexual fantasies are, you are hardly a shy type of girl, ie lights out before you get undressed and no peeking from under the duvet till I get in are you!!
Adult conversation just isn't about football, cars. bikes, who's banging who, last night as the local disco, it's about discovering what your partner likes and dislikes, he might even suprise you!! Have a few drinks, candlelight, a little music, maybe some sexy attire to get his viagra quivering is his pocket, then why not just kinda casually lay accross his knee, making sure your a*** is ther to see and llok him in the eye and ask him.. you like it, now if he says no at this point, then he's in a world of pain.. but he says yes, there's your chance.. ask him so spank it a little.. not too hard.. and if he gets turned on at the same time.. your a*** will get a dam site more than a spank! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 8:26:57 PM | I'm glad that I could bring some clarity to your situation. :)
I think it is important to validate the concept that not everyone is comfortable in bringing such topics into conversation. Yes, ideally, it would be positive if everyone could embrace their interests, sexuality, needs, and desires without fear to their significant other, but sometimes personality traits, past negative experiences, etc. get in the way. So, yes, communication is the key, but for those that aren't ready to tackle the subject within verbal conversation, sometimes writing a letter, showing your partner a story/video or the like can be helpful. In the end, though, you will have to address the topic face to face before you address it hand to bottom. There are few guys that will take the initiative to upend a girl, especially in discipline, without that prior discussion.
In regards to the original poster - you have the perfect bridge to this conversation! Simply bringing up the past threat of a spanking by your boyfriend will get the topic into the communication stage. Another possibility that might be an "easy out" and certainly will bring the topic to light is by simply showing him the thread that you created!
Also, you need to understand that there are a lot of variables that play into the spanking realm. For instance, you may find that you detest a discipline spanking (in fact, you actually shouldn't enjoy it!), but that before or after it is highly erotic for you. You may decide that the discipline aspect isn't benefitial for you and that you prefer more "mock discipline" in a role play sense incorporating lighter, more enjoyable spanking. You will also likely find that all varieties of spanking create unique emotional intimacy between partners. Be prepared to test out experiences with your boyfriend until you find what fits you both best as a couple. Trust and communication are vital to positive experiences. Past that - live and learn as you go! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/18/2006 8:59:26 PM | | See like I told ya you just begun a journey you just wait till it really starts for you your going to be amazed and excited and in the end find the part of you that has seemed to be missing! | |
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