| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/7/2006 4:57:54 PM | since we all did such a great job helping her get the spanking that she wanted ..we should start a thread of who else needs a spanking.. please let there be someone from kitchener  .lol | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/8/2006 11:14:43 AM | Some men find spanking their partner arousing, and some don't. It's not a good situation if the woman likes it but the man doesn't...and worse if it's the other way around.
Best case scenario, both enjoy it. Personally I think the sound of the "SLAP" is what counts. I've never hit a woman hard enough to leave a mark, but it has to be hard enough that it makes a nice naughty sound. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/14/2006 8:26:38 AM | Just come out and say it that you like to be spanked and you want him to spank you....if your kind of shy or kind of embarrassed about it write it down on a site or somewhere on the computer and tell him you want him to read something and you want his two cents about it and then yall talk about it when he gets done reading and go from there.
I know it was hard for me to tell a guy i really like that i was into spanking cause i didnt know how to bring it up so now after i let him read what my turn on are! He knows how to get my atten and turn me on.Hes still getting use to the idea but he will get the hang of soon.
So dont be scared or too shy about it cause after all its a turn on for you and we shouldnt be scared of something thats good to us. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:35:14 PM | Low lights,sexy music. Sit him down. Do a slow and steamy striptease. When you are down to just panties, slowly crawl acroos the floor to him. Climb up across his lap. Now with your ass right there infront of him, slowly slide your panties down to just below your cheeks at the samr time your purring about how naughty the dancing made you feel and how you need a spanking real bad!
If that doesn't work, he's gay! | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 11/22/2006 2:55:42 PM | | I just put a yellow post it note on my ass that says "spank me, I've been bad" It works every time. And sometimes brings strange looks in public. | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 159 | |
| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 11/22/2006 3:40:47 PM | Yell it out in the heat of the moment... usually works when you want something!
Or that might freak him out .. and he could lose the boner
Slow does it ...
Say "come on hun, spank me"
then say "little harder" and say it often enough until you reach the proper intensity. Then make sure you say "Ya babe, that's just great and don't stop until I tell you"
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ulao
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Joined: 6/10/2006
Msg: 160 | |
| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 11/22/2006 3:43:01 PM | ^^^ I agree if he is a pleaser he will respond to that.
It can be very awkward to do this if he is not comfortable. One way to make this more comfortable is music. Just background music to drawn out sounds. Also a bit of darkness helps.
After has spanks you a few times kill the music and bring the light back on. Then again this is only if you don't already do this. Another thing that I'm sure has been mentinoed COMMUNICATION. But you new that.. | |
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Top It
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Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 164 | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 11/22/2006 10:19:20 PM | | Just go back in your memory and think about your parents and what you did to get spanked. I'm sure your husband/boy friend will be understanding and will fulfill your wildest dreams. Of course, he'll want a fantasy worked out for him as well....I think. Be prepared. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 11/22/2006 11:49:12 PM | All she would have to do is tell me that shes into spanking. Then after that we will plan out a complex system of how to set up events that lead to spanking.
A script and choreography on events that lead to spanking and special passwords would be created.
For example, girlfreind feels like shes in the mood for a good spanking. She comes into living room and says scripted lingo with passwords indicating a desire for spanking. Then a bit of a winking while intoning how bad shes been and how much she deserves a good spanking for what she did. Or something like that. Then many a good spanking will be had.
Of course safe words will be involved.
Of course if shes shy, all she has to do is put a fake plastic fly on her butt and set the dvd player. Then when I smack the fly off just say that I didn't smack it hard enough and how good it felt. Then I would be too turned on and lose my ability to spank in favor of a altogther different pastime. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 11/23/2006 12:04:21 AM | Do something naughty and... "I've been a bad girl... maybe I deserve a spanking?" That would probably do the trick.
Or let him know that you are into that. | |
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rusdy
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Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 170 | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 3/10/2007 2:15:48 AM | well, this in response to iplum4you
Well this lady of lace i believe needs a spanking - perhaps lightly with leather
I'm not living in you area though.
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 3/10/2007 2:25:36 AM | I have been priviledged that I've gotten very good spankings this year. But one guy that I'm dating. It was easier for us because we actually met on a dominant submissive site.
But if you are already with a boyfriend and want to hint to him about this. I would playfully before any intercourse started but while being naked together i would kneel over him and in girl on top position then I would turn around - still not making love- and dance and wiggle your derrier at him - and tease him with different view of your cheeks so he can see how playful they are. then I would turn back around - still not making love yet and pick up his hands and slap them on your cheeks - helping him- then i would lie across his lap and wait and hopefully from there he would continue. You could instruct him along the way if he wasn't a natural - and tell him if you would like it harder or softer and let him know when you do like it either by your movements back in respone, you sounds or both...
you could also easily find spanking pics. on the net and show them to him and tell him how aroused they make you or find a book on this topic and read it to him.
best of luck to you | |
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Smjle
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Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 173 | |
| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 3/10/2007 2:33:27 AM |
i want him to do it in a sort of out of anger way , like i want to get him annoyed or angry with me.
Forget it. It is not likely to happen. Not with all the extreme criticism of men. Smart men wouldn't dare. If they even look at you cross-eyed, it's called abuse. If you change your mind, they go to jail.
That's like putting a rope around my neck and giving a woman the lever. Maybe she would never get angry and pull it, but that a very high risk and I will not take it. | |
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| How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 3/10/2007 3:16:46 AM | | Ya gotta be really good at being bad. It wouldn't hurt to be down on all fours w/ your butt facing him when you make your confession in just the right tome of voice and choice of words. Tell him not be too hard about it, but yet not too soft 'cause you need it just right ...and soft just won't 'cut it' for how good he's made you feel so far. | |
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