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Posted: 6/17/2006 9:52:27 PM | Looks like everyone gave excellent advice already, games like this only lead to problems later...be HONEST in any relationship, then there are no games at all!!!
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/17/2006 9:53:22 PM | Well
these are the kind games that get girls into trouble
Making Boys jealous when they have liquid courage flowing through their
bodies at a party where I'm sure mass quantities of alcohol will be being consumed
very silly if you ask me just because some one is insecure some innocent bystander could very well get hurt. | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/17/2006 10:06:46 PM | OP;
If you chew the gum for about 5 minutes and really soften it up...you can blow really, really big bubbles. Tell your girlfriend too. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2006 10:21:08 PM | ohhh that sounds fun! Ill be sure to tell her, then we can have a bubble blowing contest!!! | |
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Posted: 6/17/2006 10:33:13 PM | hey there. you asked the question and every one has given you there answer and now you are ****ing about the answers.
wake up. you sound really imature to me. | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/17/2006 10:35:49 PM | you should go out and play in the street too. lol
just like the other little children. | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/17/2006 10:37:05 PM | stop taking advice from weird 37 year old males who advise playing games with people!!!!
talk to the guy about why he ignores you , oh I mean have your friend talk to the guy about why he ignores her. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2006 10:42:39 PM | | Its funny how many women post threads asking for mens advice, then once you get a mans advice its retarded and childish...go figure! This is referring to the 37 year old male co worker that gave us the advice. I am not and never was ****ing about peoples responses | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/18/2006 10:52:50 PM | My question to all, is it ever a good idea to intentionally try and make your commited partner jealous?? Or is this a high school tactic that is bound to backfire?
It's childish and retarded and will blow right back in her face. If the relationship is so baked that she would wanna try that she should just walk away instead. It's already over...  | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/18/2006 10:59:57 PM |
OP, regardless of what age the people are, trying to make someone jealous intentionally is pretty childish and it usually will backfire - badly. If her bf ignores her and doesn't have time for her, trying to make him jealous isn't going to get him to change his ways...and besides, why would she want him to? It doesn't seem like he cares that much for her in the first place. Trying to make him jealous isn't going to suddenly make him realize he cares for her. She deserve better than this; if she wants a committed relationship with someone, then she needs to find a guy that wants to be with her as much as she wants to be with him.
Have to agree here. I've been thru this same thing and realized after much heartache that the guy just didn't want to be with me as much as I wanted to be with him. Sadly, she needs to move on and find someone who really does want to be with her.  | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/18/2006 11:01:24 PM |
OP, regardless of what age the people are, trying to make someone jealous intentionally is pretty childish and it usually will backfire - badly. If her bf ignores her and doesn't have time for her, trying to make him jealous isn't going to get him to change his ways...and besides, why would she want him to? It doesn't seem like he cares that much for her in the first place. Trying to make him jealous isn't going to suddenly make him realize he cares for her. She deserve better than this; if she wants a committed relationship with someone, then she needs to find a guy that wants to be with her as much as she wants to be with him.
Have to agree here. I've been thru this same thing and realized after much heartache that the guy just didn't want to be with me as much as I wanted to be with him. Sadly, she needs to move on and find someone who really does want to be with her without feeling like she has to play head games to get his attention. | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/18/2006 11:02:21 PM | Child's play, she may not like the result she gets. Games are for kids.
Love ya BN! *muah* | |
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Posted: 6/20/2006 6:34:39 AM | I would say not! There will probably be no good that comes from this .If he is going to be jealous he will and if not he just isnt the jeaous type can be dangerous to play with someones mind and not only dangerous but just plain evil and mean ......... | |
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Posted: 6/20/2006 6:58:55 AM | | what a crazy and prehistoric thing to do ...so every time something isnt just right we need to enter desperate harmfull ploys?? ...if I detect this in a woman for any reason even my own fault...I gladly give her away!!! whats next the bottle of wine trick at the accident scene??? any one not knowing the bottle of wine thing at a auto accident , you should find out fast!! | |
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| Fine! I'll just take my monopoly game and go home.
Posted: 6/20/2006 7:03:59 AM | Why even bother with the high school games? She should dump the loser.
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Sanity.
This stupid manial for dumping is only one step less childish than the idea of making him jealous.
The correct order is
1/ Talk to him (not at a party. Alone with just him and no distractions)
2/ Talk and listen. (Plenty of girls genuinly complain about being neglected when the guy reschedules a date so he can attned final exams or a job interview.)
3/ If, and only if, he is really neglecting her then tell him.
4/ If he refuses to devote the extra time then, and only then, is it time to move on.
There's a whole world of lonely women, still waiting for the perfect man, who never knew that their perfect man was the one they dumped ten years ago. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2006 7:13:20 AM | | He's ignoring you because he dislikes you. Your schemes have been done before and he took mental notes while you play the games. You want one more final act to see him hurt, emotionally and/or physically with a poor sucker at the party. Hopefully, both are on to your predatory tactics, ignore you and make it with your girlfriends. Later, he will dump you and you end up with the 37 year old clown. | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/20/2006 7:16:29 AM | | That is a bad Idea to make a man who isnt interested in the first place jealous...he will just dump her...or at the party...have sex with another woman. | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/20/2006 7:31:39 AM | | I would suspect that a 37 year old man, who says "make your boyfriend jealous" to a 20 year old gal, is stupidly thinking that for some reason she'd be interested in a 37 year old man. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2006 8:24:33 AM | | Well, from my experience it sounds like he doesn't really want to be with her if he doesn't have any time for her. Guys who want to be with someone will make an effort. Things like making other people jealous WILL backfire. Sounds like they need to have a "talk"... | |
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/20/2006 8:53:47 AM | Sounds like a great idea to me! You make him jealous with another guy and then he goes through life thinking that every woman (or should I say little girl) is going to cheat on him. It doesn't really matter what this does to the guy as long as the girl gets her way! Geez, people wonder why other people can't commit or have a decent relationship. This is a good example as to why!
Luna
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| Trying to make him jealous...
Posted: 6/20/2006 8:58:12 AM | Just my broken 2 cents worth. If you try to make him jealous you play a stupid game. He understands that being a jerk will just make her want him more. Forwhatever reason, a large # of girls want jerks especially if they feel like they can't "completely" have them.
Maybe she should just move on, focusing on fullfilling her ambitions. A guy should never define who you are, your character and abilities should do that. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2006 9:22:51 PM | | Pulling the jealous game is a very very stupid and dangerous tragedy[its much more than a game and should not be treated as such. Many people have been killed and seriously injured pulling such nonsense and especially when some booze is added- women especially will try this if they sometimes feel they aren't getting the attention they want and fail to see how dangerous this REALLY is [again thinking it's just a game and then can't understand why there's a fight and inevitably walk away saying how very juvenile men are-LADIES; ANYTIME YOU SCREW WITH A MAN'S ESTEEM WHEN IT CONCERNS MATING, YOU ARE CREATING A BOMB- DON'T BLOODY WELL DO IT!!!! Through millenia, men have fought wars, committed atrocities, and had duels, shootings, and knifings over women. It is not a case of acting your age or growing up or insecurity - it is a case of ensuring any progenie he has with her is his and not some usurpers- Guys, it is a case of don't let the woman do it to start with- dump her- it will only get worse as it reinforces the idea that she can do it again- even if she just goes to another table and has an"innocent beer with an obviously single guy, get rid of her! If she had any regard at all for your feelings and anymore than 1 working brain cell, she would realize what she did was wrong!!! | |
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