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Posted: 6/23/2006 6:12:46 AM | OP--Well I say this..isn't this guy what your mom warned you about growing up?
BUT life is to learn from our mistakes as we go on right? Chalk it up to experience and you don't need to go down that road again. Those are the guys all women do like and date more often mind you..yes. And those are the guys many of us men envy at times because they get the great women like yourself. Dating is a dog eat dog world and we are all bound to say to ourselves many times "What was I thinking"
Move on and just look ahead. It was a bad choice and you are entitled to make it. Just do not make it a regular choice each time you meet men is all. Good luck.
To: "Wasntme" & "Verissa"; I really don't think this "Michchick" is for real. If she is, man we are in BIG trouble. I think some people put stupid crap on this particular thread to create drama and see where it goes-kind of like a Jerry Springer show, NO! A train wreck or car accident, you can't stop watching or reacting. Hah! That's why I keep coming back!!
I am surprised that online dating has never been on Springer...or has it. Drmama seems to be what more and more people want and enjoy in their lives...why I dunno. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 2:00:46 PM | | Dogs return to their own vomit..........that was great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I'm gonna use that in the future. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2006 2:39:56 PM | No thats just plain NASTY! ***hole! God Ieven retruned your email. What the hell were u thinking? Hey pofs dump on me as you will!! I can take it all!! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2006 5:45:42 PM | | HI SORRY WHAT HAPPEN IF U R TRYING TO FIND TRUE LOVE HERE U R IN THE WRONG PLACE MEN AND WOMEN ON LINE PLAY HEAD GAMES THERE R BETTER PLACES TO MEET TRUE MEN GOOD LUCK | |
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Posted: 6/25/2006 8:17:32 PM | | Never fails to amaze me that some people will put themselves in a relationship like that. You should have enough sense to know that if he will cheat on her? He will do you the same way. Get far far away. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2006 8:57:15 PM | | why get involve u look very attractive but stupid n maybe u could do the same to him , it might make u feel better | |
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Posted: 6/25/2006 10:00:10 PM | I wouldn't be surprised to see a chick in her twenties behaving like this, but a 43-year-old woman...?
Pathetic...
I recently ended a friendship of about 7 years because I was sick and tired of seeing her make the same idiotic choices in men. Abusers, liars, cheaters, etc....and I ESPECIALLY got sick of her whining about those relationships after they went into the toilet (and no, in case anyone is wondering, I had no desire to be with her myself...)
Most halfway intelligent people can handle only a certain amount of stupidity. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2006 1:22:11 PM | ^^^^^^ msg:83 The Snow Ninja
It all goes back to,
Einstein's world-wide accepted definition of total insanity;
"Anyone that repeats the same actions, patterns or process's over & over expecting/hoping for a different result/outcome."
I have ZERO tolerance for stupidity in/of people myself, and even LESS for whinners that whine because of their own "stupidity".  | |
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Posted: 7/1/2006 6:08:39 PM | | Cheaters are just pigs,but you let youreself get into that situation knowing well that he was involved with someone else.The reality of the situation is that when he was dancing with her,having a good time,im sure you were the last person on his mind.Im sure he didnt go home and cry like you did or have the need to call a friend to comfort him.Rules to live youre life by never get involved with someone thats married,or spoken for,by taking the time to get to know someone you will always see the signs.....i couldnt phanthom dating someone thats like my childrens age.......ewwwwwwwwww. good luck to you from jonathon | |
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Posted: 7/1/2006 7:19:46 PM | | agreed.once a cheater always a cheater....this saying is true...dont give up...it'll come. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2006 2:03:25 PM | | hey its ok Im ddoing really good without him!! | |
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Posted: 7/2/2006 2:25:51 PM | | Oh good for you. So you made that phone call. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2006 7:03:00 PM | | nah didnt need to did it on my own. Thanx though | |
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Posted: 7/2/2006 8:12:30 PM | | Michchick (I can't believe I've returned to this one), surely you see that this thread you've started does not show you in a favorable light. And yet, you continue to post to it, bringing it right back up to the top of the pile for all to read. Certainly you know this. I believe all you really seek is attention, good or bad. Well done. | |
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lmr87
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Joined: 5/28/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 9:37:05 PM | Hi, I'm new to this just to let you know.I've been where you are.The big difference being, I didn't know these men were deceitful until it was too late. If you keep this way, you wont find true happiness (obviously) while you are wasting you time with these Dildo's you probably missing the REAL DEAL. Best of luck, I hope you find inner peace. AND PLEASE DO ME A FAVOR WISE UP for next. Time. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2006 11:42:03 PM | | no ur not that man is a prick but if he is like that u dont need him dont give up the right one is out there | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 5:18:37 AM | | That is exactly what i did, after several weeks of talking/seeing one another, i got "the voice" I knew he was on another date on sat and was thinking about it all day. The sound inhis voice let me know what i needed. Later I returned his call at what he said was his "cabin" thats how I found out his wife was NOT dead......ouch. End of story. The next guy is gunna have to care a whole lot and wait and take things very slow. because I cant do this. Im not a game player, not at all. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 6:41:56 AM | | Your wrong just replying to the posts. I could care less about the attention. But thanx for your input anyway. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 11:04:54 AM | | Perhaps I didn't explain myself well enough, Michchick. As near as I can see (I'm no computer expert, about all I know is how to turn one on) these threads a person creates slowly move down the list as time passes and when no one responds to them. They get buried beneath the stack of all the ones that come after. A person would have to search for it; they're not likely to do that. Every time 'you' respond to it, you resurrect it for all to see - bringing it back up from the depths. I would say those who have responded to your question (? comments) have been overwhelmingly negative to you. Some down right hostile. Your own comments have shown you to be immature, needy, and foolish. Certainly you must see this. I think anyone else who has watched their thread take such a negative turn against them might attempt to learn from what others have to say, but more than that, I believe they would hope the whole thing would just sink away to the bottom of the pile, never to be seen again. And yet, here you are again, bringing it back up for the world to read. The only logical conclusion I can draw is that you are seeking attention. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 2:44:17 PM | | Darlin! It ddont give a sshit about other posts. Whatver posts are whatver! qUIT READING into maybe your own insecurities. Stop it with mine! Frankly I dont care! Hey POfs dig in! I dont CARE!!! Laterssssssss | |
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lira
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Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 96 | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 3:07:26 PM | | I agree with the OP. I am sick of being used by men. Its to the point I do have low self esteem. Then when I see a relationship going as it has always done in the past,I dont take as much.Now these that I raise hell with after a few dates, because I see it going in the same direction,cant understand.But I dont care. I think men see me as away to make their life easier.I would rather have a snake in my house than another man, unless it was a one nightstand. Then after I got what I wanted , I would tell him to get out of my bed, out of my house and I will call when I need him again.(but with more respect)Men are not worth this agrivation if they dont respect you.Dont sweat the men,be a B..ch. Its fun to see their face when they thought they could bullshit you and then realize they didnt. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 3:17:02 PM | | omg lira u are so right! and guys dont see this! Hey its sucks Im a a small town among idiots! Sorry Im picky!v But hey grill me to the grind! Im ready! GIVE IT TO ME!! god bless all the gilrsthat feel like me. Im gonna be miserable and alone then misreable the with someone thanx but no thnax! HAPPY 4th! Hey Ill be working in Mackinaw City Mich till 2:30 but be aalone all night enjoy!! ANd dont pity me Never asked for your ****ing PITY!! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 3:23:12 PM | | Michchick - from what I can tell, NOBODY who has posted on your thread has felt pity for you. Most of us think you're a twit. | |
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lira
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Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 99 | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 3:42:13 PM | | Hey, be picky, I am. And being you said they are in a small town, must be a small town thing. I am in a small town and all I can meet are idiots, too.This is how I got back at a guy that I felt was trying to use me.He had no car. Our first date was fine. I picked him up, he brought over some movies and I cooked.Second date. He called me from a bar at 6 for me to come get him and cook for him again. Third date, same thing. On the fourth date, he called from the bar, said he would call at 6 for me to come get him.At 6pm. he called and said he would call me at 7 pm. At 7 pm sharp, I went to my nephews house, so I would not be home when he called and being the bar was not far from my house,I would not be home just in case he got someone to drop him off. Men have called me B..ch before, so for him I proved I was.When I got home, his call came in at 7:05 pm.The message on the machine was for me to pick him up as soon as I got home.I didnt do this, I just went to bed.The next day when he called mad,I reminded him our date was for 5 pm and kept delaying.By the way, he complained that because of me, he had to hitch a ride home.And I didnt care then and I still dont care that he was mad. My purpose of doing this was to make him mad., God blessed us to be b...ches. We must give him thanks.Amen | |
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lira
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Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 100 | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 3:54:29 PM | | If women dont have this problem, maybe its because a man wouldnt want to be seen with them even to use them.People usually prey others that have a sweet personality and they may not like women that look like men.We just dont know what attracts them to us. | |
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