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short hair vs long hair
Posted: 6/19/2006 9:13:39 AM
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 toakreon

Joined: 12/26/2005
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Posted: 6/19/2006 10:27:20 AM
It's a matter of personal taste, I think. For me, I prefer long hair. This doesn't mean I find a gorgeous girl who's short haired un-gorgeous, but I feel long hair adds something.

Mind you, there are men who have the opposite preference.

Toak/John
 Soul Seductive

Joined: 6/5/2005
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Posted: 6/19/2006 10:38:45 AM
I like a woman with short hair or long hair....the long hair is sometimes preferred cause its "pullable" if you know what I mean...but short hair can be very attractive when on the right face with the right shaped head...If I were you I wouldnt stress that...I am a bald man, so I aint gonna talk alot of s***....ya dig?
 atomhead

Joined: 6/16/2006
Msg: 29
short hair vs long hair
Posted: 6/19/2006 11:09:08 AM

Is long hair really that important to men?


yes
 snowrun

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 6/19/2006 11:25:54 AM
Long hair is "sexy" but it wouldn't stop me from talking to somebody, in the end it's only hair, and heck, *I* don't have a lot on the head either :)

I guess the "right" person will not care (or the ones with fetish).

M.
 st3ph1su3

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 6/19/2006 3:17:19 PM
I hope there aren't that many guys that are that shallow. I look better and feel better with shorter hair and I would never grow out my hair to get a guy.
 Gambit

Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 6/19/2006 3:44:51 PM
Actually I like short hair. Long hair looks really great when its all done up and everything, but short hair always looks good, in the morning, at night, hung over, whenever and whereever.
 cookie_2006

Joined: 6/13/2006
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Posted: 6/19/2006 3:49:40 PM
Personally, I am a woman with short/medium length hair. I think short hair is very sexy. I hate long hair, it is all the same. With short hair your personality speaks up for you. Short hair is way hot. Girls let me know what you think....
 Ratero-park-man

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 6/19/2006 4:39:28 PM

Personally, I am a woman with short/medium length hair. I think short hair is very sexy. I hate long hair, it is all the same. With short hair your personality speaks up for you. Short hair is way hot. Girls let me know what you think....


i agree that short hair is good. Nobody should reject soemone because of the length of their hair or if they have any at all. ANYONE who judges and rejects someone on that is an insecure, shallow-minded spinless person who don't know what they want and they shouldn't be dating because they don't have the formula to make things work.

lol sorry for sounding alittle.....rough, but hey, alteast I'm right and honest and open about this.!!
 Tsorath

Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/19/2006 4:54:11 PM
I have longer hair too and I have to admit that I hear all the time from women how much they hate long hair on guys so it works both ways.Personally I say go with what YOU like and people who don't like it can get lost.

I prefer having longer hair if a woman doesnt like it too bad I do and the way I look and the choices I make about it are for ME first last and always.



Tsorath
 blue_star

Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/19/2006 5:08:54 PM
I think short hair can look absolutely stunning on a woman. I cut mine 3 years ago, and would never go back. Long hair is sexy, but short hair can have so much personality!

I don't know how long your hair is at the moment, but while you wait for it to grow back, find a hairstylist who is good with short hair. Have it cut and style every other month, short hair needs much more maintenance then long hair to keep looking good. Try different way of styling it and have fun with it. This way you'll go through half a dozen different styles before they get long enough to tie back, and maybe you'll find the perfect style for your face and attitude.
 Brianna_

Joined: 5/22/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 6/19/2006 5:11:24 PM
I wouldnt worry hun...if they aint lookin at u because u have no hair they rnt worth it u r odviesly a nice person with a good heart i dont think i could do that...so ignore it and find a guy that cares about u and not ur hair.

cheers
 Ratero-park-man

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/19/2006 5:16:44 PM

I wouldnt worry hun...if they aint lookin at u because u have no hair they rnt worth it u r odviesly a nice person with a good heart i dont think i could do that...so ignore it and find a guy that cares about u and not ur hair.


Exactly....well said, and obviously same goes for women, if they judge a guy on the hair or whatever they are not worth it and are superficial and it speaks volumes about them and the lack of character they have.

So again, nothing to worry about for anyone. It's just hair!!
 nitro105

Joined: 10/31/2005
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Posted: 6/19/2006 5:38:17 PM
I have had a couple friends cut theres for the same reason, while its normaly not considered as atractive it was never the less done for a wonderfull cause, and the person should be rewarded for making a sacrifice for others, Far better then say just shaving it to be "different" and throwing it away. i'm a man and i don't know if i'd be able to shave mine! LoL so i have great respect for those that do.
 mingus_dew

Joined: 6/3/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/19/2006 5:54:43 PM
I chopped all my hair off with quilting scissors when I was 21...
didn't change anything regarding men

and it was a BAD haircut.. hahah
 Poet102781

Joined: 8/22/2005
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Posted: 6/20/2006 7:43:15 AM
First of all I have to say doing that for your mother was a wonderful way to show how much you love her!!!

Second.....I dont care what the womans hair looked like ( and I love nice hair ) if she had her head in the right spot!!


For you to buzz cut your hair....shows me your head is in the right place, and you are a sweet woman.


People have a prefrance....so dont worry about that.
 LonghairedLenny

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/20/2006 8:31:58 PM
people need to lighten up...
hair is hair...doesn't change the person it's attached or unattached to
Hair is just dead skin cells really...
Whatever happened to getting to know people?
 shailyx

Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 6/20/2006 11:17:02 PM
I hate to say it but I have always found men like longer hair. I have middle of my back long hair. When I go out with it down, I get alot of attention. When I have had it shorter or up, not as much. JMO

You should be proud of the reason you cut your hair however.
 whodeletedme

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 6/20/2006 11:31:27 PM
bar-none.... I can't mesage you because I an not the "accepted" sex hahahahah BUT why not come out and join the rest of us Islanders camping this weekend in Whiskey Creek,...... kid friendly event too! Check out the BC party threads for info if you are interested. HEY.. I see you play mini golf so we are looking for Islanders to help beat the mainlanders in a thrashing of Mini golf coming up too. Join us we are a fun group, hair or not!!!!
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 6/21/2006 12:17:43 AM
we just like longer hair, but you shaved it for a noble cause so i applaud your support to your mother. it may be how you feel about yourself, if you dont feel dashing, it is gonna show in your body language. try one of those spikey poofy carefree styles, maybe some color streaks to call more attention.
if that dosent work, -just get liquored up and say "what the f*ck". (that worked in risky business...)
 jasperjohn

Joined: 2/21/2006
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Posted: 6/21/2006 12:26:35 AM
I prefer long hair on girls to short hair. But short hair can look really nice on girls too.
 sweetpotato

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 47
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Posted: 6/21/2006 12:42:16 AM
well as you can see in my picture i have short hair. it has grown out alot since that picture but i will say that the people i have met from here in person all just love my longer hair for some reason. i thought it was kinda thin and unruly looking but they all liked it. i am shocked if a man tells me they like short hair. i just dont believe them. i know my husband always wanted it long and i didnt grow it till we got divorced. i didnt want him thinking i was growing it out for him i had started lettting it grow out for a wedding i had in april because i wanted to be able to put my hair up. i am sure if i put a picture with my hair now i would hear from more people i just havent taken the time to get a new photo. my photo now is 7 mos ago.
 Ratero-park-man

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 48
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Posted: 6/21/2006 3:46:59 AM
^^ the commmon theme is no one should feel forced to grow their hair or cut their hair or do anything with their body for the sack of "pleasing " their partners greedy sexual needs. Do what you want with it and also no one should have to do anything to get a partner, especially as it relates to hair, and body cosmetics. Thats what i always mean on these forums that OTHER people cannot be so shallow because it is obvious that THEY are shallow if they judge you or anyone for such a silly thing like hair or lack there of.

I mean lets try to keep things in perpective. The OP has proven to me from the little info i have about her from the forums that she does appear to have some character and I commend her for that and that alone would attract me to a person.

Same should be said for all other people too!!
 your_pedestal

Joined: 2/9/2006
Msg: 49
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Posted: 6/21/2006 6:00:59 AM
Well let me throw my 2 cents in here.. I am a man who (like most) love long hair, it is sexy and feminine and I notice most of the women who have spoken against long hair are the ones with short hair.. long hair gives a woman such fabulous options, when woman with long hair steps out of the bathroom ready to go out you never know what you will see, long sensual, or cutsy ringlets, rolled up with an elegant flair, a school girl pigtails flirty look, a pony tail pulled through the back of a ball cap etc etc etc etc etc .. a woman with short hair you get what you get time after time always the same with no options (like a guy) a woman with long hair can look as cute and sexy as a woman with short hair by imitating that particular look but a women with short hair has no options ... I cannot for the life of me figure out why a woman would want to eliminate all those optional looks although I do have a tendency to believe that many many women dress for other womens opinions rather than a man's .. what would you ladies say if the man in your life wore a beat up old ball cap all the time .. to work to weddings all the time the exact same look .. maybe not a perfect analogy but I am sure you get the message..I would be willing to bet that 95% of all "HONEST" men will say they prefer long hair and of the 5% left they are probably married to domonant short haired women LOL
Ok now raise your hands everyone who has figured out how I stand on this subject hehehehehe
 Hooyahhh

Joined: 12/19/2005
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Posted: 6/21/2006 7:06:50 AM
Sad, but yes. We men are creatures of vision stimulation. Always, since cave men its been that way. We are narrow minded as a whole, not all, but you know what I mean Im sure.
I dont think for the most part you are seen as unattractive, its very odd, different for a woman today not to have somewhat long hair, and we fear what we dont understand. Plus there is a lot of association with someone with short (buzzed hair) Skin heads, freaks, That Angry Irish singer?? What was her name????? Im okay with it, how ever I may not approach someone with a buzz cut. I do hope your mom is recovering well...And I support ya..
Ronnie
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