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 Chris997

Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 101
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/20/2006 10:33:06 PM
This has got to be one of the stupidest topics I have ever seen on any forum anywhere on the internet.
 beautifulwoman4u

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 102
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 2:22:59 AM
Wow! Intelligent human beings that are actually predjudice not only over skin color but now it's the pigmentation of hair? Simply unbelievable. I am a natural brunette. My stylist said, hey honey, let's make you a blonde and guess what, I've had more attention as a blonde and more proposals as a blonde in a couple of years than I did in my entire life as a brunette but what does it matter? I have the same mind. If I were to pick up on the possibility that I was in the company of a man that was so shallow that my hair color was actually of any importance to a potential lifetime relationship with him, I'd be out the door in 5 seconds flat. I want a guy that has substance, intelligence, true feelings. This is simply nonsense..no offence to anyone, but I'm so tired of trivial dribble in regards to predjudice of any kind towards any human being. It just simply promotes more ignorance and unfounded beliefs based on unimportant things like hair or skin color. Did you know that ALL hair is actually red? It starts out from the lightest shade which is blonde or even white and go's to the darkest black. The only hair color that is not red is a certain polonesian that has a blue color to the black shade...so in all reality, most everyone has the same color of hair. It's just different shades of red.
 Sassy911

Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 103
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 4:28:17 AM
No actually beaytifulwoman.......hair color is made up of three different colors...red,yellow and blue which =brown.....some have more yellow which =blonde,some more blue which =black and some more red which =red...... but that is neither here nor there......the fact still remains people have preferences and it is our right to have them.
 thejman22

Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 104
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 6:55:56 AM
TC - you don't have a problem with ALL people not liking you, or just maybe some more than others...?
 mosaicart

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 105
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Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 10:28:48 AM
ok you blonde, brunettes and redheads types... and those who prefer certain hues! What about us mixed colours? I used to be a strwberry blonde - and I used to 12 years old too!

Now, I have a sort of ashen light brown colour mixed in with each and every earned GREY hair!
We have been totally ignored in this whole thread!
And most of you will become grey haired at a later point in your life...

BTW Carrie B, you are one funny woman!
Lighten up folks, it is hair colour, and it changes.
 getyou

Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 106
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 11:29:23 AM
I just looked at beautifull woman 4 yous profile. There ya have high maintenance kinda poves my point one don't ya think?
 jazmella

Joined: 2/23/2006
Msg: 107
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Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 11:39:18 AM
I'll say this once again, as some people here don't quite "get it":

Hair color does NOT determine personality! It's HAIR!

How friggin' difficult is that to understand?? How stupid does someone have to be to see a blonde, brunette, or redhead and automatically think he/she knows how that person is like?? Or what they're into?? Or the lifestyle they lead??

Wow, the idiocy of some humans is quite disturbing.

I'm blonde. I'm not high maintenance. I'm extrememly family oriented. I'm not a money-hungry golddigger. I'm not easy. I'm down-to-earth. And so forth.

God, these damn stereotypes make me hurl, and I can't believe some people actually believe them!

/end of rant

*deep sigh*
 getyou

Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 108
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 12:11:12 PM
Good rant but yer still blond!
 jazmella

Joined: 2/23/2006
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Posted: 6/21/2006 12:13:19 PM
I know I'm blonde. What does that have to do with anything?

*puts on a black wig* Now what? Does my personality automatically change??

*dyes her hair red* How about now??

Oi.
 BK 1972

Joined: 6/3/2006
Msg: 110
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 12:27:40 PM
I don't know what it is about brunettes??? I sure wish I did though ? I hate having a weakness
 cynderalla

Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 111
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 12:49:42 PM
I wish we were all bald and never discovered clothes so all are flaws were visible, maybe then everyone would love eachother for who we really are, instead of stereotyping everyone.
God made us all different with different personalty enjoy god only knows how much we would complain if we were all the same....no fun!
 BK 1972

Joined: 6/3/2006
Msg: 112
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 12:57:11 PM
Just think of this guys if we all thought the same ,we would all want the same woman LOL.
 redviking

Joined: 6/16/2005
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Posted: 6/21/2006 1:09:03 PM
Mmmm... brunettes...


Errmm, yeah, I'd say the OP is about on. Sure plenty of guys like or prefer blondes too though. But yeah, I'd say more like brunettes. Of course it depends on a lot more than that (and more than looks too), but if we're talking purely about looks, all else being equal 'd count myself as a gentleman who prefers brunettes. I go for redheads too, and likewise it's not like I've never found a blonde highly attractive. For me I think it is about contrast... light skin and dark hair. Another thing I'll say is that with different hair colors, I find myself drawn to different facial features and such as well- for instance, I prefer brown or hazel eyes and a rounder face on a brunette... on a blond or redhead it's blue or green eyes, and while a rounder face is still good, a narrower face can also be good... that sort of thing.

Overall I think it's just that every person has their personal preferences, but it's hard wired genetically such that the majority fall within a certain portion of the curve in their preferences. Just like the "average" woman likes tall dark and handsome, but there are still plenty who go ga-ga over guys with blonde or red hair, and some require tall while others don't care too much about height.
 windsong

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 114
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 1:17:58 PM
Just be yourself and don't worry about your Hair color..For every women there is a man...But maybe go a Darker or Dark Auburn,Dark Burgundy ..Just for fun and see what happens....
 rbs928

Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 115
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 1:20:29 PM
heh heh hair is no big deal,i;d settle for a bald lady,
 nautimile

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 116
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Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 1:44:05 PM
it's a very silly question!(s)
 2findU

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 117
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Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 1:47:29 PM
I prefer Blondes.
 redviking

Joined: 6/16/2005
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Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 2:15:28 PM
I should have also added that regardless of color, I'll take natural over fake any day! And I know other guys feel the same way. So keep in mind by coloring, you may well be turning off some guys who would have liked you just fine the way you were.
 sunmaiden

Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 119
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 2:29:26 PM
3 Penny,

You're making me mad now. So are you lookin for trouble

 treegrif

Joined: 9/14/2005
Msg: 120
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Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 3:01:00 PM
This is true, its all in personal preference. I know i really like a woman with natural color and long hair to run my fingers through! LOL
 silvercarguy

Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 121
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 5:42:53 PM
I think a lot of guys prefer brunettes because too many blondes are "bottle blonds". For most brunettes, it's their natural hair colour. I like the natural look, or at least a colour that is tastefully chosen and kept up. Nothing worse than different colour roots showing....

That all being said, hair colour is pretty far down on the list of things I consider. I'm only 26 and starting to go gray myself, so who am I to judge others.
 Erik Brush

Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 122
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Posted: 6/21/2006 6:05:14 PM
Okay this thread was funny to me on so many levels. I think that Kaos hit the nail on the head when she said trying to conform to what you hope is going to draw the guy you think you'de like is silly. Be what hair colour YOU like. Guys should like you for who you are, the hair thing is a much lower priority than many other factors about a woman. For the record I prefer blondes. ( But since I have met so many nice ladies of all hair colours I am not going to feel any differently about a woman I hit it off with if she is non-blonde! )
I have dated all sorts of hair colours and no matter what, a good woman is a good woman. If she was a pain in the butt it certainly did not come from her hair colour or from a bottle of Loreal ( or whatever brand ).
And just a few facts to clear up something that another person posted to you. Blonde hairs in general are much finer ( thinner/smaller diameter ) than all other hair colours. So that's a crock that she has finer hair since brunette folicals tend to be thicker. Also blondes average 250,000 - 700,000 more hair folicals than brunettes. It's a basic biological fact. ( Not that this amounts to squat in this whole silly topic ).
Also an obscure weird fact about that word. It is the ONLY native English word that is gender specific with regard to the spelling. The "e" on the end is indicative of women. Hence a lady is "Blonde" and a man is "Blond".
So anyway, I like blondes, but I would be a little curious about a girl who dyed her hair just to get my attention. ( Flattering, yes,... but a bit strange ) She should be able to get my attention on so many other levels than the colour of her hair. Have a good one!

- Erik -
 AddisonRon1

Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 123
Why do all men prefer brunettes?
Posted: 6/21/2006 7:41:27 PM
Some men adore the sun, some men adore the moon (me, me!), and some men gaze at the fiery sunset until they go blind (lol CB).

Why brunettes? My guess is that may be that men are more comfortable with a hair color that reminds them of family. And since most men's hair color is darker, it should follow.

Why not blondes? Hmmm, I'm not too experienced, but every waiter, bartender, and loose dude flirts with them. Its probably my own fault for being average looking (maybe ugly, lol, who rated me a 3!!!), but its still uncomfortable.

Anyhoo. Its just one guys perspective, take it for what its worth...
 a bit nomadic

Joined: 6/14/2006
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Posted: 6/21/2006 8:33:35 PM
Ha Ha. This is hilarious, but also very good news!
 CuteNPerky2

Joined: 1/29/2006
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Posted: 6/21/2006 8:58:48 PM
Most men look more at blonds but i think want to date dark haired women more. Maybe its because of the saying blonds are ditsy I dont know but blond hair on a women is really pretty. I used to have nice light hair when i was a kid.
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