| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/25/2007 1:41:15 PM | In all do honesty my own touch does nothing for me. I know it can be a turn on but it just feels awkward even to touch myself. Yet when my guy does it for me WOW!! It is just WOW, his hands are magic and god I wouldn't change them for anything in the world!!!
Of course he is just as wonderful, everything about him is.
So in short response it just doesn't nothing for me - I guess because well I'm not attracted to myself that way. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/1/2007 3:25:10 PM | | I'm the same way, I never did it until one night I thought I would try it and it did nothing for me....I guess I would rather have a man's touch than my own and don't see the need to do it or even use sex toys, if a man can't do it for me then I don't need it...just me though! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/1/2007 3:48:07 PM | Buyer beware. Chicks who don't touch themselves will be the ones not wanting sex the soonest. Anyone not naturally horny enough to discover the joys of "five finger taco tango" in their youth or "hand-to-gland combat" in between relationships will be the ones you always hear your mates whining about only wanting it every second Saturday once they are locked into a relationship... Don't say I didn't warn ya 
OMO
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/1/2007 6:19:45 PM | OMG
We are all created differently!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have done it, gone without it or my husband while he was overseas and frankly
I have always and will always enjoy sex IMMENSELY!!!
I will add that my ex was a drip in bed and now that he is history............I am FREE to explore my sensuality/sexuality
So, sometimes a boring sexual relationship can inhibit even the most sensual tigeresses.............
I cannot wait til he remarries and I get to whisper in her ear (I feel so sorry for you ) LMAO!!!!! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/2/2007 4:51:43 PM | Women who don't/won't touch themselves are missing out. Those who've only tried it once or a few times need more practice & creativity.
Some women don't like the idea of touching themselves, others don't think they should have to, others are intimidated by religion.
I've never had enjoyable sex with a man. I've had multiple orgasms alone. I know exactly where & how to get myself off every time. It's never disappointing. I've had a LOT of practice.  | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/2/2007 7:04:25 PM | time for some stats..
something like 90% of men do it..
and 60 to 70% of women do it.
women just aren't as sexual as men, so lots dont.. something like 30% of women have never had an orgasm.. so why would they masturbate? masturbation as apposed to sex is all about the orgasm.
and thats not about religion. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/2/2007 7:08:31 PM |
Chicks who don't touch themselves will be the ones not wanting sex the soonest. Anyone not naturally horny enough to discover the joys of "five finger taco tango" in their youth or "hand-to-gland combat" in between relationships will be the ones you always hear your mates whining about only wanting it every second Saturday once they are locked into a relationship... Don't say I didn't warn ya
I do my deeds at least seven times a day.
And I do not desire sex from anyone else, even when I'm in a relationship.
I like to hold it off for... years.
So.. you're a bit off there. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/2/2007 9:36:54 PM | For those who don't like touching themselves one piece of advice.....
hand held shower with massage feature. The shower is the first area to be renovated in any house I live in  A double shower head = even better 
Not that I mind toys or touching myself but for those who say they don't feel anything because it is their own hands ..... try the shower head. You will be showering often after that  | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/3/2007 8:50:44 PM | Ok, hmm well to clarify I don't materbate with my hands doesn't mean that toys aren't a option. My hands don't do anything for me in my lower regions. Now with my man, if he was with me there or showed me how he wanted to see it done then sure I would humour hima nd do that. But having the urge to orgasm of cum and use my own fingers down there won't happen. Just not me. I will freely admit I have tried it on occassion but it just doesn't make me want to release anything, now a toy that works :) but not my hands sorry. Just the way god made me. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/3/2007 9:50:41 PM | Ladies,
Toys are great for those "alone times". But you have to remember two things: One ,just
poking around isn't going to work, you have to have some visuals or a great imagination and bring a fantasy into your mind (the dirtier the better). Two, the more often you do it the easier it gets. Trust me the less I do it the harder it is. as for the religious comments, remember your parents told you that stuff to keep you a "good girl" for as long as they could and were too uncomfortable to talk about it themselves. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/3/2007 10:47:20 PM | That's an interesting perspective...literally touching with hands or just masturbating?
Personally, I go for a combo. It varies depending how I feel. I can think my way into an intense orgasm without even touching myself at all.
If the question is literally why don't women touch themselves, well...
- women don't have to hold themselves to pee
- women rarely need to make adjustments down there
- girls are taught that they're not supposed to do that - (not all girls in all situations but masturbation is seriously discouraged & generally not even discussed in sex ed whereas we're told that it's completely natural for guys to have wet dreams, there's no mention that so can girls.)
- (I don't know if others experienced this or not...) some women think it's repulsive to intentionally touch there. I don't understand it but I've had that reaction in a discussion once or twice...
I think women need to be better educated about their bodies. Of course, these days a person is as informed as they want to be with all the access to resources online & such. If sex is to be addressed in schools, I think it's irresponsible to mislead kids by omission. But that's just my rant about it.
As far as women masturbating...it doesn't matter how you do it as long as it works for you. It just saddens me to think that some women are missing out on the pleasure their own bodies can provide them. (It took me awhile to get over the catholic guilt...don't get me started on a religious rant.) | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/4/2007 10:26:40 AM | hi, i hear your problem.
i m only speaking from personal experience, but when i was dating my bf, i also told him i never did. he was really shocked.
truthfully- i did, but when i was growin up in highschool and stuff, it was the norm for guys to watch porn or mast... n any girl that did, was most likely a porn star or a slut.
thats the mentality alot of my friends had. but i think it was because we were all really secretive, tht no one really admitted anything they did, the most htey would ever say is, ,, yes im finally having sex with my bf of 10 years, i know im so bad.
u kno wha ti mean, we all kept it private cuz we were embaressed , we would be judged.
anywyas,,, i totally did it-just was too embaressed to tel anyone.
eventually, i told my bf, n he made me feel alot better, cuz he was actually happy-rather than confused before.
im sure, ur gf does, but shes just not telling u.
if she doesnt-thats normal-- some ppl have diff sexualities. for instance, i havent been with a guy, intimately til my seirous relationship. before that, i hadnt done anything, just a peck on the lips iwth a bf. so,, for me, i needed to try everything on my own, on myself lol litearlly, to understand.
im sure, if i had started all this bf business at an earlier age n being intimate w/ someone earlier-maybe i would never have also touched myself.
i think it also depends on her age. i know alot of people older than me, and also east indian, that i DOUBT have ever even considered doing that. again it might just be a very private thing.
u kno... what might be an idea to try. get her worked up, watch a movie or something, or just keep making out, but u dont touch her. like just b like,, lets see how long we go without givin in to eachother. n,,, u can start playing with urself, n maybeee she' wil start with herself, as in "aw **** it im horny- im giving in"
i know, that worked for me and my bf, eventually i was like screw it, im sick of having to do it , when ur not in the house.
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/4/2007 7:22:03 PM | I do my deeds at least seven times a day.
And I do not desire sex from anyone else, even when I'm in a relationship.
I like to hold it off for... years.
So.. you're a bit off there.
GoshI...
I am quite certain I said that women that don't masturbate are more likley to end up being the ones that would not be wanting sex as often or much over time...
I do NOT recall saying anything about chicks who prefer IT to 'the high hard one'.
FWIW, you both end up being women that don't like sex. Are you bragging about that? On a dating site? Hmmmm....
Nice pic though, I'll grant ya that :) I would never gather from your prof that you aren't dead sexy. You infer that you like sex, or am I just reading too much into it?
Just curious...
Chaz | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/10/2007 8:16:53 PM | i think women who don,t touch them selves ,,are not really in touch with thier sexuallity,,,,,,,or they have low whore moan count lol  | |
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