| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/19/2006 6:59:49 PM | I have met a "few" women who didn't rub one out. I think it does stem from guilt and shame or religious beliefs. I also have run into a few women who just weren't very good. An ex once told me that it took her well into her 20's before she got really good at it (first orgasm after 3 minutes and then 5-6 more). Practice makes perfect and you really need to be able to relax and take your time exploring.
On that note, I find I wouldn't really date a women who wasn't into that activity. In my past experience, the best lovers I've ever been with have been of the chronic pleasuring type. I just find it takes that much pressure off me as she knows exactly what works for her... when you are having sex, an orgasm for her is guaranteed.
It doesn't bother me or make me feel inferior or anything. I encourage it. Usually it makes her MORE horny! :) | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:24:32 PM |
I think it does stem from guilt and shame or religious beliefs.
As I was raised in a strict Catholic household the above stands true, but after Sunday confession and a few Hail Marys, all was forgiven and then repeated the following Sunday. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:37:54 PM | | Touching yourself is normal, especially for women. We can't believe that a man can only pleasure us by touching us in all the right places if we don't know what those places are ourselves. We- in meaning women can pleasure ourselves with our own touches in so many ways that we can make our own toes curl....lol yes its true. I have done it so many times and finding new ways are like adventures toward undiscovered places on my body. This in turn will give me the chance to have the mind blowing sex with a guy who is open minded enough to know that I can teach him a few things about my own body that he doesn't know. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:47:29 PM | When a woman can get herself off no matter what in a very short amount of time... she is bound to be able to get off with you.
Plus it's a big turn on knowing when you're at work and she has the day off... shes sprawled out on the couch goin' to town. :) | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/19/2006 9:59:27 PM | | Girls who don't "touch" themselves are just that GIRLS not women. When I was younger and didn't really know what it was all about yeah I thought it was bad evil icky. But when you get older and discover that whole new world of pleasuring yourself it gives a new meaning to the word orgasm! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/19/2006 10:37:36 PM | | Omg, this reminds me of someone in college. Once when she was 12 her older sister got caught masturbating. Her parents brought her and her brother and sisters down staires and proceed to hit her hands with a switch 10 times and then told the rest of them not to ever do what her sister did and if they got caught their punishment would be worse. I laughed my behind off when she told us that, and it explained alot. But all in all I left very sorry for her. I believe she doesn't do it now that she can. SO peoples upbring can ruin them for life. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 12:56:00 AM | Okay ...I read through this thread...
I disagree that ladies who "don't", have an issue with it because of some kind of "religious" or "moral conflict"...with it.
Perhaps that stands for some , but definately not for all.
I also disagree with the statement "any woman that says they haven't is a liar".
I believe that there are some ladies out there that haven't....or haven't yet.
I remember when I was younger...
between 15 and 22...
No longer a 'girl' ...I was married ...had two kids and a solid job...
(it was never a religious thing nor an "I got caught thing")
...still at that point, NEVER had (for lack of knowledge to know what I was doing sexually)...exsperienced what a "real" orgasm was.
Never even understood the point of oral sex preformed on me, nor desired it...because I never came.
It wasn't till I exsperienced my first oral orgasm...that I dabbled with trying to reproduce the sensation by myself.
Is it possible some haven't...touched them selfs...yes.
I know cause I was one of them.
Hope that answer your question. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 1:13:00 AM | Opps almost forgot...why don't they...and how does that affect their sexuality?
Silly me...caught up on the rest of the drama and not your direct question.
All of the above(religion, caught, yukiness,inexsperienced...ect..)
Basicaly why???
...it's simply a preference.
I dont think that effects ones sexuality...no more than not exsperienceing and trying new things does. I have met some highly sexual sensual people who haven't tried or don't prefer alot of things...it doesn't make thier sexuality or sensuality any differnt.
Personal...I think the more one comes to know ones self...the better they are at knowing how and what they like. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 1:42:53 AM | I believe my body is special, and I also believe in making love.
I fully understand the concept of men wanking - it is said to prevent prostate cancer - so keep doing it guys!
As far as playing with myself - I see no point in it!
What are the benifits? I am a very sexual woman and have been single for two years. The idea of playing with myself for my own benefit does not do any thing for me.
Perhaps I am just very lucky to be able to excercise which relieves my stress levels and not have to masturbate.
One man's meat is another man's poison. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 2:28:54 AM | | Just to continue with one point that jazz said....that she knew it was her touch so it didn't do alot for her. Now I have a healthy lmao solo sex life. But there are parts of my body that if I touch them do nothing at all for me....no matter how turned on I am....because its my touch. In fact I was nervous that those parts would not be sensative to a mans touch. BUT hell was I wrong...hehe Thank God. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 2:38:52 AM | Well said!
There is something very special about a man's touch that can not be replaced by anything!
I would be devastated if I believed there was no possibilty of finding that special man again, one who can excite me just by looking at me - and then the touch - WOW | |
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Joined: 1/30/2006
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 3:53:19 AM | tx everyone.
Many different view points. I obviously have been through this. I personally have found that women who don't touch themselves are more likely to be shy or less sexual. Please note that this is not the case for all women, but the ones I have encountered.
So keep on "flicking the bean" ladies.
Sorry I love that sh_t!!!! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 7:54:09 AM | | OMG.. I didnt realise soooo many women didnt... I was raised really super religious but now that i am away from that programing I am a big fan of self lovin'! There is something very liberating about being able to get yourself to orgasm. I also love that I dont need a guy for anything...I choose to have one ...that's just me though...I also find I am alot less inhibited now that the taboos have been lifted. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 8:50:41 AM | Women who don't "let thier fingers do the walking" are really missing out.
It's very liberating to know that if a man doesn't satisfy you, you can just excuse yourself to the bathroom and take care of business....
And plus it's gooooood
I would know...I think I'm developing Carpal Tunnel Syndrome :( | |
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Joined: 1/30/2006
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 9:16:03 AM | The more I masturbate, the more I cum...therefore...I MASTURBATE!!! And the better you know your own body the better sex with someone else can be. And since I masturbate during foreplay, during sex, and after, I can safely say that I will NOT stop masturbating any time soon. I think it's a very natural thing to do whether you have someone with you or not.
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