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| Women who don't touch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 10:20:34 AM | Ok, I am almost embaressed to post this, but who cares. I'm me.
I don't masterbate. I have tried, but its just no good for me. There are several reasons for this. The biggest reason is that I can never finish myself off, and toys don't help either. Thing is, when I get close to orgasm, i lose my mind and can't do anything - preventing me from finishing. If I have to concentrate, I can't orgasm. I love orgasming and just... leaving this world. Another reason, I know its me doing it, even with pornos or toys. I never really figured out the point to masterbation when there were always guys to enjoy.
There have been times when I've stayed away from guys to do self healing, etc. And I do get horney and try it, but it never works out so I rarely try anymore.
I was raised in a religious household, but don't believe that is the reason. I have not had a problem throwing other values out the window ( like not drinking or having sex), so why would I have a problem with this one?
I know what to tell a guy to do to please me. I love sex and am lucky enough to have a boyfriend who never lets me "go hungry". We are very free in the bedroom... porn, toys, new positions, we especially both like it rough... But enough about my sex life. I'm just trying to show that not masterbating doesn't make me some kind of... I don't know.. some kind of potatoe in bed. Also, I am generally very pleased with life.
But, I don't masterbate. So sue me. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 10:24:45 AM | thing is, it releases tension, but only during certain times of the month is it very sexual. If you don't have any tension and your hormones are in gear....But then, I'm always tense.
Women who don't masterbate don't concern me, it's the women who are afraid to touch themselves because it's *gross* who won't even think of alternative birthcontrol because it involves touching, or women who dont' have good hygiene because they won't touch, or women who don't have comprehension of their self care- see the thread on horrible sex. YUCK.
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 4:57:22 PM | | WoW!!! Is that ever true and honestly it worked for me, I aint shy about self touchin, it teaches you what feels good! And you do learn about yourself in ways that your man/partner can make it feel better! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 7:11:13 PM | Why women need to masturbate more!
* Because masturbation is immensely pleasurable, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun.
* Because sexual pleasure is each person's birthright.
* Because masturbation is the ultimate safe sex.
* Because masturbation is a joyous expression of self love.
* Because masturbation offers numerous health benefits including menstrual cramp
relief, stress reduction, endorphin release, stronger pelvic muscles, reduction of prostate gland infection for men and resistance to yeast infections for women.
* Because masturbation is an excellent cardiovascular workout.
* Because each person is their own best lover.
* Because masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot.
* Because masturbation increases sexual awareness.
...plus there is nothing hotter than a woman who knows how to use her equipment to it's full potential! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 7:34:38 PM | ^^^ that is very well said.
i can't get enough of it. women who don't from deep rooted issues from childhood or growing up might benefit from some sort of therapy or something because it REALLY is worth it. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 7:54:36 PM | | Well I guess they dont know what they are missing!!!!!!!!! If I don't know how to please myself then how is a man going to know how to please me the way I want it. I think every women needs to explore their body in order to have a good sexual relationship with a man. | |
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 9:15:31 PM | It COULD be that they have found that that long, huge, foreverlong wait between partners without ANY stimulation causes them to be EXTRA sensitive when they DO get some.
So by not getting a hohum average O by themselves they increase the ability of the GUY to give them a GREAT one.
Just a thought. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/20/2006 9:57:20 PM | on the opposite side of the spectrum
on the Price is Right Today I swear the woman who won the prize was so excited it looked, acted and sounded like she was going to have an orgasm.
if I only had tape recorded it.
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TerriM
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Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 69 | |
| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 6/21/2006 5:18:05 AM | In my opinion, a woman needs to know her own body for sexually satisfying experiences. I have a friend who was in a bad marriage, with little sexual experimintation or activity. I recently bought her a small "beginner" vibrator and told her she needs to get aquainted with her own body before she can let anyone else try to make her feel good.
A womans body is so beautiful, and highly charged. But despite what we were taught as children, we need to be in touch with ourselves, and that means touching, exploring and knowing ones self. Sex is beautiful and good. Just so you know, I am a 43 year old woman who enjoys every aspect of sex and have no inhibitions about pleasuring myself when needed. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 7/6/2006 5:01:40 AM | I went to a church one time that told people that if they touch themselves its a sin because your depriving your partener.
I wanted to scream that if I wasnt deprived already I wouldnt be touching myself......well maybe not as much anyway.
There had to be a reason our hands were made to reach that far wouldnt you say? | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 7/6/2006 5:32:57 AM | | It's a sin to play with your self out of marriage while eating meat on Fri. Um, or sumthin. It's ok for preachers to fondle little boys. Repeat that over and over until your thoughts disappear, no questions are arising and you have no desire but to send me money and run for gubment. | |
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