| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:42:38 PM | | I totally agree with digital Sanity! I say if a woman cant please herself then it will be hard for any man. My friends say " I want the real thing" ...I say its all real, , my orgasms are real anyway. No need to fake it. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 9/28/2006 7:21:34 AM | I think there are tons of reasons why women don't - first I'm sure there are many who do but don't publicly admit it. There are those ones who are ashamed to do it for whatever reason. Then you have the ones who honestly are so new to the whole idea that they can't figure out how to get off or excited when they are by themselves.
I also think that as a women who does touch herself ... it's not a constant sort of thing. I can go weeks without doing it and then there are weeks where I simply can't stop doing it. I think most men I know are a little more constant..... | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 9/28/2006 10:32:10 AM | I think a lot of the women that don't masturbate probably grew up in a sexually oppressed household. Whether it be religious reasons, their mom was raised to believe it was dirty and passed that on to her daughter or fanatical censorship.
If I ever had a question it was answered in full detail...sometimes with very graphic books(not porn) from the library. Sex was never made into some sort of taboo when I was growing up, I was always told to be safe and wait till I was ready though. A lot of parents think the best sort of sexual education is keeping their child ignorant to all aspects of it, including the healthy ones like masturbation.
I really think there should be a sexual education class for parents, all about how to approach the subject of sex with their children. It would save a lot of future issues for their kids!! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 9/28/2006 12:40:22 PM | I've found that a lot of women lie about masturbation because of embarrassment. Most people associate masturbation with not being able to get anyone to have sex with you. This could be the same reason some girls won't masturbate. They may feel it means they aren't up to par or admitting they can't get it.
I say everyone should masturbate. It's great and doesn't say anything about whether you can get any or not. Shit, I try and incorporate it when I am getting some. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 9/28/2006 2:36:22 PM | I would go absolutely nuts if I didn't pleasure myself....By being in touch with my own body and pulsations from a swollen mound, I can better tell a partner what to do to get me off faster and harder.
Masterbation isn't a cardinal sin or evil...it's a natural act and damned be those judeo christian puritans that condemn everything sexual in nature.
this is why I LOVE BEING PAGAN!!! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 9/28/2006 5:10:22 PM | I never truly find playing with my clitoris a turn on?Espescially when your fingers are stubles(small) not enough to finger your self in after stimulations.I find myself frustrated even trying so i don't do it.
I rather wait for my man to return from Iraq.I want the real man playing with it rather than my own.
It sucks really not being able to re-leased for so long.Oh well *shrugs* to each it's own.... | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 9/28/2006 11:41:49 PM | Ms Amazonian, you hit the nail on the head. Thankfully not all women had mothers like that or they just didn't listen lol. Those that do always make better lovers in my experience.
I wonder if parents realise what image they project about bodies and sexuality when they say things like that? If not for sexuality they wouldn't have been parents in the first place. And that is part of the reason why, when I walked in on my rather young daughter touching herself in the livingroom I carefully explained that it was something she should do in private, not a word about "dirty" or "good girls/bad girls" etc... Besides I'd much rather her masturbate privately like mad than come home pregnant while still in high school. My son on the other hand ..... well I'll make it clear it is normal and health but he better clean up his own mess  | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/2/2006 7:09:37 PM | Holy cow it's no surprise that the state of the universe is in jeopardy ;-)
Some people want a sexual experience twice a day, and some only twice a year. We're all different in so many ways... height, weight, colour of skin, religious (or not!) beliefs, meat-eating, vegetarian, land lovers, sea lovers... I could go on and on.
There are many factors that shape us as sexual beings; unfortunately so far in this thread I have heard only about religion, and the influence that our mothers have on us.
Surely the fact that society in general debases a woman's worth, yet magnifies her sexual appeal has some effect on us? The fact that we, as a gender, were raised to be physically/sexually attractive as opposed to just plain intelligent has to be taken into account. Boys were supposed to be smart and brave; girls were supposed to be pretty and demure... and really, it wasn't that long ago.
History shows that a man might 'relieve himself' in order to spare his wife the embarassment of his vigour. Society openly condoned the practice of keeping a mistress so that a 'respectable woman' wouldn't have to endure the degradation and violation of her body.
Fast forward a hundred years, and all of a sudden we should be ready to play with ourselves at the drop of a hat and even better... in front of you? Ha!
Some of us are completely in tune with our bodies, and others aren't. I don't see how that has a bearing on anything other than a completely sexual relationship.... a concept that I doubt would even occur to a woman that didn't masturbate. | |
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