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 Lil Red Riding Hood

Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 101
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/7/2006 11:04:30 AM
A woman who doesn't touch herself "at all" can not enjoy sex with a man, there is no way. If you can't enjoy your own touch, and let loose, how can you with a man ?

As for women not touching themselves during sex. It took me years to get over that hump. Shyness I guess. But h*ll once I started that, omfg, so much more intense. Whatever he's not touching at the moment, you touch....hahahaha. And full out masturbation with a partner ? Can't beat it. I find that so erotic.
 chorner

Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 102
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/7/2006 9:04:45 PM
I would agree... have any of you found a correlation between women who don't play with themselves, and being very up front and out there sexually in a verbal manner (and usually like to use sex as a tool)... until they get to doing it, and it's either an issue for them to open up, or they are just plain bad... or both?

If you don't know how to pleasure yourself, or just don't... to me that spells out "emotional issues", and needs to be dealt with.
 outdoorsman6

Joined: 2/8/2006
Msg: 103
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/8/2006 6:55:33 AM
i think it a good thing, how is a girl to be able to tell a guy what she likes and wants if she dosent know what she likes and wants,
and sadly most girls are not satisfide for just sex alone and will outlast most guys! with that hopefully she will be happy and befor the guy is finished!
 secretnites

Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 104
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/8/2006 8:48:01 AM
Apparently their not comfortable with their bodies...never should we let
some one shame us into thinking its not ok...Our bodies are a beautiful
creation..ENJOY...As for touching myself...absolutely nothing wrong
with adding a little extra "help" when your man is pleasing you.!!let his mouth and
tongue follow YOUR fingers.
 fenderbender

Joined: 9/25/2006
Msg: 105
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Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/8/2006 9:01:37 AM
its a big turn on for me when a woman just cant keep here hands otta there....lol....mike
 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 10/8/2006 9:03:15 AM
What kind of woman fills her children full of such ***cough cough*** information? Bizarre. Geeezus ~ Norman Bates comes to mind, or Carrie.

Realistically ~ girls become women. They live in the real world. Even if their mother poisoned their mind with information against masturbation, once they become a woman, have a mind of their own and realize that sex is a vital part of a long-term relationship, one would think they'd be able to determine what is a fact and what is fiction. I'd seriously wonder about someone who claims to NEVER masturbate, they are either seriously repressed or lying or both. JMO
 BrianHA

Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 107
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/8/2006 9:39:57 AM


I would go absolutely nuts if I didn't pleasure myself....By being in touch with my own body and pulsations from a swollen mound, I can better tell a partner what to do to get me off faster and harder.

Masterbation isn't a cardinal sin or evil...it's a natural act and damned be those judeo christian puritans that condemn everything sexual in nature.

this is why I LOVE BEING PAGAN!!!



...............I cracked up when I read your post ......You are a girl after my own heart. I'd also go stark raving mad if there was no masturbation in my life. Visions of a straight jacket and sound-proofed padded cell come to mind. As a single male, I am completely at the mercy of pure chance and luck of getting laid. I am happy to say though that the gaps are never more than a few months at a time, but I wish the gaps were narrower. Thank God for Masturbation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 108
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Posted: 10/8/2006 9:52:57 AM
How do you think Michael Jordan got good at basketball ? Practice, that's how.
How does a women get good at having an orgasm ? Practice, that's how.
 DropZoneBella

Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 109
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Posted: 10/8/2006 10:40:01 AM
Women who don't touch themselves are one of two things.... One A ****ING LIER or two A PRUDE. Come on it's your touch, no offence to the girl that said that, but man... That is the upside IT'S YOUR TOUCH... you know what you want and what you need. Girls if you don't "play" get to it. It's great I love it.
 xts3

Joined: 1/1/2006
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Posted: 10/8/2006 5:12:13 PM
Part of it is just some girls have extremely distorted views on cleanlyness, the last girl I was with felt it was "Dirty" to touch herself, but she had no problem if I did it. It's a psychological issue, it's not just christian raised women either, I think women who are overly sensitive to being grossed out might be why some women have this problem.

It's weird that's for sure.
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 10/8/2006 5:19:18 PM
I'm with the masses here......how can you teach your partner what feels good if ya haven't figured it out for yourself?

Being single for 10 years now....if I went out and got laid everytime I got horny I'd be an outright whore!
Self pleasure keeps me off the streets!
 musicalife

Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 112
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/17/2006 5:17:28 PM
Women know how to pleasure themselves better than any man can.


Puuuuuuuuuuleeze! You keep on believing that, lol. There are some Men (key word 'Men') out there that could knock your socks off. When you quit dating "boys", you will soon find this out.

I don't know too many women that give themselves 20, yes that's right, 20 O's in one night.




 Steven02151

Joined: 10/18/2005
Msg: 113
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 10/17/2006 5:51:27 PM
Why doesnt Wanda wank, you ask? Or Fannie flick her bean? Or Mary merrily masturbate ... or Debbie diddle her doodle ... or Betty do the one-backed beast ....or Florence frig her fruit?
Maybe they just don't feel like it.
 Sunniva123

Joined: 10/15/2006
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Posted: 11/22/2006 3:03:04 PM
I honestly believe that I can thank my early masturbation habits for my ability to have orgasms. I can have multiple orgasms during sex, which I believe is rare. However, I think it is because I know how to do it and/or how to make them as strong as possible.

Practice makes perfect I guess!
 hanalan

Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 115
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 11/22/2006 6:52:54 PM
i can't answer for all women but............... some of us deffinately do!
 Steven02151

Joined: 10/18/2005
Msg: 116
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 11/22/2006 7:07:12 PM
I think that for those impure women who pollute themselves with unnatural carnal lusteth will someday wake up in HELL FIRE after they're tortured souls have left this wicked earth and suffer DAMNATION forever! Their hands will be blackened and deformed and this "bean" people will keep talking about flicking will rot, turn brown and fall off! And as for the women who were properly raised and reared and lusteth not after thine own flesh, will wake up in PARADISE in the middle of boxes and boxes of the most delightful toys and devices imaginable, or should we say, unimaginable, in an endless Sunday morning as their heavenly reward for being right with God!! Hallaluiah, sisters!!! .
 I love hockey

Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 117
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Posted: 11/22/2006 8:43:07 PM
They do... they just arent telling you so for whatever their reason. Everyone does it and if they say they dont.... LIE!
 JoePAMN

Joined: 6/5/2006
Msg: 118
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 11/22/2006 9:10:21 PM
In my experience, for what its worth, women who don't masturbate usually have repressive tendencies when it comes to sex, and often have trouble having an orgasm. Yes, it probably was part of their upbringing, unfortunately.

I always bought that whole "if you can't love yourself how can you love someone else?" thing, but mostly as a mental thing...maybe its physical too!?
 chavalita

Joined: 11/9/2006
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Posted: 11/22/2006 9:25:44 PM
If I didn't watch Friday Night without Borders on Showcase, I wouldn't have a sex life....Thank GOD for Aren't we Naughty.......



Seriously, how can a woman possibly expect a man to "just know" how to please her or know what turns her to goo if she doesn't even know her own body?? Talk about an absurd and unreasonable expectation....

I don't know about you other ladies out there, but if I'm in the race I better to get to the finish line.......win, place, or at least show !!!!!!!!! Come with the 7, come with the 7 whooo-hoooooooo!!!!!!
 Euro-gem

Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 120
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Posted: 11/22/2006 10:17:37 PM
Women who don't touch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
She may have just had her nails done.
 trinamatty

Joined: 11/16/2006
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Posted: 11/23/2006 8:34:08 PM
i think the whole thing is its still more taboo for a woman to touch herself so there woman who wont admit it to anyone. i mean there may be some out there who dont but more do
 plzeatmeb4thewormsdo

Joined: 5/6/2006
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Posted: 11/29/2006 2:06:23 AM
hahahaha your funny as hell,im laughing sooo hard i am crying
 myhandsforyou

Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 123
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 11/29/2006 4:17:13 AM
In my experience, most women who don't touch themselves is because they had bad boyfriends who didn't know what they were doing and were selfish and didn't take the time to please the couterparts

I knew this one women who never pleased herself, and never got an orgasm. She was so akward with her body that she didn't even know how to tell her boyfriend where to touch. She didn't wanna touch herself cause she didn't know what to do.

Embarresing enough i had to decribe to her what to do. The next day she came with a smile on her face and told e that was cool
LOL

I think it's normal and should be encouraged, women need to know ther bodies else they might not like sex at all and might be asexual.
 Amoreena

Joined: 6/6/2006
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Posted: 11/29/2006 5:17:13 AM
I do during sex but on my own, I just can't get myself there. So its useless.
 LOVES2TEASE

Joined: 5/25/2006
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Posted: 12/2/2006 1:23:50 PM
ok so now that this is said the question is how much is to much? i know my self i am kinda a nympho but i am not a whore/slut so I have learn to please myself, but i think i do it more then most people even think about it. is that normal?
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