| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/27/2007 7:48:14 PM | | oh god if there isnt a guy to please me - sure as hell i do it myself - and dame it fells soooo good always does the trick when your horny - to all girls out there that are shy of their body - your missing out! the more you know your own body the more you can enjoy sex and know how to please your partner - try masturbating together - very hot | |
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jlryan
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Joined: 8/29/2006
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/28/2007 4:25:02 PM | | I see nothing wrong with it. I started when I was only 3 or 4 years old to multiple orgasms. I just discovered it accidentally and have never stopped since. It's shown that the average age for girls who start masturbating is actually in the years between (3-6) prepubescent and the average age for boys is 12....so women usually begin masturbating long before Men. I found statistical information about this in an old sexuality textbook I had when I was in school. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/28/2007 7:52:11 PM | | Some just view masturbation has private...personally i love it when i can watch my guy touching himself that way , while looking at me doing the same...you know your in a great place together when you can share yourself that openly with your lover! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/28/2007 7:55:33 PM | Reason for not doing it? Not sure maybe they have been taught it was wrong by their family or something. I am not sure how it would affect a person. Masturbating helps one know things about their body, how it works, what they like, what they dont. So i guess they wouldnt be able to teach their partner about their body which could affect how good the sex might be.
I dont have any worries about that i touch myself all the time.  But i blame that on a certain someone. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/28/2007 8:01:05 PM | forget that what is it with men who think it's wrong for women to mastrbate, I dated this one guy and he said i was a S lut for that. what?? I think if more women did admit they did more men who try to please them. well i should talk to much haven't had anyone do it for a LONG TIME.  | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/29/2007 11:03:14 PM | and they say masturbating too much will make you blind ....liars!!! hehehehe ...
THe OP reminds me of a funny saying: There are three kinds of people. One can count, the other cannot <---it's just for fun, I dunno why I post this...hahaaha.... | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 2/27/2007 11:54:45 AM |
forget that what is it with men who think it's wrong for women to mastrbate, I dated this one guy and he said i was a S lut for that.
I assume that you dropped this guy like a dead donkey. What a jerk! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/4/2007 7:02:38 AM | Well the last gal I was involved with had an ex who told her that it was cheating... and laid all this crap on her about it... And me... well I'm like ooooh I wanna watch... and she says she can't do it... so while her and I are together..... I guide her hand down and position my body so she has access and go with her... she starts totally diggin it and then.... starts crying... I felt soo bad for her... I could tell she was liking it but had soo much shit dumped on her about it it took a looong time to undo some of that damage...
And I know other gals who just don't do it... I don't get it.... my attitude is well it's mine and I'll play with it if I wanna....  | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/4/2007 8:41:53 PM | they dont? ... poor things
touching and carressing while he's doing his thing to me... its HOTT! i love it... there have been times where we're lying side by side and I start touching 'Betsy' and he can feel what Im doing to myself... makes him get into it... ~Yowza!~
I dont get why women wont do that... Personally, I dont buy the whole 'woe is me', past ex's issues, cheating when you touch youself crap, etc... its your body: LOVE IT! | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/29/2007 11:24:13 AM | | I dated a woman who I wish had been more candid about this and what I wished she would do when I couldn't be w/ her. She eluded to being 'all hot and bothered', but never let on if she took care of herself in my abesence or not. Would have been a huge turn-on for me if she'd felt liberated enough to show besides not tell me what pleased her or not. Her keeping her 'dirty little secrets' to herself was exactly what suppressed me sexually w/ her, and is why I am the happier that I didn't become her Hubby #4. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/29/2007 12:46:04 PM | | you know what they say, oppinions are like a$$holes. everyone has one, and everyone thinks everyone elses stinks. so here is my oppinion, now be nice and no slamming me today , ok. i feel that women need to be ok with their bodies. we do not need to be ashamed like our grandmothers had to be. as a child i was told a good girl never does that sort of thing. when i was about thirty, i became curious. i had never reached orgasm. i guess my ex hubby didn't know his way around a womans body. go figure, i had already had two kids for him lol. anyways, one day i was alone, watching oprah. they were talking about female sexuallity. i became curious as to the question if i could reach orgasm. so i tried it. the answer, yes i could. however when my hubby came home, i couldn't look him in the eyes. i did alot of soul searching and found within myself the answer. i should be able to explore my body and not feel guilty about it. i guess i always felt like my grandaddy was in heaven watching me. gross i know. but that is how the conscience plays on you. but if you give in to your sexuallity, it seems like life is much different. a lady, and i mean a real lady, can enjoy her body and not have to feel guilty about it. lets face it ladies men have been doing it for years. and if a man cannot please you in the way you want, or if you just want to be alone, then go for it. don't be shy. you will enjoy, i promise. just my oppinion. take it as you wish. good day to all | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/29/2007 12:57:38 PM | I think it is crazy for a women not to know how to please herself, it is a great stress reliever, and damn best cure for a headache I know.. I can have multiple orgasms almost every time I have sex, that is because I know which ways feel the best to me, or "get me off".
For people who say they find it boring, use your imagination, that’s what it is there for. Concentrate on the sensations you are feeling and trust me you will not be bored any longer. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/29/2007 4:05:17 PM |
oh god if there isnt a guy to please me - sure as hell i do it myself - and dame it fells soooo good always does the trick when your horny - to all girls out there that are shy of their body - your missing out! the more you know your own body the more you can enjoy sex and know how to please your partner - try masturbating together - very hot
I still do it when i have a man to please me as it were  and very true what you wrote about doing it together..
I think it is crazy for a women not to know how to please herself, it is a great stress reliever, and damn best cure for a headache I know.
I have had 3 lots of migraine pills today... if my head is still thumping in half hour i'll give it a try
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/29/2007 4:21:48 PM | | My thoughts would have to be that generally women have been taught at a very young age that their genitals are ugly. It's also not 'lady like' to touch yourself which is another reason why women don't touch themselves. Some simply don't know 'how' to pleasure themselves without having someone there which is why they don't even try to do so in the first place. Some may even feel some 'guilt' in doing so as well for whatever reasoning or perhaps due to religious reasoning. Some fundamentalists believe that the act of having sex is ONLY for procreation purposes as well. | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/29/2007 7:47:30 PM |
Some simply don't know 'how' to pleasure themselves without having someone there which is why they don't even try to do so in the first place.
My ex told me she had tried it before we got together but she wasn't able to get anything to happen. After having her first orgasm with my help she started making up for all that lost time ;) | |
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| Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/4/2007 8:00:56 PM | | I dont touch myself, because my boyfriend doesnt want me too and i really dont feel like doing it id rather have him do it for me... I have a boyfriend for a reason , but i will if he asks me to, if he feels like watching. | |
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