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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/21/2006 4:06:06 PM | | I'M a real good guy i go to a four year university and work i guess what i'm trying is i take care of my business and respondsibility's on the weekends i go to the local bars around town with a couple of friends sometimes it's not my fault that women fall the wrong guys that just want sex and use them for all their worth i have only been in one real relationship and she cheated on me. one last thing all women think all men are the same they are after one thing. NOT TRUE..... | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/21/2006 4:26:21 PM | I have met some guys from POF and they were perfect gentlemen.
I think that men in general are good some might want extras
But have always taken NO just fine. | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/21/2006 5:07:15 PM |
one last thing all women think all men are the same they are after one thing. NOT TRUE.....
are you saying all women are the same? *grinz* | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/22/2006 6:20:14 AM | hey pinkflowerslw dont listen to that bullsh*t about going to strip clubs. thats crap ive been to several aint nothing but a bunch of crackheads and hos scamming guys to feed their addiction. they are just too gullible and stupid to see it. i have lots of bookkeeping experience and lots of experience with men should i email you my resume....lol | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/22/2006 8:37:58 AM | | I've been told i'm a wonderful guy to be with. Unfortunately, it seems that one opinion doesn't seem to matter with everyone else's on this site. ony one person really wanted to talk to me but she creeped me out. I think the question is, where are all the good women at? not near me apparently. | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/22/2006 1:20:04 PM | | NO not at all i just think that some women that have been in bad realtionships in the past tend to think all men are dogs instead of trying to start a new relationship with some that will treat them with RESPECT!!! after all that is what it's all about . | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/22/2006 3:27:31 PM | DJ-- dont worry sweetie, i was teasing you because of the way you phrased it.
oneoriginal--- Goodness hun, your the same age as my youngest son. There are going to be a lot of women who think youre great to be with and to be around. Just give life, love and God a chance and dont be in too big of a hurry. | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/23/2006 12:40:57 AM | | 4nukate, Men are the suckers, sweetie...you know that. I was merely suggesting changing her approach in dealing with the gullable suckers that drive and fly across the country to meet the woman of their dream. Were all on here looking for the same thing...It just how some people go about it. If a sucker flys international to meet you...he is expecting something in return...at least an enjoyable evening. Go Figure...Most good guys are emotional tampons for women...If your picker is bad... your picking Jerks...Time and Time again. Change your approach...some times you have to give to receive. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Date like a Man! 4NUKATE, you understand...just by your profile name and approach to life. | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 10/23/2006 7:05:55 AM | Pink, looking at your profile, you are getting exactly what you are asking for. Just about every line of your profile is about something that pleases you and then you want a first date at a fancy restaurant. So what does your date get for his investment because it is clear, you are not giving anything else? You seem to be attracting your perfect match. You get the fancy meal and he gets sex. Its not a game I play but the rules sound fair to me. Be careful what you ask for as you might just get it.
The closest you get to accepting a balanced relationship is you are willing to date a guy with kids but you make it clear, they are not to interfere with your wants.
You will find the "good guys" know who they are and they know those traits are abused. Chances are, they get it from work, family etc. They would prefer to avoid being taken advantage of and leave the rest of the people to their own games. It can be depressing being a good guy but we always have some volunteer work to fall back on. | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/5/2006 3:50:52 PM | "THere are pleny of good men and they are all over. The main problem is with good men is that many of us do not know how to attract women like the jerks/players do so you have this continued cycle of nice women hooking up with ahole men because they are very simply doing what is wired into them bio speaking. Have you ever heard a woman say, "oh he is a really nice guy but" hence the nice male usually fails to create chemistry with women unlike the player/jerk or the ideal alpha type male who is actually nice but very confident and has game." (Quoted by ligonmaximus)
All I got to say is AMEN BROTHA!
That is my problem.........I'm one of the "good ones" and I have been told many times that "You are a NICE GUY........BUT".........Women seem to ONLY HAVE CHEMISTRY with all the JERKS, "BAD-BOYS" and A-HOLES! | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/5/2006 5:01:25 PM | | all the good guys get crapped on because alot women want a bad boy that society wont accept so the women fall for those guys because its a challenge to see if they can change them but in reality you cant change anyone who isnt willing to change themselves! oh yea they want a good guy, but he has to fit their requirements, be a stud muffin hottie, drive a bmw, make 80 grand a yr, live in the hamptons. thats a good guy in their opinion! sad but true! | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/5/2006 5:35:17 PM | | TXZGUY, get over yourself. Obviously you have more problems than what one can see. That is not true. I don't want a guy who makes 80 a year, nor does he have to live in the Hamptons (he can live in Oak Cliff for all I care). So what you have said is totally bogus. I don't want to change anyone, but I do want a man that respects me. I in turn will respect him. It's that simple. | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/5/2006 5:36:30 PM | | as you know all guys will say they are good. but they are few and far between as you know. I for one am probably one of the last GOOD GUYS left. If you want an honest stable attractive hard working man. wel here I am | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/5/2006 7:29:44 PM | | I find it best to expect nothing on a first date. I have been criticized for not being aggressive and been attacked myself on a first date. Some women were even insulted that it seemed I wasn't interested by not being a typical and a predictable man drooling for sex. I've been asked if I was gay or something. The truth is you can't win. Just go in with a neutral attitude and be prepared to date millions of nutty women. Yes, I am interested in what's between your legs as well as everything else. That's why I am dating. For the search of some type of relationship. This could involve sex (oh my) My joy and goal in life is not to just only have a woman on the other side of a restaurant table every Saturday, and that's it. On the other hand, I don't want sex to seal the deal for some nut case to stalk me. If (ALL) men are proposing sex with you, there must be some signals being sent. Sorry- | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/5/2006 11:35:53 PM | well, that's because men are pigs, and they dont respect women, all women know that, but all that they can do is keep the little bit of hope, that if they keep searching someday they will find the guy who doesnt think that way......and some women may find him, and some women may not......
but, yes, of course you are right, a woman's worth deserves more than just a man doing sumthing nice, just to get something back in return.....and of course there is more to a woman than what's between her legs, because she has much more than just that to offer any man.....
you're a smart woman to not give that to a man who is not willing to give you all of his heart and all of his ever....so keep lookin for the man who would never think of doing that sort of thing to you, and you will find him
always,
words of Gabriel
have a lovely evening | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/6/2006 2:52:45 AM | Possibly,like most women,they are is such a hurry to be in a relationship,they don't really give themselves time to send emails long enough to filter out all the lies the guys have told her.
Eventuallly,they will come out and then you can make the choice as to whom,and when to meet the other person. Same as with them men. They just want a body,ANY BODY,and both of them find themselves back looking for the NEXT one in line.
Why rush,you know what is going to happen,you've been there too many times before,and with in a couple of weeks,here you are,doing the same thing over and over."Oh,they sound intresting,let's go out".
One must recognize what they WANT,and what they NEED are two different things.
If a guy or gal,doesn't care to take time the extra time to LISTEN,to what all is said,as well as WHAT WAS NOT SAID,or mentioned,that should send up a warning flag..but NO, let's rush into this, and in a couple of weeks down the road, complain there isn't anyone suited that fit your needs.
So by the time you do happen to find that ONE;and I admit,its a long road,and you can't get to know them if you don't meet them,but you are worn out form the lies,deciete; that all the good ones has already been scopped up by someone else who was willing to wait a little longer. Besides,who wants .....USED GOODS??? | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/6/2006 6:35:45 AM | Sex is as natural as drinking and eating. Don't we all want to drink and eat?
One crazy thought, sex is something to get out of the way so you can get to know the real person! It's just one part, if you get stuck at that you can never have a real relation.
I met this lovely lady, who told me that she has a 90 day deal. She would never make love in the first 90 days of a relation so I told her that I respect that it's her body and she can do anything she wants. But I can't do that and that she can call me in 90 days if I am still there fine. Guess what? We became great lovers and know we are great friends! | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/6/2006 6:52:19 AM | I reallydought i'll make any point with ladies with this post, but i'm a nice guy, and it's really got me some where, hasn't it?...There are two Must not i think are not needed in the Must not's, 1.Must not have messaged users looking for Intiment Encounters or sex...2. Must not be looking for Intiment Encounters, I get blocked aolt, because of #1. and i can't ever rmember sending anyone athat, and #2. Do women really think that's SEX is all men are looking for, you know you can have an Intiment Encounter with out Sex, and most of the time, when i meet a woman, the subject of SEX is brought up by the woman, and i've talked to other men, who are single, and dating, and they tell me the same thing, men as for most part, are affraid to bring it up, because the women will think there nothing but HORN DOGS, guy's think back, on a date who brought up the subject of sex first?.. I for one won't just jump into bed with a woman untill we have talked for sometime, and she has to know what she is wanting, as much as the i do, there are so many men in JAIL for a RAPE there never did, it's to easy for a woman to cry Rape, and it be consentual, and with our Laws, it to easy to prove, or not to prove how ever you want to look at it, how many women go to JAIL for RAPE? You know? I really don't think i'd want a woman who was not wanting Intimacy, that would be one cold lady for sure...O.K. i'm through....I'll just go  | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/6/2006 8:00:01 AM | well this is the best thing ive ever heard ive not had a better laugh in my life
good guys stay home and never get no where
bad guys get in your house in your bed and all up in your mind
sex on the frist date well it happends if all is right i no cuz it happens alot
geting a woman in the bed is easy its what comes after that thats hard
most woman have been mest over by the guys that take evey thing thay have including there heart and never let it go i for one am trying to find some one thats not broke
trying to fix some one is not a nice job and by the time there fixed the one working is so wore out there is nothing left to give and it allways falls apart cuz u find in the end that u now need something new to get u back to what u once was
but what u once was will never be again cuz bang u have fopund anothing brokin heart to mend and we fall right back in to it till there is nothing left and no one wants nothing ya no
ive been there alot and still find me self doing so
well good luck to yall i think im out to recoop for a few months and try to find me again
ken | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/6/2006 8:38:11 AM | There are plenty of good guys and good women out there,, the problem isnt that,, its the way we use this kind of system. It just doesnt work,, that is why E harmony is different.
You cant window shop there,,, they send you a match based on your personality and what you are looking for, it also filters out all the people that dont really want to date but think they have a right to be there,, like charles manson,, but would you want to date him? no,,
Good men and women are everywhere,, we just dont give them a chance,,, | |
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| Where are all the good guys???
Posted: 11/6/2006 10:39:48 AM | | Sometimes, they are right under your nose, and it is up for you to decide who it is. I understand what you are saying, but I am the type of guy that looks past the obvious and look for what lays beneth the skin. | |
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