| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/20/2006 8:24:06 PM | | That would be horrible i could imagine because i was with this guy and he was sleeping around on me i was 22yrs old he was 20yrs old and he was sleeping with a woman in her late 40's close to 50!yrs old when we was still dateing and we lived togeather, he would snake around and see her and i did NOT blame this all on him because it was HER in the picture aswell and she was OVERPOWERING and none of us was able to stop this, i mean i weighed less than 120pound's and she weighed OVER 150pounds(fat) | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/20/2006 9:00:10 PM | Broken_Wings: I am sorry your bf was cheating on you. However it would have been just as bad had you been the one seeing a man close to 50.
As to my post I still do not see the difference between the man being 28 years older than his wife from a woman being 28 years older than her husband. | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/20/2006 9:20:02 PM | OP....
a/ highly ambitious at your age if you think you will find a younger woman ( in her 20-'s 30's ) that will date you let alone have kids with you with a profile like the one you got going on
b/ heck i think your being pretty darned ambitious if you think you will find an older woman to give you the time of day with that profile you have going on
c/ i highly advise....you change your profile if you want any woman that breathes to look your way.
d/ should you change your profile to something a little more healthy...still unrealistic but certainly not impossible for you to find a woman that will have kids with you. It is unfortunate that you have not enjoyed the pleasures of parenting...but life does not always give us what we want...and for valid reasons...one's that we may not understand at the time...but valid none the less. Perhaps you should look at accepting what life has given you and not given you....respect that there is a reason for it...and look within yourself to see if life was trying to show you something you may have overlooked. Realism in your expectations would be a good place to start.  | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/20/2006 10:31:24 PM |
Re: msg 29
don't you think that was a little harsh on the op??? You've had your kids, why would it be so unholy for the op to have his?
I guess we men all have to appeal to the shallow snotties
I am not sure if I am msg 29 or not as I have never counted, but no one has been very harsh with him. Yes I have kids, but having kids was never the reason I tried to have a family of my own. The OP makes it sound like the only reason he wants a family is to have children. I can not think of anything more shallow than a man marrying a woman just to use her for reproduction.
I still think that he more than likely blew his family apart with his wanting children so much. Would be willing to be he would still have his family to this day, if he had not driven her away with the need to have them. | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/21/2006 4:44:32 AM | You definately need some councelling.
You could of left your wife earlier in order to have kids of your own.
Why would women want to have children with a man who chances are won't live to their child's 21st birthday.
There's a reason a woman's body stops having the capability to have a baby in her 40s.
You're 49 & definately still have a lot of growing up to do. | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/21/2006 5:27:45 AM | strider0829656...Well your ummm going to be 50???? Honestly its very easy to make a baby..but trust me when it screams in middle of night and is colic etc..thats very hard to handle no matter how much you love that child.
How many older men would have the patience for it??? It's not easy you have to have energy, hope your health stays well... sad thing is you might feel good now but you may never get opuritunity to see that child grow up...
It a wonderful thing when you get to the point in life where the kids become young adults and they become your friend tooo.
I wish you all the best  | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/21/2006 5:50:57 AM | I'm 29 and get asked all the time why I haven't started a family yet!
I don't see the big deal in men (or women really) waiting to have children. Everyone who says think about the kids well yes think about the kids, what is better? a 40 year old dad who spends time with their kids outside or a 20 year old dad who just wants to play video games all day with his kids? It's not an age thing ,it's up to the individual to be a good parent or not!
I know tons of great parents who had kids young ,and tons more who waited until they were a little older before becoming parents.
I remember years ago wanting to have 3 kids by 25, that clearly didn't happen (hah) and I learned to expand my timelines and be a little more openminded about things! | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/21/2006 6:02:58 AM | You need councelling to help you deal with your negativity.
Maybe you should look into fostering, they need a parent & you obviously "need" a child, but then again you'll have to lose your negativity before they even consider you as a foster parent. You might learn a thing or two from who you get, if you get. | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/21/2006 6:03:37 AM | You need councelling to help you deal with your negativity.
Maybe you should look into fostering, they need a parent & you obviously "need" a child, but then again you'll have to lose your negativity before they even consider you as a foster parent. You might learn a thing or two from who you get, if you get. | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/21/2006 8:49:40 AM | Your age is not the problem OP....it is your bad attitude. Just your profile alone exudes the bitterness and hatefulness of a man done wrong. Well, boo-hoo, get over it....not all women are alike. Just as not all men are alike. You couldn't see a good woman if she was standing nose to nose with you because of your attitude.  | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/21/2006 9:47:46 AM | Actually, Genuine, conventional thinking has it that older men are MUCH more patient (and mature) than younger men. What they lack in energy (arguable as well) they more than make up for in attributes gained through experience and sheer "living".
How many older men would have the patience for it??? | |
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| Why do younger women think guys in their late 40's are to old to start a family
Posted: 6/21/2006 9:51:19 AM | OP, you've just self-sabotaged any hope of your getting a woman on here.
Women are just like men of 30 and 40 years ago.... Women of today have turned out to be down right mean and selfish.
My advise is to get that counseling you mention and start over fresh on another site... sans the bitterness and disparagement! | |
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