| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/25/2007 9:19:05 PM | I own my own home in Dallas, but have been renting a room from a girl in the New Orleans area (while I work here helping re-build things) for most of the last year.
I am 50. She is 26. Her best friend also lives here. The best friend is also 26.
I have overheard both of them (at different times) a few times.
We're all pretty laid back, and have been rooming together long enough to be comfortable with each other, so when this happens, it's usually fodder for jokes the next day.
I keep telling them that I could make 'em moan louder than their creepy boyfriends...
Usually I just get told," Yeah... sure you could, DAD!!"
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/25/2007 9:59:42 PM | i live in residence at college and me and my roomate have some basic ground rules for when we come home with guys
1. Always use protection 2. Be as loud as possible 3. If the roomate can hear you, they are allowed to join in
There have been many a night where im sure my roomate has wanted to enact rule #3. But thankfully she has yet to, for which i love her dearly. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/25/2007 10:44:51 PM | | The guy who lives below me was really loud one night. It was about 3:30 in the morning and it took me a while to figure out why it was so loud... there were at least 4 people in the room! I felt awkward but went to him the next day and told him to keep the orgy in another room so I could sleep. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/25/2007 11:00:16 PM | The worst was in my dorm at college, being on the top bunk while my roommate was having sex with some guy on the bottom bunk. Talk about an awkward situation!
A few years ago, I was at a convention and was rooming with a friend of mine. She was still out and about when I went to bed. I woke up in the middle of the night partially because I had to go to the bathroom, and partially because my roommate and some guy were having sex in the other bed. I pretended to be asleep until they were done (or so I thought), then I got up and went to the bathroom. When I came out of the bathroom, they were going at it a second time! What could I do? I sat up and made snarky comments until they were done. ;) | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 12:55:32 AM | I did way back in the day when I got my first place. To say it was awful is an understatement. Either do one of two things: 1. Yell shut the fack up and bang on the door. Or, 2. Start moaning and groaning at the top of your lungs. Either way it will freak them out, they'll shut up and they will learn to bury their faces in the darn pillows next time. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 8:28:56 AM | Yep, had friends staying overnight who were what I would call "madly in lust" I'm sound asleep on my sofa they're in my bedroom. It's about 5 in the morning and I'm wakened to the sound of something crashing........they actually broke my flipping bed......
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 8:32:10 AM | You slept on the couch and let someone else sleep in your bed??? haha I must be selfish but that would never happen :P
yeah I've heard it.......still in councelling hehe right Smyllz? | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 12:02:08 PM | An X of mine was nick-named "the screamer" in an apartment building that I lived in for awhile...
It totally didnt bother me, righ up untill we heard somone mention it not knowing that it was us....
Then, we did what we could to keep the noise down... Somtimes its just not appropriate.
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 12:36:47 PM | | Oh my...hehehe, I find myself being the problem being too loud! In my appartment I can hear the people upstairs snoring at night, it's really hard for me to be quiet, especialy last week when all I wanted was to yell of wowness! Some times you just can't help it! | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 1:39:00 PM | Yeah, I had this problem once, but the one making the noise was me!
My roommate, and her boyfriend, said something to me about it and I was totally embarrased because I didn't realize I was making that much noise.
After that, I asked my boyfriend to bring it to my attention if I got loud or to just kiss me or put his hand softly over my mouth. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 3:36:01 PM | haha, i feel so sorry for you...never had that problem but it must be quite entertaining.
but, you should be happy that your buddy is getting some...hell, if you arent. be happy for your friends right? lol.
i dont really think there is much you can do in this situation...i mean, its his place too. hope your tv volume goes up pretty high..lol
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 3:38:25 PM | | Oh yeah...I've had that little problem with MY roommate on occasion. It doesn't make me mad or anything, but I just feel pretty uncomfortable when I walk out after the fact and know they've been doing it in the living room on the couch I had planned on sitting on.... | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 3:56:40 PM | yeah, I have that problem right now. My room mate has the most hideous looking g/f ever. Not only is she hideous looking, but the sound of her voice makes me want to listen to some Yoko Ono music for relief. When I hear them going at it, my skin crawls. I wouldn't even do her for the practice.
Wow, me thinks I have some issues here huh??? lol
Thankfully, my sweetheart and myself are moving into our own place this weekend. Then all we'll hear is US. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 5:52:45 PM | | yeah i have had this problem with a roommate at my old house. him and is gf were going at it every night and they left their door open every time it just go so annoying in the end i had to drown it out with music. i just didn't feel right for some reason to tell them to keep it down. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 8:57:48 PM | When I had a roomate, my partner and I would try to keep our moaning and naughty talking down. He was one of those ultra-sensitive listeners and it kinda creeped my partner out that were were only separated by one wall.
Anyways, one time I was getting facesit (big turn on) and she was grinding on top while I was trying to keep my tongue going after about 10 minutes. My roomate knocked on my door to come in and my partner tightened up and drove my head into the mattress. I tried to yell "not a good time", but my voice was muffled and he came in. Afterwards, he told me it sounded like 'it's good', but I've always suspected he knew what was going on. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 9:35:41 PM | The proverbial roommate sexcapades. I have walked in on a roommate before (about 4 years ago.) Sheesh ~ didn't she remember that the kitchen was on the way to my bathroom ?? I don't think I cooked in that kitchen one time after that. It just wasn't pretty.
I live with a roommate now, we have a rule. No men. We've been roommates about 14 months and neither of us have had a man here at our house. It's a respect thing. I'm celibate, she isn't ~ I don't think she wants to instigate me falling off the wagon, so she incorporated the no-men-allowed-rule (it's really very sweet since she is the only one dating.)  | |
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djnick
| Joined: 11/6/2005 Msg: 67 | |
| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/26/2007 10:49:41 PM | | When I was younger I had a roommate and you could hear it from time to time. Thankfully I have a great set of headphones to tune them out. But I'm sure there were times they could hear as well so it all works out in the end... well unless they were in the living room as that was the only way out | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/27/2007 1:34:47 AM | | I heard my brother( we have a house together) banging his girl several times. To be honest it really pisses me off for a couple of reasons. Firstly, it is my best friend's ex, and secondly she's hot and I aint be getting any tang like that, so I'm jealous. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/27/2007 5:55:49 AM | I have 3 boys. Two live together. They were here the other day and the younger one was commenting on his older brother's girlfriend coming over that night. He and his friends were wondering if they should ignore the noises coming from the bedroom or cheer. My oldest son said they should cheer. (Why do the talk about this stuff in front of me)?  | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/27/2007 7:15:37 AM |
You could always pull the chubby loudly moaning and lots of "oh oh oh ya!!!" ...then try telling him that you masturbate violently during their loud trysts. That would creep them out and who knows, maybe things will be a little quiter.
Oh my gosh that was funny!
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/27/2007 5:09:49 PM | All I have to say is.... I am usually the roommate making the noise and not once has he complained!!! I think you should enjoy the noise and go with it, cuz if its bothering you that much it means your not gettin it... so grab some lube, close your eyes and go to town... LoL.... | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 1/27/2007 5:14:50 PM | To solve such problems me and my roomie made a resolution. A agreement when we moved in together.. We do what we do at THEIR houses.. Save our place as a sanctuary. A place for virtue. No dates come home here etc. It is great. No akward moments. No weirdness. No overhearing crap.. It is GREAT!!!!!!!! | |
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Jemue
| Joined: 1/26/2005 Msg: 73 | |
| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 3/24/2008 6:23:12 PM |
I'm just curious anyone else ever had this problem?
A few times, I can hear my neighbours some times.
Though I'd much rather put up with that occasionally opposed to hearing people argue or something like that, at least I know they are having fun. | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 3/24/2008 6:47:14 PM | I believe I've been a problem like that yes...lol Harvey we could give them a run for their money. *winks* | |
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| Hearing sex from roommate Posted: 3/24/2008 7:10:19 PM | I have never had to hear from the roommate, but I was the roommates girl friend LOL. His poor roomie had to hear us going at for two hours at a time and apparently I can get loud  | |
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