| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/21/2006 5:07:08 PM | | well i can say this much. there were strippers at a local club last weekend, and i ended up taking one home. it wasn't exactly a relationship-building night, but my god this guy knew just what buttons to push (and lick, and touch, etc) so my answer is a yes | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/21/2006 5:26:29 PM | | I dated a stripper for about 6 months, was she better in bed I don't think so. She was good in bed but I wouldn't say any better then other girls I've slept with. Strippers are just people I have known my share of strippers, and they are just regular people. The girl I dated was no more kinky or anything else then anyone else I have ever been with. It's just a job, sure there not as uptight about there bodies as most people, in europe there are countries where it is normal to go to the beach or pool topless, does this make them better lovers. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/21/2006 5:27:07 PM | | I have had sex with a couple of female strippers and they were awesome in bed....but for the most part it was MOSTLY all about them...and they seem to make it that way. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/21/2006 6:37:22 PM | | i've not had 'spine tingling' sex with anyone except women i cared about. i've had sex with women who were strippers, and it was nothing special, it's not some guarantee they will be good. she danced pretty well tho! | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/21/2006 6:59:48 PM | | Well never having slept with one (dammit!) I can't really say but I would have to agree with the people who said it depends on the person not the job. Lets face it asking if strippers are better is like asking if accountants or firefighters are better. Its always going to depend on the two (three, seven, nine?) people involved in the sex not what they do for a living. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/21/2006 10:44:22 PM | I was a strip club dj for years. At first i was married so obviously i was faithful and didn't go there. Seriously. But after being efficiently and preemptively replaced by a 19 yr old brad pitt look-a-like, i thought to myself one night while loaded at work, "hey maybe i should have sex with one of these girls?" And i did with a girl i had grown fond of over the years while working real close. It was like a dam bursting for both of us. We would make love and i would forget where i was, what i was doing. It was pure nirvana for me. Being able to let go completely with someone in the sack is a pretty cool thing. It can only be a mutual experience for it to happen at all. Anyway, that "relationship" faded away for various sound reasons. Next, a stunning, all natural big breasted blond dancer. I mean this girl was a beauty by any mans standards. The icing on the cake? my ex wife knew her ha!. I knew it would eat her up inside when she found out. I was so crazy at the time. This girl turned out to be awesome in bed as well.....with everybody! She was also a monsterous alcoholic and cocaine addict. My life became a living hell. I lost my job eventually and pretty much everything else that goes along with working. She made a fool out of me in so many ways. I guess she could be considered an average stripper (excluding her looks of course). Alcoholic Cocaine addicted Horrific childhood Destroys everyone in their life that gives a damn.
Advice from a guy who has been there behind the scenes? Run as fast as you can in any other direction. You may as well be trying to stop a tornado with a big hug getting involved with......them.
Better lovers? I don't know about that. Different maybe. Wish i could say "i have no idea" to be honest with you all. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/21/2006 10:44:39 PM | I was a strip club dj for years. At first i was married so obviously i was faithful and didn't go there. Seriously. But after being efficiently and preemptively replaced by a 19 yr old brad pitt look-a-like, i thought to myself one night while loaded at work, "hey maybe i should have sex with one of these girls?" And i did with a girl i had grown fond of over the years while working real close. It was like a dam bursting for both of us. We would make love and i would forget where i was, what i was doing. It was pure nirvana for me. Being able to let go completely with someone in the sack is a pretty cool thing. It can only be a mutual experience for it to happen at all. Anyway, that "relationship" faded away for various sound reasons. Next, a stunning, all natural big breasted blond dancer. I mean this girl was a beauty by any mans standards. The icing on the cake? my ex wife knew her ha!. I knew it would eat her up inside when she found out. I was so crazy at the time. This girl turned out to be awesome in bed as well.....with everybody! She was also a monsterous alcoholic and cocaine addict. My life became a living hell. I lost my job eventually and pretty much everything else that goes along with working. She made a fool out of me in so many ways. I guess she could be considered an average stripper (excluding her looks of course). Alcoholic Cocaine addicted Horrific childhood Destroys everyone in their life that gives a damn.
Advice from a guy who has been there behind the scenes? Run as fast as you can in any other direction. You may as well be trying to stop a tornado with a big hug getting involved with......them.
Better lovers? I don't know about that. Different maybe. Wish i could say "i have no idea" to be honest with you all. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/22/2006 4:34:22 AM | | I was seeing one for a little while and she def knew what she was doing ... Fun times but i dont think i could date a stripper long term . | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/22/2006 5:36:03 AM | | milliprella----------dont be an idiot...one man one experience..strippers are W HORES all of them..I hope you used protection....that is SICK | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 6/22/2006 6:39:29 PM | | I dated a model once, she really sucked in the bedroom. I had fun cuz she was a model and she was engaged. I would do it again just for fun - lol | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 2:50:41 AM | I let the love of my life slip thru my fingers in high school. I got married ahad kidsm divorced, etc. Shortly after the breakup, I re-met my high school sweetie, stripping in a club. I almost cried for her. It is THE most degrading job in the world, and any woman who says it isn't is lying. Strippers hang with ho's, and adopt the "I'm too pretty to work for a living" attitude, and begin to feel like, "hey, what's a handjob for $40, or a blow job in the back or whatever? It's not like it's real sex, so it's not really cheating!" Strippers are selfish, materialistic, thoughtless, greedy, need I go on?
My ex-stripper girlfriend and I were supposed to get married this weekend, she was going to stop dancing, and the world would be a better place. A week before the wedding, she pulled the plug on the wedding, and the relationship.
Why? She found a new man who makes 10 times more money and didn't have any "problems". She found him AT WORK while doing a private dance.
Strippers are ALL sluts. Whether or not they have sex on a daily basis, they have no desire to commit to anything. They want to make a big wad of cash to spend on expensive shampoos and makeup and outfits to attract the next contestant.
Money is life for these girls. Never date a stripper unless you are a heartless prick. If you like the feeling of being told for 2 years how much you are loved, and sharing the idea of a future with someone, only to have it ripped out from under you in a flash, date a stripper.
I didn't lose the love of my life... I just lost my turn. Have fun, Mr. Collicutt! You'll need all the luck you can get.
If a woman has to shake her crotch in my face to get my attention, she'll find me looking the other way. Don't you girls have anything else to offer? Mine didn't... eat, sleep, watch tv, and jerk guys off at the club.
To hell with strippers | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 2:51:47 AM | | Oh yeah, and she was so disgusted by the disgusting pigs who go to those clubs, that sex was non-existant. I was just another guy to her. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 4:26:00 AM | "What like strippers are a different class of human?
Kinda like asking if all baptist ministers are better at the missionary position....Sheesh!
The answer is they are no better, and no worse than anyone else carrying the same baggage."
hmmm, not sure about that ... I think a better example would be to say that all doctors are better at throwing up. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 6:25:19 AM | | absolutely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!the best that ive ever had. i will never forget her........it was years ago and she still brings a smile to my face.................i would kill to see her again. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 7:55:54 AM | Convo with a co-worker
Me: I think i'm in love with a stripper. I spent $500 on her last night. I never spent so much on a woman before. 
Nick: For $500, i'll strip for you.
Me: She gave me her number and want me to call her
Nick: Call her, you ****
Me: I did! She told me her schedule for the next week. Plus she wants to buy furniture for her new apartment.
Nick: When are you going to **** her?
Me: I don't know! I really like her though. Even though I don't even know her last name. We had a connection for sure.
Nick: Okay, one word of advice. Don't let her drive your car. Don't make a stupid mistake someone made before.
Me: What happened?
Nick: My ex once drove her ex's Ferrai into a flag pole. She couldn't believe she had to pay for the damage.
Me: No, I'll be doing the driving. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 10:19:14 AM | I wouldn't know - but I know that I am a better lover when my partner and I 'play stripper' together! LOL -  | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 10:32:07 AM | Ive never been a stripper,nor have I ever slept with one ,so I really cant say:) What I do know is given the right motivation,Im sure I could work a pole with the best of them  | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 5:30:50 PM | Why would you want to sleep with a stripper anyways?
Not saying all of them, but a lot of them engage in drugs, sleep around... it's a good way of catching something...
Strippers have always been a turn off and will continue to be a turn off...
I would rather play Russian Roulette... | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 6:33:35 PM | | Some may be better lovers -some may not - an occupation doesnt decide how you perform sexually.Having said that it is my belief that strippers tend to be less inhibited ,are very sensual, more open minded than many regarding "taboo" issues,and more in touch with their[ and their partners] body/sexuality. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 6:46:53 PM | I don't think a employment choice makes you a better lover....you are or your not, a relationship requires a depth of intimacy to achieve what you and your partner desire to make, what we would classify, a good lover.
imho | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 7:49:56 PM | why would a stripper make a better lover? they may be good dancers and move nice but unless your paying them to perform dont expect them to! i think a women who feels sexy with her body and really enjoys sex is a good lover, dont confuse that with a stripper- they dont strip for fun they strip for money-not sex. its to teas you into parting with your money. go find a nice girl and leave the strippers alone. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 9:20:19 PM | It's interesting to see that people have no expierence whatsever give opinion about something they know nothing about.
"strippers are just normal people."
well, next thing you'll say prostitutes are just normal people. then drug dealers are just normal people.
They have one thing in common: they want easy money, and they want it now. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers Posted: 7/18/2006 10:00:15 PM | Seems that there is a lot of speculation going on here...??
How about the voice of experience ??
I lived with a lady who was a stripper by occupation, because she loved the attention. Every night, when she came home, she'd take her pants off one leg at a time, and in the morning, put them on one leg at a time too, just like you and I........In bed, she was very agile, flexable, energetic, athletic, expieramental, and outgoing. She worked very hard to please; No different than the rest of us do, but she was just a little more aggressive about it than a lot of other women that I have been with. Does that make her better ?? Well, she was certainly more in tune with my wants, likes and dislikes, because she wanted to be. I enjoyed pleasing her more too, because it was like a challenge, and that made it better between us.
I think that if one party knows what they are doing, and the other is in left field, nobody is going to enjoy the experience. Good sex takes a good match between two people, regardless of your occupation
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