| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/18/2006 10:05:18 PM | | Well I cant speak for the "others" but I am an ex stripper. Put my kids thru diapers and formula when the exhusband left. I was a darn good stripper. Made good money. More than the rest of the girls. I would like to say my parents were proud to see the 10 years of gymnastics training wasnt wasted haha. To answer the question. I would say NO. I am a very confident woman that isnt shy but I wouldnt say I am any better in bed than my best friend who never stripped, has no children, is a social worker and has 4 times as many sexual partners as I ever had. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:31:15 PM | sinsrus....and apparently by your voice of opinion you have no idea what you are talking about...
assuming...
you know the rest in that.
For the record I am an ex stripper
(didn't feel I had to advertise for those that like to stereotype) and it wasn't about easy money.
And for those that seem to judge and paint all women in this line of employment with the same brush.
I was never a drunk, drug user or sold my ass for sex and most of the strippers I knew were putting themselves through nursing or law school.
ignorance is bliss. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 5:49:56 AM | It's like any place, all strippers are not bad and whores and all that crap, that is just stereotyping....there will always be your good ones and your bad ones, like any place....I have known a few who are the nicest women, and did it for a year or so to make money to get into school with a child, and unless they flat out told you they were one at one point you would never have known it....it's not like cuz they did it once it's written all over them and it's obvious....
people stereotype too much ...heck if I had a body like some of them I would probably too to make cash like that...it's not like they are selling themselves, it's a controlled environment...if you want to pick on the bad ones, than find them and single them out, don't "generalize"
and I prefer to call them "dancers"....for one....not all are nude dancers, and you can go into any club or bar or outdoor bad and find women dancers with the skimpiest bikinis on dancing and selling the beer, so awhy aren't some of u bashing them? just cuz their top didn't slip off, but 98% of their ass is showing? I mean come on....lol.....there's nothing wrong with it. They just aren't having money thrown their way like at a strip club........alot of srippers make 10 times the money u do in a year, yet have not gone out of the lines in the dancing busniess if you know what I mean.....most of them do it for a year or so..the ones who do it for like 6-7 yrs and on than something may be going on that isn't good.....ur select few.... | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 6:03:07 AM | | I found that it’s a crap shoot. Sometimes they dump all their sexual wildness on the pole and couple that with antidepressants, charlie and booze and you’re better off drilling a whole in the wall, slapping a nice rib-eye on the whole and ****ing it. Other times, they unleash all their bottled up male-hate and you get one hell of crazy kinky lay. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 10:00:37 AM | | I have an ex-bf who's ex-wife was a stripper... he told me that she had sexual issues and was not a good lover. He told me many of the girls that strip have sexual issues and that is one of the reasons they do what they do. He told me many of them are bi and lesbians but mostly they have problems. I haven't researched the subject further because it's of little interest to me but that's what he told me. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 10:20:25 AM | I have an ex-bf who's ex-wife was a stripper... he told me that she had sexual issues and was not a good lover. He told me many of the girls that strip have sexual issues and that is one of the reasons they do what they do. He told me many of them are bi and lesbians but mostly they have problems. I haven't researched the subject further because it's of little interest to me but that's what he told me.
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Strippers just make better arm/eye candy.
It makes a man look like a stud muffin extraordinaire (which is meaningless).
These men date the stripper, just to please his male entourage, but nothing more.
Strippers are very much human and would like respect just like everyone else.
It is just that they exploit their looks to get some VERY easy money.
All you do is dance on a pole and lap dance/rub against some stupid bloke,
remember the phrase...a fool and his money are easily/quickly parted.
Sure beats prostitution. I mean no disrespect to any stripper.
Any and all women are capable of great sex. It all depends on who taught them and their ditching of any inhibitions (ie. overly Christian upbringing, phobias of any sort, etc.).
If you were brought up that sex is evil, the you will never know the joy of living in the secular world.
Sex in and of itself is not evil, it just carries many responsibilities: to yourself and with others.
If you were brought that sex can be wonderful, but importance is played on responsibility, then you are very much armed with wisdom and discretion. Life is good and you pick the person you will not feel guilt or emotional baggage.
Just rememeber, just how much time and how much money do you really want to know a particular person and for what reason.
It is far cheaper to meet a sincere single at a decent gathering and develop an endearing bond, then to blow money just trying to know, befreind and boink a stripper.
Alas I will catch hell from the unenlightened, but oh well, as I tell every one, I am not Santa Claus and sugar coat things, I will tell the truth as it is. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 10:42:19 AM | " For the record I am an ex stripper
(didn't feel I had to advertise for those that like to stereotype) and it wasn't about easy money."
So why did you become a stripper? | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 12:23:19 PM | | I applied for a bartender. They wanted me on stage. At that point it really didnt matter I had 2 babies 3 jobs and I wasnt making it. After a few weeks of working I was able to quit all the other jobs and work just 2 nights a week. I wasnt proud but a good mother and there for my kids. For the record. It was bikini-not topless-and not all girls do drugs or are tramps. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 12:31:34 PM | trailertrashh- you never did a line or got lit before going on stage? Man you are truly in the minority. Good for you!
My ex used to rail big time just before doing her routines. I used to be the driver for her group…man what a mess… | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 12:46:01 PM | | Got lots of white powder in dollars and passed it out to the girls. I was there for the money and my kids. Cant make money when you are cloudy and cant work the men (sorry guys) and want to hide in the back. Never been a drinker. Who wants to give you money when you smell like vomit. Its a business. I didnt like to be there so I wanted to make the most money in the shortest amount of time. Have the best costumes, tonest body, best music,choreograph, eye contact, tan, conversation etc. If you ask me, its a lost art form. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/21/2006 10:53:55 PM | Trailer, you are every bit the professional. As in dancer,
Reminds me of the song Private Dancer by Tina Turner.
Keeping focused on entertaining, get the cash , go home and be the good parent.
I will never cast judgement. After all who am I to do that.
I am glad that you are taking care of your kids.
And yes, being a burlesque dancer is a lost art form, the true artist is a dying breed.
Encore to you and all women like you. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/22/2006 1:37:07 AM | better implies a comparison - to what or whom? inhibited women? hell yes...
they're terrific so long as the good-times are rolling -
when the going gets tough - they get going...
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/22/2006 7:03:08 AM | | They tend to be free-spirited in bed. Sex is definately interesting. Their looks tend to make for easier climax but not better lovers IMO. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2006 8:40:12 AM | I was with one for a while that was fantastic, in fact the best lover I've experienced. I was also with two sister strippers and that was amazing.
One of my girlfriends turned to stripping when she was younger and I didn't like her in the sex dept and I also dated her stripper friend and that wasn't too good as well. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2006 12:50:41 AM | | I've dated a couple of strippers, and i can honestly say it has nothing to do with their imagination in bed. Now if you asked if artists made better lovers, i'd have to totally say YES. Artists have WAY better imaginations and can think of WAY more interesting and better things to do with bodies than strippers. Strippers are just more flexible, if they have no imagination then they aren't any better at anything else. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/23/2006 12:59:51 AM | | Thats a good one it makes me think.....since they perform so much, perhaps when it comes down to it,....-, well you can guess the rest I guess. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/23/2006 1:45:40 AM | It really depends,
Floor shows, although similar to the matress Mombo, are not the same in every aspect. I have found this out personally. One of my friends is a stripper, and I asked her this question before, and she had me find out for myself. The answer is NO, although she was an excellent pole dancer, she was downright horrible at swinging and grinding my pole if you know what I mean. I can't elaborate any more than that because I have only had sex with one stripper. I'd have to expirament with at least four or five more to give an accurate answer. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 1:46:03 AM |
It's interesting to see that people have no expierence whatsever give opinion about something they know nothing about.
"strippers are just normal people."
well, next thing you'll say prostitutes are just normal people. then drug dealers are just normal people.
They have one thing in common: they want easy money, and they want it now.
I completely agree. Strippers are no different than prostitutes. They get naked for money, are sexual workers, turn men on sexually for money, and are basically live porn. Especially when they give "contact" lap dances, its just like prostitution. My husband went to a bachelor party and the groom got a full contact "lap dance" from a completely nude chick in a private room and came in his pants! THAT is prostitution. I told my husband never to go to those nasty places ever again. i was pissed when I found out about the nudity. He thought the girls would be in bikinis, and I was ok with that, and thats the only reason I let him go. I'm NOT ok with these nasty whores showing off their t*ts and p*ssy to my husband and groping themselves in front of his face! Its all so disgusting and anyone who thinks that stripping is a "normal" respectable profession needs a reality check, and any whore that grinds their p*ssies against strange men's penises for money does NOT deserve to date a decent man. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 3:44:05 AM | Ma'am, I'm not saying that you're totally wrong because I agree that they could be doing better things with their lives than showing everything off. However I do not apreciate you calling all of them whores, I know quite a few that are doing it to pay for college expenses, dorm expenses and to feed their family.
1. working as a stripper has given them a chance to pay off expenses early rather than later. One of my best friends is a stripper, and shes doing it so that she can create a better living for herself after college, she does not want to have an enormous amount of debt when she graduates and stripping has given her the chance to pay off her expenses fully while she still has two more years of college to go. Shes continuing to do so right now to save up for after college, this way she can put a down payment on a home and not have to worry about that at a later time.
2. I know a single mother of three who does it because she can't afford to feed her kids, pay rent and make a living on a normal salary. Shes making enough now to do all of these and save up money on the side for tough times.
So as you can see from what I have just stated, Not all strippers are whores. Although some sleep with clientel on the side, the majority of them do not. Most of them are good people just trying to make a living and are doing so for a short amount of time before they can find a more respectable job. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 5:45:05 AM | Soulis, this is a subjective thing and with all woman I use proper protection...
I have a close friend that bikini dances and doesn't lap dance. After getting to know each other she started dancing for me and we started schema a real life date, which we eventually had. This girl is smart, funny, and Russian, and definitely not a whore. Russian girls in particular come into this country with little opportunity and they only have one thing to offer, their looks. They, my friend included even have college degrees that are completely discounted and considered useless here.
If I were one of them I'd probably be dancing as well. | |
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| Do strippers make better lovers
Posted: 7/24/2006 7:11:22 AM | "1. working as a stripper has given them a chance to pay off expenses early rather than later. One of my best friends is a stripper, and shes doing it so that she can create a better living for herself after college, she does not want to have an enormous amount of debt when she graduates and stripping has given her the chance to pay off her expenses fully while she still has two more years of college to go. Shes continuing to do so right now to save up for after college, this way she can put a down payment on a home and not have to worry about that at a later time.
2. I know a single mother of three who does it because she can't afford to feed her kids, pay rent and make a living on a normal salary. Shes making enough now to do all of these and save up money on the side for tough times."
No matter how you paint it. It's easy money that they want. Most colleage girls do NOT become strippers. A lot of woman with kids do NOT become strippers. Those who choose to become have lower moral standard. It's not like they're forced into stripping.
I personally support prostitution legalization. And I know most strippers don't have "sex" with their customers. But is dry hump a sex act? Is hand job a sex act? The "no toching" policy is ony applied to the genital area.
Those strippers are just as normal as street beggers and drug addicts. As a patront of strip clubs, I'd love to say i'm supporting education system or helping needy children, but I know it's total B.S. as you. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 12:04:07 PM | | Im not speaking about all dancers but the ones I knew had some serious personal issues. My friends ex girlfriend was a stripper and she was a alcoholic crank user bi polar had bad realationships with her family and child. Although I tried to be her friend she used a lot of people around her. Even though a lot of dancers make a lot of money many are broke and bankrupt from bad decisions. Bambi the dancer blew over $70,000 in one year on drugs not only on her but her friends to. Didnt have a concept of balancing a check book was constantly broke and borrowing money to pay her rent of $500 a month even though she made over a $1000 a week and had a car that was paid for. Her and her friends were nothing but lost soals and they all had a common theme about having poor relationships with their fathers either them not being around or being sexually abused. I stay away from those places I just want a woman who is normal and knows how to work on their personal problems. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 12:40:54 PM | Quote from soulis...I completely agree. Strippers are no different than prostitutes um no offense you are wrong. I have read all your posts you call tattoes skanky you call Strippers no better then prostitues . Hence strippers dont all sleep with their clientel I dont know what place you hang out in but they not all don't. If u watch half the strippers they dont enjoy what they do but the money is very well paid.. You also said I'm NOT ok with these nasty whores showing off their t*ts and p*ssy to my husband and groping themselves in front of his face!... well hun why is he at the strip bar then? Im sorry but I know many people who have paid for schooling my sister one. 4 years university no loans anything.(god rest her soul) miss you ( sis) but wont sit and read a forum from someone who says in thier profile who says she is open minded etc your not open minded and to put all people in one catagory is wrong.
Btw i paid 2 years of university doing it and now will be paying my last 2 years of school doing it and by no means am i a skanky nasty hoe as u call it. I do it cause The money is good ,my kids have everything and with the way school loans are .. Its my choice and one i live with. So flame away girl....  Im the one who will have a degree like others... Its a job thats all it is .... | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 1:05:06 PM | | I agree with rottylover. I know allot of strippers and don't judge people for what they do for a living or enjoyment. They are just like the rest of us human. They bleed when they get cut, they hurt when they get hurt. What the hell is the problem here. Saying strippers are whores is completley wrong. Are you jealous because maybe you can't do it. There is nothing wrong with strippers in anyway. The only thing different with strippers and myself is that they have the guts to get up there and strip. I wish I could. They entertain people and to me thats great. As for you being open minded well I think not if you were then you would not judge anyone. As for your husband going to strippers, sorry to say this but you must not be giving him what he needs at home or he would not be out looking at other women. Just becuase a stripper takes his/her clothes off does not mean they sleep with there clients or that they are whores, sluts whatever you call it. They are just like you are only maybe much prettier or skinnier then you. SO WHAT!!!! Who cares!!!! I can't stand when people judge people for what they do, what they look like, where they come from and what they have. I am not saying you are not pretty or skinny I am just saying maybe they have looks you don't or maybe you have some insecurities about yourself. I guess we will never know and I really don't want. Another things is too strippers make allot of money and i see nothing wrong with that. My god if I had the guts to get up there I would be making that king of money too. But because I won't get up there and take my clothes off that does not mean I should call strippers whore, sluts etc. Thats my choice. My point is STRIPPERS ARE HUMAN TOO!!!! | |
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