ZORRO!
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Joined: 1/12/2005
Msg: 51 | |
| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 6/29/2006 9:57:35 AM | Buenos Dias Everybody!
mmmm.. vagina is a good word. I just love how it rolls off the toungue..lol
Maybe your boyfriend is secretly a man lover.
Maybe he is only with you to hide his shame..
Trust me, you are a ferocious little pssiecat. This is not normal..
Maybe sit down with him and watch some educational films or something.
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Hasta Lluego!
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 7:29:05 PM | OK, I had the hardest time finding this post again till I figured out the search feature.
Ooops.
First of all, I hope this isn't the same Mike! HA HA HA HA
Second, pretty sure he isn't gay, altho he could be one of those act homophobic but pretend not bothered type gay guys? LOL
Now, we have talked about this endlessly. I brought it up again the other day. I get no answers, The topic is always changed, the question skirted, and me frustrated and pissed off.
Another thing I wanted to address: Perhaps I am settling. What I think is a soulmate may be a habitmate or fornowmate. I love this guy, Lord knows why since the more I analyze things, the more I realise he treats me like shit.
No, he doesn't ever even TOUCH me there. If he grazes me in that area, he pulls back like he has been burned.
Last thing: I am broadcasting this on the internet simply because I do not know who to ask. It is not a question I can post on my "Work at Home Mom" website, or the forum I belong to that talks about home made soap. Asking strangers about my **** is easier to me than trying to talk to my sister (or anyone else) about possible vaginattention issues. Also, it reassures me that so many men are genuinely surprised when a guy doesn't like to take a dive in the muff region.
I am a very sexual and sensual person, and I do not want to lose the little bit of self confidence that has returned to me since I got stretched and skewed having my wonderful daughter. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 7:59:54 PM | he is a lazy selfish jerk
if he expects you to go down on him but won't return the favour, dump his stupid azz...
any woman who wouldn't go down on me (i am more than willing to start the diving), will be a distant memory in a hurry.
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allh2h
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Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 54 | |
| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:01:00 PM | | Well then I'd like to ask if you don't mind and if it is too personal feel free to email if you are up for answering, how else does he treat you like crap? | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:04:49 PM | | Sometimes some women have problems down there. I'm not suggesting anything. But I dated one of those girls and well, it was really really really bad. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:12:57 PM | I know I have a good smell and taste. I am really not worried about that.
If you wanted to know how he treats me bad, we would need more time than I am sure you want to spend for me to explain our whole 8 year history! LOL | |
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allh2h
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Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 57 | |
| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:32:41 PM | | well I have a 3.5 year history with someone whom had the same issues/acted the same ways as your does, am just wondering if they might be anything else alike in other ways. If so, he is not going to change and you may as well get out and find a real man...that is why i was asking...tis a horrible thing that women stay in relationships like that because they think they are the ones doing it...and in reality it is the guy being screwed up. Of course this particular problem applies not just to men, it is common in women too...so...*shrug* | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 9:15:50 PM | wat the **** is wrong with every one. (going down south) man up and just say it **** its not hard to say
. and u to op. get a man that loves ****. id mow on that shit. mucking box is awsome. if u ever relize that he more than likely is gay cause he wont mow on ur **** ley me know. cause i could mow on ur shit for ever. unless u stick then im not down for it but u dont look like one who stinks. latter o and im feelin sorry for u that he wont eat ur **** | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 9:55:17 PM |
Maybe your guy is one of those that would rather "fetch a stick" than play with your hole. lmao.
You know what? he even talked me into shaving my **** cause he said it would make the touching/licking aspect easier for him. However, I am not sure he has even noticed it is shaved.
No matter, I decided I liked it and am going to get it brazil-ed. Sometimes, a girl has to wax her **** just for herself, KWIM?  | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 10:05:53 PM | Just responding to something you said earlier. If he is your soulmate, I don't understand why you would have "intimate encounters" (sexual) with anyone else (male or female).
If you feel you have to have that, than how can he be your soulmate?
Also, just like with a guys genitals, there are a lot of myths and legends about a female's. There's no telling what he heard in highschool--or even college. He might not understand how you like for him to touch you.
Here's something that should help.
Tell him you want 10 minutes of his time. Lay on the bed and take his hand. Put it where you want and SHOW him how. My guess is he'll fall in love with it. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/8/2006 10:16:13 PM | | She's probably looking for an intimate encounter because her jerk boyfriend isn't satisfying her at all. If she already tried talking to him about it and he completely ignored the problem and blew her off, that's not cool at all, especially if she's going out of her way to give him bj's. He's either a closet gay or has issues with women, or maybe just totally selfish. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/15/2006 4:13:53 AM |
Maybe your guy is one of those that would rather "fetch a stick" than play with your hole. lmao.
You know what? he even talked me into shaving my **** cause he
said it would make the touching/licking aspect easier for him.
However, I am not sure he has even noticed it is shaved.
I find this whole conversation amusing. Human sexuality has so
many different shapes and forms.
For example, I just the love shaved look and feel. But I
remember a close female (not girl) friend going through a divorce
and ranting that her husband left her, he said in part, for
someone with a bigger bush.
Twice a year a bunch of buddies and I go on a ski trip. Mostly
we communicate as well as any group of guys, which is to say not
much at all about anything personal. But one night (in 20 years
or so), I remember the conversation, after much alcohol, turning
to the subject of another kind of sex that can occur between a
man and a woman. In any case some admitted to liking it, others
thought it was disgusting, some had women who craved it, others
had women who were repulsed. After a few minutes of
conversation, or course, we all went hurriedly back to the usual
vacuous banter that characterizes male gatherings (and have
remained there for the 10 or so years since). But it sure did
make me realize that sexuality is varied.
Hasn't everyone here who's had more than one relationship seen
this? If my first marriage had adhered to the oral/coital ratio
desired by my first wife, we would have never had kids. The
second marriage was the opposite. Of course, I survived both.
So while I would not necessarily conclude that boy-oh wants to
start fetching sticks, it remains that his desires and fetishes
do not match up to those of ilovemike. Not too much she can do,
I suppose, except, as seems to be indicated by her profile, look
for alternate avenues for expression, given that mikey-mike is
not in play, and especially since he does not mind.
Billy Bob | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/15/2006 4:36:01 AM | Vagina Phobia: The deep-seated fear of slipping and falling into a gargantuan vagina, and being lost forever.
It almost happened to me, once. | |
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allh2h
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Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 67 | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/15/2006 2:00:34 PM | | My suggestion? Tell him that you will give him oral sex, but only if it is 69. He should be enjoying himself so much that he doesn't mind licking you. Also, there is the possibility that he is gay and either: doesn't want to admit it; or hasn't figured that out yet. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 7/15/2006 2:36:21 PM | "I know I have a good smell and taste. I am really not worried about that."
errr Thanks for info
OP: y sure he is not more into guys?  you wasting your time and never will change him with talk about licking or touching or or or anything else then 
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 9:02:26 AM | There is this talk show that I saw a posting on another site for that is looking for people who have phobias, especially couples where one has a sexual phobia.
If you are interested, Message me, because you can't put phone numbers or email addresses on here, and I kept the information. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 10:00:04 AM | Like most things your best bet is to lay it straight out for him.
"Hey, I'm feeling kinda neglected inthe oral sex department....I love you & all, but are you willing to please me once in a while like I do you or do i need to find a another penis whose tongue works as well?" | |
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jo~
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Joined: 9/2/2006
Msg: 75 | |
| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 10:28:33 AM | | Tell him your KITTY wants to try something a little more exotic on the menu......She's tired of the same old Sausage and Meatballs!!!!........Tongue I hear is a much more healthier choice!!!!.....She will thank-you by the sound of her PURRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrring!!!!!...... | |
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