| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 10:44:56 AM | | maybe he likes what you like! a big ol stiff one! may be he has beat you to the punch as far as reverting to the same sex! either he is gay or you really ticked him off! try dusching, he might want to lick it then. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 11:09:18 AM |
try dusching, he might want to lick it then.
Last I checked, most men prefer the taste of a woman to the taste of 'white flowers' or some such nonesense.....If it is clean you shouldn't have to DOUCHE beforehand. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 11:15:24 AM | Now I have heard it all.
Sorry Honey but the big bad vagina scares me. I will lay here while you give me head and watch some football....but please, keep that thing to yourself...I am so spooked! | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 2:46:38 PM | Women vary in their parts as much as men do and so doesnt our attraction to those parts. There may be nothing wrong with him or with you and it may be that the man just doesnt feel the attraction for that part of you with his hands, mouth, etc. but is ok with his penis there.
Put yourself in his shoes. If he had a penis you just didnt like for some reason, would you feel there is something wrong with you for not wanting to spend a lot of one to one, up close time with it? | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 4:00:57 PM | | OP.. try this............both of you shower.. get all bald ... get some flavored syrup like i once suggested or buy some Kuma sumatra honeydust (its a success for me!! EVERYTIME!!), have his dust it on you and see if that encourages him | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 10/30/2006 4:49:35 PM | I persona;lly don't know what this gusy problem is, I have absolutely no problem with orally satisfying a woman, actually I prefer giving more than receiving, mainly coz no one ever has been willing to give, but aside from that, I think that oral love-making can be a very intimate experience for a couple,
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:19:45 PM | | I hear so much knocking of this guy yet this is a lady in a relationship seeking another woman for intimate encounter. I dare say I dont even know this guy but I will side with him . For its not right for this lady to be seeking intimate encounters with any gender when she has a boyfriend she supposedly loves | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:22:53 PM | | Hmm, ok so supposedly he is your soulmate. I disagree!!!! With soulmates there are no boundaries. If you doubt me, read bridge across forever by Richard Bach. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:26:48 PM | Maybe he's afraid of it, afraid he doesn't know how to "work" it... haha you could buy him a manual... or better yet sit his butt down in a chair and teach him ;)
And yes I agree with those other folks in saying hold out. Starfish until he gets the deal. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/2/2006 9:53:41 PM | | He'll do it if he loves you, or at least try; I know cuz I have major vaginaphobia and Ive done it for a girl back in highschool (when i was trying to be hetero) because I actually loved her. If I managed to do it, so can he. Mind you I had to be drunk the first time and pour beer on it...oh yeah and dim the lights, and dont be so wet to start off with, I mean the taste can be strange. And he probably doesnt know how, I know I sure didnt, so give him lots of encouragement. But really if he doesnt want to even try, he doesnt care about your feelings. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/3/2006 1:17:57 AM | lol, well for the three years apart was he by any chance with another man?
The fact that you say that it is permanent tells me that you do not look at your relationship from a realistic perspective. maybe if you mean that you love him to that point that you could never foresee yourself leaving him... that would be understandable...
about the clit problem... only other thing I can think of was he abused with a giant clit during his childhood?
Sorry for being insensitive but using terms like vagina-phobia does it to me I guess. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/3/2006 5:03:47 AM |
we were together 4 years, apart for 3, back together again. This time its permanent
I am looking for women now
Well that's a good start to your 'permanent' relationship OP! If you are that unhappy with the situation, leave him, why stoop to cheating?  | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/3/2006 5:44:10 AM | dump him, your only gonna get more and more frustrated to the point where you`ll be closing your legs and telling him go play with himself, shame on him, and shame for you to be with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with whos got such a huge problem, going with women ? ok doubt i`d be ok with it, thats maybe the biggest pointer to why you should dump him, he dont give a shit, next its do you mind if i go with a guy cos that strap on feels so cold and rigid, wake up girl and smell the coffee or the roses or whatever else, dump him.it aint gonna get any better | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/3/2006 5:52:22 AM | maybe he is just a lazy selfish lover some men are you know : /
maybe he wants all the foreplay and does not or cant be bothered to put in the effort himself.
now how i see it is "if you dont want to play with the kitty kat then dont expect nothing back"!
and oh boy you dont know what your missing 
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| an awful shame
Posted: 11/15/2006 6:14:28 PM | granted I am late to the game in responding here -but he is incredibly selfish and you know it is true. Granted he doesn't have to love giving it to you - but to hold it back and suggest you get it elsehwere just means he doesn't care that much about you or how you feel. I hate to be so blunt - but it is true. Have another MAN do it for you - and it is his loss.
You will realize there is life after him. Tell him to kiss your ass on the way out. Best of luck. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/15/2006 6:50:32 PM | | are you 100% sure he's your soul mate? It's not you, I'm sure 10 000 men would love to be in his place and would give you more than you want. Sorry you are going through this. You must really love him, all the best, hope it works out. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/15/2006 7:18:20 PM |
OK, I am with my soul mate. Long story short--we were together 4 years, apart for 3, back together again. This time its permanent.
I have repeatedly tried to talk to him about his vagina phobia. I am telling you...It is work to get him to touch my clit, let alone lick it (a total of 2 times in our relationship) He will insert a vibrator, but not really work with it. If there is any clit play, he wants me to do it myself--that is mostly OK, but my God, sometimes I just want him to pleasure me, not me pleasure him and me, too.
It has gotten to the point where I wonder...what is wrong with my ****?!?!
Then I realise...nothing. he is the only one with this problem.
I don't know what to suggest anymore. Had anyone had this problem?
I am looking for women now, he is OK with it. I need some vaginattention!
If this is about oral sex... Then ask yourself, do you like cum in your mouth? Thats what its like eatting *****, its juicy and you really dont have a choice if you want to swallow. At the end of the day its about if you want to please your partner, if you want something they are not giving you can always find it else where
-best of luck
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 11/22/2006 6:20:03 AM | It's a very Freudian problem, as babies boys wonder why females don't have a penis and may presume that they 'did' have one, but now don't... This generates into some kind of vagina fear, as they think girls have had their penis removed or cut off (ouch, sorry guys)! This is a very pragmatic and psycholocical explanation: basically, it's not uncommon for men to have an intense fear of women's parts, the fear of which generates from a childhood phobia.
So just tell him that Freud said, shake yourself out of it dude. | |
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