| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 2:59:33 AM |
I have repeatedly tried to talk to him about his vagina phobia. I am telling you...It is work to get him to touch my clit, let alone lick it (a total of 2 times in our relationship)
Just tell him to think of your vagina as a taco. God made them look like taco's for a reason. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 6:18:38 AM | & Well I'm no expert,but I have noticed that different people do ; the same things for different reasons,and different things for the same reasons.Me personaly,I am totaly facinated by a womans Labia.I love the way they are all the same,but different.I love how they look,feel, taste,smell,all the wonderful things I am allowed to do while I'm lying between her thighs,I can just lay between those legs and spend hours looking and loving that my woman gives me so much pleasure by giving herself to me in this way.I love how wet they can get,all the beautieful colors they come in. As I kiss or touch
and lick a woman I enjoy knowing I am giving her as much pleasure I can,and I am not afraid to express to her how much I enjoy spending as much time with my lips on hers.I try to be as straight forward as I can with a new partner,Letting her know that I have a "Phobia" about her Labia,Vagina,Clitoris,Perinum,Pretty much her entire genital area.But mine is not a "Phobia"
based on fear,or lack of knowledge.Mine is a "Phobia" based on excitement,curiosity,fasination,eroticism,and ever since I first found out that "I didn't have one".I've wanted one ! Not on my body,But "On" my body. Maybe I suffer from a form of Vagina / Labia / Clitoris envy.When I am with a partner that gives me "free access"
I mean that allows me to spend as much time as desire,down there,I am in Heaven.I think women's Labia are one of the most beautieful parts of her anatomy.The colours,the intricate folds of her "lips",the various skin textures remind me,of sculptures,the Petals of Flowers,God's little "Works Of Art".And the more Labia she has,the more I Love it.Some Women are a little shy or uncomfortable whenI show so much desire to be intimately aquainted with an area of their bodies that most guys spend so little time and effort to get to know.Possibly because of ignorance or fear of the unknown.A lot of women are also in the dark,so to speak about that area of their own body,or think they are "ugly" down there,or they are unsure because they have heard negative things about smell,or taste etc..I've found that a woman's Labia,or vaginal area when maintained with regular hygene gives off a rather pleasant aroma.If There are unpleasant odors,discharges,or abnormalities,then she should speak to her doctor as she may have some medical issues that need to be addressed
but that is for health reasons not sexual.Actualy the smell of a clean Vagina is an afrodesiac
to me.I know I can't be the only man out here that feels this way about the Labia and Vagina,
I can become so aroused just by you letting me Pleasure you oraly that,on some occasions I feel "the warm up can sometimes be,more fun than the main event"
So Ladies,If you meet a guy that loves to spend hours looking,touching,licking,sucking,caressing,just basicaly enjoying the fruits of your womanhood.Please,don't discouage us,we think you are Beautieful.Especially "Down There"
And fellas,if you aren' spending time "Downtown",you haven't got a clue as to how much fun your'e missing out on,how much she will enjoy it,and how good it makes YOU feel and how exciting it is to continualy bring your partner to orgasm.Knowing that she knows how much you LOVE to "Eat Her ****". OOOoooohhhh Baby !!!!!
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 6:53:08 AM | A phobia is a strange thing, i used to have to ask people to remove nail files and sandpaper from my sight as it made me feel sick. But I think that all phobias can be overcome ('scuse the pun) Through out history the female genitals have been worshipped and revered in art, culture and religion fro some very good reasons, they are the source of all life to the observer. To those in ancient cultures who didn't yet understand reproduction, it must have seemed like a miracle...and indeed it is, even with our modern understanding of the world.
Perhaps you could try showing some of these examples from art history and gauge his response, talk is always a good thing and education works wonders, even in later life when we think we know it all. You could even try and subliminally work on his perceptions. Serve him pomegranets or apples cut in half, hamburgers on a bed of cress and so on
Personally I could do away with 'receiving' blowies altogether, but the thought of never being able to drink at the alter of love ever again gives me the shivers. I was bought up on roast beef sandwiches however....  | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 8:37:36 AM | Your post raises a lot of questions:
How can this guy be your "soul mate" when he doesn't satisfy you?
Are you bisexual?
Why don't you look for a partner who can satisfy you - regardless of gender?
I think you know that sex is only one facet to a relationship and I am guessing that the guy you are with is great in every department except this one. You will just have to learn to either accept him for how he is or move on to someone else. I have this nagging feeling that the guy you are with is not being honest with you. He won't explain why he doesn't want to touch you and he says he is ok with you being with another woman. Me thinks he has more going on than he's telling you - but that's just the impression I get from your post. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 11:00:30 AM |
I love the way they are all the same,but different.I love how they look,feel, taste,smell,all the wonderful things I am allowed to do
This must be the derivation of the word "de-flowering", from the comparison of the labia to a flower.
I so learn so many things in POF.
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 3:23:25 PM | | womens bodies are wonderful but any 1 must admit the vagina itself is pretty damn gross...im sure they feel great but to look at them...especially if theres no maintainence done in the hair region...and i keep hearing guys horror stories on here of how bad they tend to smell...i think its asking a lot for a guy to put his face into that. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 3:57:05 PM | Maybe the two of you should see a sex therapist. If your really are soul mates he wouldn't mind working on this with you.  | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 4:13:48 PM | Is this post just to get attention I just craked up I need vagina attention and you work in the health care secter, hope your not a guiena collegest lol. Nothing sexier then a real women who loves men. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 4:56:19 PM |
womens bodies are wonderful but any 1 must admit the vagina itself is pretty damn gross...im sure they feel great but to look at them...especially if theres no maintainence done in the hair region...and i keep hearing guys horror stories on here of how bad they tend to smell...i think its asking a lot for a guy to put his face into that.
OMG!!! Alright, I am going to try to be nice here. I know your profile says you are a virgin, so please, PLEASE don't believe everything you hear!!! First of all, most women maintain them as far as the hair (MANY are completely shaved) and a clean one does not in any way smell bad. They smell and taste wonserful and I am sure you will, one day, learn to appreciate that!!! | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/11/2007 6:01:09 PM | | I dont wanna sound to harsh here but of course thats just my way....I have to wonder was he scared of women also...Some men even have fear of women... But in my book a man thats scared to touch a women in the right places or even give oral is a little screwed up..But some men do think its nasty..Im being serious here...Some men think its smells or think it smells bad or is just nasty thats simlpy a vigina is nasty. when it dont or its not...this may sound nuts lol..Try taking a shower and getting good and clean and then try with him...If that dont work he just has the "FEAR" And only time will tell if he will come out of it...Some men never do. just work with him... | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 2/12/2007 10:23:52 PM | | I'm not sure if you can do anything about it. My ex husband was the same way. He would touch it but lick it...no way. I loved him so it didn't matter much to me. I guess you can say I was unaware of what I was missing. Since him I have experienced uber pleasure from having someone down south and oh my...I couldn't go back to a relationship without it. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 3/13/2007 3:08:32 AM | Has anyone considered that maybe he just doesn't feel adequate in this department - maybe he has never satisfied a women like this before?
You should ask him to practise his ABC's with his tongue, might sound crazy but even get him to try it on an ice cream cone first!
You could also add a little flavoured lube or chocolate body paint or something!!
If he genuinly loves you, he will do this for you.
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 3/13/2007 3:24:36 AM | I have met many women that have dated many men like that. Women that were amazed I enjoyed it and even more amazed about how good it could feel from someone that likes it. I think some men are brought up to think that the vagina is nasty before they ever experience one. Then they get with a woman and remember what they've been told, and can't ever get over it. But I do think it's a fear thing. No offense to you, but I'm glad they are out there, makes me more valuable.  | |
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mar814
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 3/13/2007 2:07:06 PM | | # words girl....Dump That ****......Maybe he is gay and hasn`t quite realized it....I love kitty and bury my face in it till she pushes me away... | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 3/13/2007 2:24:08 PM | You can lead a horse to water -but you cant MAKE them drink...
Hmmmmm -I think there are alot of thirsty guys out there (Lots of them!)
-(not thirsty for water either!) and they like to put their mouth on the drinking fountain or drink from the carton | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 3/13/2007 2:27:09 PM | My dad is scottish and they are rather philosophical about this there,
a man who is scared o the baird, isnae a man at all | |
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