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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/2/2007 2:05:36 AM |
I have the same problem with my man. He is 21 and refuses to touch it what so ever. He has no problem getting women. He has been around. Obviously not touching anyones..
He is also a major homophobic. I don't understand it all myself. But the only thing I have an issue is that he refuses to pleasure me with his hands. I could do without the oral just fine.
Here is the deal though. He has no problem touching my A.... if you know what I mean. I think that would be even nastier and could understand that one.
Please let me know what you can figure out. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/5/2007 2:45:24 PM | | Look I have never failed to manually pleasure the women I have been with but I have had a number that did not keep themselves clean---They last smelled like an old dirty uranial most of the time, but I still manually pleasured her with my hand. they turned me away from ever putting my face any where near that end. So I just kissed them and took them over the falls! | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/5/2007 3:14:59 PM | | i havent gone through all the comments to see if this has been brought up but there may be the possibility that there was sexual abuse in which he was the victim... the fact is males are sexally abused by woman as well... and it can be very traumatic in the lives and affect them in having healthy relationships... just is only my thoughts on it... | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/5/2007 7:27:11 PM | Haha, well my friend I used to have a vaginal phobia and with good reason. Some of the things that led up to my phobia were:
That musky stench, a scent mixed of fish, azz and sweat.
Discovering cheese curds down there.
The fact that a womans pee wisps off the tip of her clit.
I'm not saying that you've got one of these problems, well the pee wisping for sure, but try experiencing that a few times and see if you want to travel south.
I know I got into it by having my girlfriends shower prior to giving face and that helped a lot.
Maybe give yourself a smell & taste test just to make sure. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/14/2009 1:12:02 AM | Maybe he was attacked and bitten by one, in the past.
OMG! That's hilarious.
My two cents? This guy is an idiot and obviously has hang ups. But OP I'm not so sure you don't have issues yourself for letting this go on for so long. Talk to him. You may have to help him change his behavior if he doesn't respond. And unlike some other poster clown that suggested earlier that abstaining from giving him head was "game playing", I say you would be foolish to do so if you talk to him and he refuses to alter his ways. It's a simple as you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours. If he's not scratching your back, why would you scratch his? That's not playing games, that's called intelligence. You train an old dog new tricks by rewarding them. Pyschology 101.
But talk to him first and see what his deal is. It's too bad you have to go through this. I hope he can get past this for both of you. | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:10:20 AM |
I am female and I think oral sex is grossssssssssssss!
OP...I say...get this chicks number for him and kick him to the curb.
Not sure why you took him back after 3 years....and EX is an EX for a reason....and his VAGINAPHOBIA was enough of a RED FLAG not to take him back......now the problem is your own fault.Take back you power......and go get you some muff diving obsessor and stop blaming him for your mistake!
You can't MAKE him change...you can only control YOUR reaction to someone! | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:41:15 AM |
You can't MAKE him change...you can only control YOUR reaction to someone!
But, . . . but, what's become of "I have the pussie so I make the rules"? I just saw that t-shirt (again) on a girl at the local convenience store where I get my a.m. coffee. She was wearing it with authority. And flair. Lol | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/14/2009 10:33:30 AM | | If he is your soulmate it should not be that big of a deal and not giving him jb to see if that makes him do it is not the way to go. It is the best when the guy wants to do it to you. Maybe he thinks he is not good at it and doesnt see the point in doing it if he is not good. Really the best person to talk to about this is him cuz he is really the only one that know why he doesnt do it! | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:01:14 PM | hate to break the news, if he doesnt like it now, he never will, unless of course, you install a flat screen tv with espn playing nonstop | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 8/14/2009 9:46:44 PM | hate to break the news, if he doesnt like it now, he never will, unless of course, you install a flat screen tv with espn playing nonstop
Inner thigh?
LMAO! | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 9/23/2009 11:02:12 PM | Umm yeah I call bullshit on yo and him being soulmates.
BTW didn't it ever occur to you that maybe your pissflaps might be a bit...smelly? | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 9/24/2009 1:41:49 AM |
not giving him jb to see if that makes him do it is not the way to go
 Been tossing and turning all night wondering wtf a "jb" is. On a hunch, I held this post up to the mirror (white album flashback, maybe). No joy!! Just more confusion.
OP, I've never encountered a pvssy that frightened me; mostly, I salivate at 'em, and if it smiles at me, even just a little, or omg winks(!), it's, well, sushi for moi!
Maybe it's not the pvssy, but the superstructure that sits on it, that terrifies this guy.  | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 9/24/2009 3:29:13 PM | Okay this post is older than the hills, however...
How can someone be your soulmate and not enjoy hot monkey sex with you
Unless your completly hideous, fat or smelly, -there are plenty of guys out there dyin to do lots of naughty things to your kitty.
and even if your fat, hideous and ugly -i'm sure there are still plenty of guys who still would do naughty things to your kitty...
Don't put up with that shit, and go find someone who doesn't **** with your mind more than the rest of your body... | |
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| Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me
Posted: 9/24/2009 3:50:14 PM |
Msg: 5 -- Edit - just a thought - do you think he may be turned off by
the fact you play with girls?
I can't answer that for her or her bf, but that WOULD be a TURNOFF for
me. I am STRICTLY "bifocal", one eye toward her and the other toward
me. A "trifocal" relationship involves a THIRD party, and THAT creates
JEALOUSY. FWIW, Jealousy KILLS any sexual interest in ANY woman who
seems up to task at the time of consideration. I am EXTREMELY old
fashioned, which means the woman of my interest shows EXCLUSIVE
interest in me, and I, in turn, show EXCLUSIVE interest in her. Beyond
that, I can think of NO clearer relationship rules. **I** abide by
them. Should I find a woman who FAILS to abide by them, her very
failure of such AUTOMATICALLY terminates my interest in her.
I am at present single. However, I OWN the woman who expresses
interest in me. If she disagrees, her sole option is to DISAGREE with
my opinion, which in turn DISSOLVES any presumed association. At that
point, she has TOTALLY destroyed any interest I may have had in her
and therefore is free to pursue any pleasure she desires. She will no
longer connect with me. | |
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