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Posted: 6/22/2006 11:53:26 AM |
All of what Leeanne mentioned IS intercourse, just not penetration.
Quite right!!! Intercourse is basically defined as communications or dealings between two people. However for the sake of this thread and as far as most define intercourse it would encompass penetration. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2006 11:58:00 AM | | Yes,I wish guys would have the nerve to tell their women what turns them on and show them too.I have tried different things with different men(men which I haven't had too much experience with)Most of them don't give you much of a chance before they stick it in you.heheh Without plenty of foreplay women can't enjoy sex very much.Kama Sutra would be a great thing to try.The Asians new how good that isand is a great thing to teach.It also makes sex a lot more spiritual.If men would take the time to learn that they would open up more.They seem to think intercourse is the only way to accomplish satisfaction or happiness or maybe that is the impression they get from women because women were taught that that is what men want.Men please use your feminine part and open up more.This is a new world.That goes for you women too and don't hide your feminine part even if you believe in women's lib. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2006 12:00:37 PM | Sounds like your problem isn't wondering what turns a man on but yourself.
I am going to share a deep deep male secret about what turns on a man about a woman...
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She shows up! | |
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KoiBoi
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Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 29 | |
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Posted: 6/22/2006 12:10:47 PM | I wish guys would have the nerve to tell their women what turns them on and show them too
I tried a version of that once. I put on a porn DVD and said "Do what she does!"
Talk about timing being everything. When I was young and could stand tall and fly right I couldn't find women who were interested.
Now I am old and there are women interested and I can't get the old plane out of the hangar.... | |
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Posted: 6/22/2006 7:10:13 PM | | wow that is so sensual and sexy i love it, mind you it's been so long i do not remember. Your right it is a very good way to get to know your partner more intimately... | |
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sosoft
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Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 32 | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 5:03:56 AM | | Incredibly important!!!! For my woman, I would want her to discover things she never knew possible, and time is not important. Hours, days.....anything. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 5:48:03 AM | well i agree it's fun to jerk each other off.
however i hear this all the time how women want guy's to use more foreplay.
but when it comes to us guy's i can't count the times that i've been in a situation when i'm
as hard as a rock ready to go full out and she doesn't get it.
then she misses my sexual peak and i end up with a delayed below my comfort zone ejaculation.
i was getting a bj recently and it took atleast ten times for her to hit the rite spot every
time i was ready to shoot she'd stop or break the rythm.
like if i have to jerk myself off while doing the deed, wtf i can stay home and do that.
so my point is it's good to explore, to touch feel lick and so forth. however very few women
have the ability to sense the males peak momment.
even worse your laying there she's got her finger up your butt she's massaging your
prostate, she's licking your willy and she still misses it!!
women are to self absorbed and that's why most guys just bend them over and take control
a man knows when the time is right. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 7:33:10 AM | | This is not about 'jerking off' or just achieving an orgasm, but exploring the body and understanding your bodies reaction to stimulation. Getting to know each others bodies and being able to get to the point of pleasuring each other without having to direct each other constantly - you just have full knowledge of what your partner needs to be fulfilled. It's about getting to the point of achiveing orgasm simultaneously. The goal is to be able to satisfy each other without intercourse or indulging only in intercourse. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 7:34:03 AM | | Leeanne, excellent post...some think that intercourse is the end all and be all, when there are so many ways to share pleasure with, and show caring to, one's partner. I love giving and getting massages; and getting back to necking like when we were younger can be great; mental stimulation before always makes things even better. Sometimes just getting a little frisky before going out somewhere or while cooking dinner together sets the mood for the rest of the night, until later when you can actually do a other things together. It doesn't have to lead to intercourse every time, and when it doesn't it just makes the anticipation much better for when it does. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 7:37:47 AM | this is what people mean when they say the way a partner looks at them, the smell of them or seeing how they move is a huge turn on.
They have achieved the knowledge of sexual fulfillment. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 7:46:31 AM | | ^^^^& to expand on that thought - if you can feel, smell, taste, hear, see your partner even when you are apart, then you truly know them as a sexual being! You are enveloped in them so much so that they have become a part of you at all times. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 7:47:22 AM | great i'm all for antisipation and foreplay!
and i agree with the form.
however i don't feel women understand men enough or try to.
intercourse is not the end all, and if i ever meet a woman that understands how the male hits a sexual peak.
i'd be so happy, thier are very few woman that can sense this.
so yes i'll play the lil touchy feely licky game.
but when i am ready to orgasm a woman has to know this and make it happen at that momment.
if she doesn't, then i miss my peak and settle for a less pleasurable ejaculation.
and some of you ladies wonder why we never call you back! | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 7:55:28 AM | | ^^^^Well that's why you want to have a regular or exclusive partner, so that you have time to achieve fulfillment in knowing each others body - this will be hard to achieve with casual sex or one night stands - we are talking in a more monogomus exclusive relationship - one that lasts more than a night or even a week. No one can possibly know how or when a man will be at his 'peak' unless she has carnal knowledge of her partner. Each man and woman is different - what works for one does not work for another. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 9:15:24 PM | | Well i must say i have been thinking about this post and it's a good thing that some of u men in hear speak up and give us women a heads up so the next i will think and act before i proceeed and mabey they might call me back. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2006 10:46:52 PM | Geesh Leeanne I'm sweating already just thinking about it What a good thread to read!
Damn girl not all of us have a man yet eh sensual it is, gotta love the lovers out there.
check ! find the man with the patience and knowledge, I like to learn new tricks so this would work super duper great for me.
I would LMAO 4sure,& would love every minute of it but I dunno if I could hold out on those animal instincts. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2006 6:09:43 AM | intercourse!
someone define that word.
golfcourse hmmm.
golf! without golfcourse lets see would that be similiar to sex without intercourse?
well maybe if i was to stay home and practise my swing and putting for days.
boy it would be orgasmic when i actually get on the real golfcourse wow!
of course the weather would have to be just rite, not to much wind and lots of sunshine.
but heck it would be worth the wait, especially if i was to get a hole-in-one. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2006 6:34:43 AM | Blackaces - If you spend too much time on the golfcourse then you really are going without intercourse - question is would your partner be happy? I think not!
You've taken so much time making light of the subject at hand - have you ever put into practice what we have debated here?
Good sex in a relationship is paramount and should be considered second to good communication. Two people who know how to please each other should never have to worry about the times in between interactions, because the fulfilling experience of a good lover carries you through.
So I guess it's ok to golf, as long as you have brought satisfaction when you were together.
Intercourse may make you happy in the pants for a moment in time, but a full session of touching, caressing, and pleasing the whole body lasts for hours. | |
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KoiBoi
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Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 45 | |
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Posted: 6/24/2006 7:10:34 AM | Leeanne- oh yes i have, and i don't golf that was just a deep seeded metafore.
i've been with women that have desired sex without sex.
i think all women should have a girlfriend, because i don't have the time or desire to run my
fingers through her hair, nibble on her ears, the back of her neck, gently run my fingers down
the back of her legs, caress every part of her body and avoiding her breasts and vagina,
building her up to a level of wanting desire, licking her navel, running my tounge up and down
her belly and blowing and breathing on her still avoiding her private areas, working up to a
kiss.
well then the phone rang. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2006 8:09:44 AM | I completeley agree, when I first meet a man and he is just so sexy sure in the back of my mind all these feelings are coming on and wow but I have to stop and pull back wait lets enjoy our bodies first feel each other out, slow kisses , slow touching, just breath and work up to the big moment its a big rush when you wait before the plunge | |
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Posted: 6/24/2006 8:57:34 AM | | Definitely beneficial! It can informative, fun and teach each person how to open up to the other more. It's a fun way to get to know your partner sexual/sensual side. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2006 9:39:18 AM | Only thing I can say to this.....is.....if a man isn't wanting to stimulate his woman's "entire" body with his hands, his lips, his tongue, (damn....his feet and elbows if need be)....then he's an idiot. Nothing finer than a sexually charged woman who is begging you to "go down on her" after teasing her for an hour or two with simple touch!!!!!!
Good God guys......are you all stupid!!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/24/2006 9:46:12 AM | | I agree with you Leanne. In order for sex to be completely fulfilling each partner should be completely satisfied. Exploration of one another's bodies is key. Too many people rush to intercourse without doing the exploration. It would surprise many to realize that each partner can have many orgasms just in foreplay. In my opinion, the intercourse is the dessert, the foreplay is the appetizer and main course! | |
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