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Posted: 2/13/2007 12:42:56 PM | | Very beneficail: Two people do not have to have intercourse to feel attraction to someone or to show someone they are attracted to them. I have to agree, kissing, feeling, touching, (whether it includes oral or not) can be just as sexually gratifying as intercourse. Making the other person know you are into them is what is important, letting them know your interest... laying next to someone, lying in their arms, feeling their body next to yours can make a person orgasm but most importantly, shows the person you are far more interested in them than just intercourse. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 5:08:41 PM | I think it's extremely beneficial...it's a matter of LEARNING AND SERIOUSLY STUDYING your lover's body.
The other night, we did this...we just lay naked in bed, talking. We started " claiming " each other's spots.....it came out of nowhere. We were talking about everything as usual, when he looked at the crook by my hips and said, " I claim this..."....and I looked at the side of his beautiful nose and laid my lips on it, which fit perfectly at the sides, so I claimed it. It's just a matter of looking at each other's bodies very carefully, touching it ( not even in the sexual way ), but more like touching it, to STUDY it....or the mere sake of touching it...and then claiming it. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 5:37:05 PM | | This is kinda Tantic like, sex becomes more about each others bodies, minds, and intimacy...KNOWING EACH OTHER! Sex is not about the orgasm, it's so very much more... | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 5:43:44 PM | ^^^^^ You got it that's my point!!!!
Anyone can have intercourse (penetration) it's all about the person as a whole - their wants needs and desires - touching their soul as well as their body - allowing their mind to orgasm as well as their body!!! It's an experience that can be obtained only by truly wanting to please your partner and yourself!!! Sexual fulfillment without intercourse is more satisfying than you can ever imagine if you perfect it!!! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 6:17:34 PM | Man, I'm really jealous now! I've been totally missing out... Can honestly say I've never had the experiences like y'all are talking about...
Of course, the only person I can blame is myself! Obviously I've been cheating myself... thing is... the kind of touching and "being with" y'all are describing requires intimacy... and in a way, being vulnerable... hmmm... defininitely something to work on! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 9:25:03 PM |
Anyone can have intercourse (penetration) it's all about the person as a whole - their wants needs and desires - touching their soul as well as their body - allowing their mind to orgasm as well as their body!!! It's an experience that can be obtained only by truly wanting to please your partner and yourself!!! Sexual fulfillment without intercourse is more satisfying than you can ever imagine if you perfect it!!!
Leeanne, you are so absolutely right!!!! I was just talking about this with someone today. | |
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Posted: 2/16/2007 12:35:59 PM | I'm a snuggler and a very touchy feely guy. Most of the time it's all about the touching, caressing and the tongue action. I love sex, but it feels so good to just lie in bed for hours and play around without sex, especially with the one you love. HMMMM, now you have me in the mood!!!!!!!
NOTHING MORE AMAZING THAN A WOMAN'S BODY!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2008 3:30:38 PM | There's often been times where she wants it but I'm really not in the mood, so I do what I can to get her off only. Fingers, tongues, toys...whatever it took. A lot of times, especially after giving face, I felt just as satisfied as she did so it was win-win.
There's been lots of times in my life where sexual fulfillment didn't involve intercourse. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 10:02:52 AM | Intercourse has become such a ticket with sex because so many people seem to have been first exposed to images of sex through porn and also it is aimed solely at orgasm. Given that, it should take about 15 minutes for most, start to finish.
Otherwise, there are 50 other things that are sensual and sexual and intimate to do that can be related to orgasm or not, and worth exploring. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 2:20:03 PM |
Intercourse has become such a ticket with sex because so many people seem to have been first exposed to images of sex through porn and also it is aimed solely at orgasm.
Exactly......I've said that in a few other sex and dating threads. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 4:05:40 PM | ^^ You mean guys that have never seen porn are less focused on intercourse?
And before porn was invented, people were less focused on intercourse?
And that’s because porn is all about intercourse?
And intercourse (unlike oral, manual or stimulation by device) is aimed solely at orgasm?
How do I differ with thee? Let me count the ways… | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 4:13:51 PM | | Leeanne, you have to try real tantric stimulation. I have mentioned a few times in the forums about an ancient japanese love game when you are naked with your partner and the trick is to bring him/her to orgasm without penetration, or oral, just with erotic touching of the body, once you get the hang of it you will find that when you do progress to penetration or oral the heightened body reacts with massively sensitive orgasmic responses. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 4:33:53 PM | For me,this would be satifying but not completelly satifying if I would go more than 6 hours without intercourse, but a good idea in between intercourses!!!
However, if we turn each other too much and watch porn, it would not be very satifying to me not to have an intercourse or dildo inside of me; it would be like torture tryin to resist to have it inside... Being in love and kissing is great, but to be completelly satified, I need it all, kissing, hugging, intercourse, touching, licking, exploring sensitive spots, feeling love, etc at the same time!!! | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 4:39:43 PM | | ^^^ Pleasurelimits - I have lived that again and again! I have been a very tantric person for years! It's amazing how the mind and not just the body can bring forth some extremely blissful reactions. There is a little trick I love to do - where you don't even connect with your partner! You simply hold your hand a hair away from your partners skin. The heat from your hand and the energy you conduct can cause stimulation in a gentle and tantalizing way! | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 4:43:55 PM | firstly, good job leeanne ... im with you in theory if not on an every day basis :)
but really im posting to someone i doubt will ever see :(
To VioletSkye :
try and dare him ? men love a challenge, put it as a "i bet you cant have all the fun you want without intercourse, without begging me and promising me a rematch" ... then give in after an hour or 2 and get it all again  | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 9:02:00 PM | | Always love your posts and responses. Informative without being tasteless. I agree with your findings. Very sensual act although that much self control is hard to acquire for some. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 9:39:14 PM |
you have to try real tantric stimulation. I have mentioned a few times in the forums about an ancient japanese love game when you are naked with your partner and the trick is to bring him/her to orgasm without penetration, or oral, just with erotic touching of the body, once you get the hang of it you will find that when you do progress to penetration or oral the heightened body reacts with massively sensitive orgasmic responses.
Different parts of one's body are erogeneous zones, not just the naughty bits :D | |
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