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Posted: 6/28/2006 4:50:20 PM | | I am feeling a lot of love in this conversation | |
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Posted: 6/29/2006 9:16:38 AM | | Alright people back to the question, No I would not date a women with white kids, I perfer men. Thanks any ways........................LMAO | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:19:21 PM | WHATS COLOR GOT TO DO WITH IT? KIDS ARE KIDS AND SHOULD NOT BE APART OF IT WELL THATS WHAT I THINK......RACE IS SO MUCH AN ISSUE NOW DAYS IT SUCKS WE ALL NEED TO GROW UP AND FIND WHAT MAKES US HAPPY REGAURDLESS OF RACE OR COLOR AND GO WITH IT ........I WOULDENT CARE IF THE KIDS WAS GREEN WITH BLUE SPOTS AND PURPLE STRIPS.... | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:31:50 PM | that guys just a **** dont pay attention to him i love kid i just cant have any of my own
i like kis black white purple and blue it dosnt matter about their race there all beautiful the way they come
 
and wizard go to hell u son of a ****
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:32:54 PM | that guys just a b***h dont pay attention to him i love kid i just cant have any of my own
i like kis black white purple and blue it dosnt matter about their race there all beautiful the way they come
and wizard go to hell u son of ab***h
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/29/2006 3:59:37 PM | OF COURSE WE ARE! SHE IS MY DAUGHTER AND SHE IS A BEAUTIFUL GIRL. I'M VERY PROUD OF HER. I TRIED TO RAISE MY CHILDREN TO BE TRUE TO THEMSELVES AND MAKE THEIR OWN CHOICES. EACH OF US HAVE OUR OWN PREFERENCES IN LIFE AND I WANT HER TO BE HAPPY IN WHATEVER SHE CHOOSES. EVEN IF SHE DECIDES TO GO TO THE MOON SOMEDAY. LOL.
THE HEART KNOWS NO BOUNDARIES IF YOU ARE TRUE TO YOURSELF. SHE MAY NEVER HAVE THE SAME LIKES AND DISLIKES THAT I HAVE, BUT THAT'S BECAUSE I STARTED HER AT AN EARLY AGE TO LEARN ABOUT "all" NATIONALITIES. THEIR FOODS, THEIR CUSTOMS AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, THEIR PEOPLE. PEOPLE WHO ARE ACCEPTING OF OTHERS USUALLY ALSO THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX ARE MOST ALWAYS HAPPY PEOPLE. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/29/2006 6:55:32 PM | | I guess i still don't understand..........you would think that if a man doesn't have a problem dating a white woman why would he have a problem with her white children? | |
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Posted: 7/5/2006 7:02:01 AM | Wow, I know this is a late post but I was so bothered by TeamB's comment *All white people are good for is oppressing foreign lands and forcing their peoples to believe in Christianity.* that I thought what a great argument for not having children and for protecting those we have. We all have to live on this planet and get along. Whats so hard about that.
If you are petty enough to seperate people by color then seperate yourself from them.
If another person has a problem with the race of your kids then I'd say stay away from them.
However I am temped to ask Team B to come visit northern Michigan cause we really dont like to do no huntin in the city. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:04:14 AM | | I agree with love2bme. If a man has no problem dating a white woman, he should have no problem being with her children. On the other hand, depending on where you are located geographically, being a single black man with young white children in your custody without their mother present can lead to unwanted negative attention and suspicion. I’m definitely not saying that’s the way it should be, but unfortunately, that remains reality. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2006 7:59:52 PM | i agree with you completely. to many people bring children into their relationship.i get mad as hell to here someone saying i can't or won't date this person because their children are one color.i love all kids,god mad children to love by everyone.our lord died for us everone not whites,blacks or whatever he died for all of us. that forevery child from me,we should go out of our way to protect them at all cost,god loves them all so should we.: | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 7/14/2006 9:11:59 PM | All the posters here seem to live in some world where we are 'all the same', join hands and sing "We are the world" everyday at noon. Let's talk realistically.
Blacks and whites in this country have a history that cannot be discounted. There are also stereotypes and misperceptions that people have bought into, right or wrong, and they base their LIVES on those ideas (God help them if they actually get confirmation of some aspect of the stereotype; they believe all of them then!).
This poster likes black men but didn't give any indication of liking black culture, black women, black children JUST THE MEN, why? She likes black men who are 'smooth' - cuz she has bought into the hype that they possess the 'magnetism' and ample equipment (whatever the evidence to confirm or negate). And she chooses to date men who have no problem being seen with HER in public but not with her children - why isn't she saddened because that behavior, by a man SHE CHOSE, reduces her to a FETISH?!
THAT is proof positive that these men don't like HER, they like what she represents: WHITE WOMEN! Don't she value herself more than that? NO? Fine, you fulfill his fantasy that he will get kudos and confirmation of his masculinity/virility/hipness for dating a white woman and you fulfill your fantasy about that fabled black coolness and the possibility of good sex. Leave it at that. Don't expect that he will respect and cherish you for the woman you are; and pleeeeeeze don't expect that he's going to put your children on his shoulders and walk thru the park. You'll only end up writing posts like these trying to get sympathy for choosing the wrong men for the wrong reasons and being surprised that it doesn't work out.
Choose to date people because of who they are, not some picture you've made up in your mind about them. And don't try to turn a one-night stand in to a committed, mutually-respectful, loving, caring relationship.
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Posted: 7/14/2006 11:18:38 PM | To Team B:
Where to begin?
The level of your ignorance in such a short paragraph is so stunning, as to make it difficult to know where to start. Do you really think the color of ones skin, is any more important than the color of ones eyes, hair color, height, weight etc. If you do, your making the same mistake so many milions of people have throughout the ages.
If your not aware, color, or the absence of, is a a long term genetic adaptation to specific environmental conditions. Every man woman and child on earth can trace there ancestry back to africa. As our ancestors moved to different parts of the globe, our survival depended on these and other specific adaptations.
Color is not something to judge others by; but something to except as just another aspect of our unique gentice heritage.
Since you seem to hate whites, as so many good-old-boys hate blacks down South, what is the difference between you and them. Does the color of your skin make you better or worse than others. Or is it your own self-loathing that looks to blame others for what you cannot find in yourself to love.
A racist black person who hates whites, is not any different than a racist white person who hates blacks. Both define the worst of what we as human beings can become.
You say in your profile that you want to study the teachings of buddha. Maybe your not aware of it; but buddha taught that a being who reaches true enlightenment, has permanently overcome anger, greed, and ignorance. The awakening or self-awareness of ones place in the universe as brothers and sisters to all things.
Do you think spreading the kind of garbage you wrote is truly the path you seek. I hope not. I hope you look beyond the shallowness of your statements, and start down a path of enlightenment that leads you to some self-discovery. One that includes seeing the beauty inherent in all souls, not just the black, white, or whatever color of the month you gravitate towards today.
Good luck in your search.
P.S.
you might read a litte more history before talking about ...well in this case anything. It's ok to have passion for your belief's; but for God's sake (no pun) study the truth with your eyes open, and with some level of objectivity. Passion should drive you, not control. you.
Again..good luck. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 7/14/2006 11:58:30 PM | LOL this is to good to not respond to, one person wrote something to the effect of... women wanting the next daddy, and that no man would really want to get with her and her kids...some lady got all mad at that and wrote that she has 4 kids and ALL (keyword ALL) the men she has had since loved her for her. all huh? odd ... yep a booty call no matter how long it lasted ended up the same, you women with tons of kids are just carrying around to much baggage to hold down a guy, take wizard of odd advice and move on, wear protection and start realizing you have nothing long term to offer a man but a booty call and maybe if you can cook a hot meal | |
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Posted: 7/15/2006 5:40:57 AM | | seriously fun 1. you are the only one here that is being honest and telling the truth. ( choose to date people becouse of who they are not some pitcher you've made up in your mind) | |
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Posted: 7/15/2006 11:03:12 AM | | ever actually listen to the song "Half Breed" by Cher? Try it. i think everyone should. I sure dont hate blacks over any color, lots of my good freinds are black. But I am a racist. YOU are a racist. We all strive for thge success of our race, its in our DNA. This drive is what made us evolve into different races to begin with. If you bleeding and need help fast every man will run to his own kind, and color. Its a proven fact. I was exposed to racial intergration, and its effects on the kids pretty young. I went to a shelter for a while at 14. There were 2 kids there. They seemed nice. BUT the father was as black as black man can get. the mother was Oriental, pure blood. These poor kids were ugly as sin, and neither parent, nor family memebr wanted them. The parents seperated, and they were a embarrasment to both families. Hence the Half Breed song. You need to know, that no matter how thick skinned people claim to be, we are ALL racists, and its a fact. Those kids will never ever be fully accepted in either family, and when you eventually have 2 or 3 kids of mixed races, you will have successfully voted yourself out of the tribe. Its just how life works.I didnt make the rules. Its not fair. Sorry. Feel free to try to dispute this. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2006 5:16:40 PM | I really enjoy watching you people make such an issue---of a non issue. It is just like the circus is in town--lol.
I think wizzard has some points, but he did not have to be so harsh. He still was not nearly as harsh as most of you are toward him though.
I think, if you have children, you better be prepaired to raise them---and not off of tax payers money as I am sure this gal collects from all of us.
Team B has a point also (but he is extreem), the Christans are a very pushy group. (but Team B--realx--I know you have some white friends). Christian misionarys quite often go to another country to push their beliefs on the culture, even if it is illegal in that country. Thats pushy. What so you think happens when their government finds Christian writes at the familys home. They may kill the family to set an example. Some of these missionarys don't think that they may be putting these people in grave danger.
Looks like this gal got what she needed, as I see all the black guys wanting to go out with her, and one white woman who turned her down (still laughing about that one). If there is any confusion, this thread was aimed toward her preference of black men, and she got a favorable response from them---so it worked. The rest of these comments from us don't mean squat to her. She thinks outside of the box-(while many of the responses are nothing but mindless regurtated teachings of tollerance)-I have to give her credit there. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2006 6:13:12 PM | | You know I am from Alabama so I am used to closed-minded people, but you sound like THE most ignorant fool I have ever heard!!!! It is people like you that make all these dumb ass racial lines more distinct. And to suggest for someone to murder her children so that a stupid **** like you would want her is so beyond a human point of view its not even funny. Hopefully God will think twice before allowing you to ever have children, and I pray for the woman that ever gets mixed up with you. Maybe she will have those "mixed kids" that you have talked about and when you tell her your ****ed up theory about what she should do with them, she will just drop your ass off to die in the lake!!!!! | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 7/18/2006 11:32:41 AM | | Okay, up until now I have been very laid back about all of you cracking on me, and trying to lay your racist a** opinions on me. But cuterguy, you have gone too far....Suggesting that my choice in men indicates my level of education, or employment status is the most ignorant thing I have ever heard in my life. For your information, I am employed and about 2 steps away from completing my degree in accounting. The question was not aimed to draw in men, and if you had any kind of mentality you would have understood that. I will never raise my children to be such biggotted, ignorant fools such as you. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2006 1:53:38 PM | | WELL CONSIDERING THAT I AM WHITE AND HAVE A MIXED BABY AND A WHITE ONE...I MEAN WHO CARES. MY EX HUSBAND WAS BLACK. I THINK IT IS GETTING EASIER THESE DAYS THOUGH, EVERY WHERE I GO I SEE BLACK GIRLS/ WHITE GUYS....BLACK GUYS / WHITE GIRLS HEY IT'S ABOUT TIME EVERYONE GOT THEIR S*** TOGETHER! | |
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Posted: 7/18/2006 1:54:45 PM | | SO IS THIS QUESTION REALLY ASKING IF YOU WOULD DATE A WHITE WOMAN? | |
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Posted: 7/19/2006 2:01:08 PM | | I will go out on a limb here and suggest that what the O.P. meant to ask is "Does having white children prevent black men from approaching white women" And to answer that question I would have to say yes and no. Some black men only like white women who like black men, and of course a tell tell sign of that is having bi-racial children. While other men such as myself like any kind of women that attracts my eye. If a women happens to be another ethnicity and I'm extremely attracted to her I'm going for it! No matter if she doesn't have the "I date black men" stamp on her forehead.....lol | |
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