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Posted: 9/7/2006 11:11:45 AM | | Race of a child should never matter and if it do is that person really worth your time.To me it don't matter what race you are if I like you who cares what color you are but that's just me. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2006 4:20:26 PM | | It is difficult dating when you have children. For one thing, the children should be your primary focus. One thing you should realize is that your children are beautiful in gods eyes, as are you. Hell exists here on earth in the form of racism, war, turmoil in thousands of categories. It is up to you to protect yourself and your children from the elements that are thrown at us , all of us, everyday. Finding a way to do that is not easy. One good way to do this is realize your children were here way before any man you will meet on this site. They are your blood, your grounding, you are eternally tied through spirit. This makes them way more important than any guy you will ever meet on here or anywhere. Please dont let some guy define you. No guy should be that powerful over your life. I wish you and your children a life of good fortune and prosperity. May you be blessed in many ways, and find the love you seek without having to compromise yourself or the worth of your children. Be strong. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/7/2006 7:59:49 PM | | i think i know what you mean, but if a guy does not want to date you because of the color of your skin thats their problem. i mena look at hedi klum and sela he stepped up to be a father to her all white child. am i am sure there are other men, black white asian or whatever, who will see past something as little as skin color to care about you and your children | |
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Posted: 9/8/2006 11:53:21 AM | | IM NOT HERE TO JUDGE WHAT TYPE OF MOTHER YOU ARE BUT IF A BLACK MAN JUDGES YOU BY THE COLOR OF YOUR KIDS THEN YOU NEED TO LET ME HOOK YOU UP WITH SOME BETTER BLACK MEN...WE ARE ALL GODS PEOPLE..ISNT THAT WHAT EVERYONE FOUGHT 4..2 BE EQUAL..I DATE BLACK MEN AND I HAVE TO SAY THAT BLK MEN ARE NOT THAT SHALLOW OR JUDGEMENTAL....UNLIKE WHITE PEOPLE!!!! | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/8/2006 1:08:41 PM | | good afternoon everyone .. i can't even belive this question was even brought up .. what is wrong with people .... yes i would date & even marry a lady with kid's i love kid's what would you think if your mother or father was divorced and you lived with them and they wanted to date and the person who they were interested in told them no because you have kid's ??? guy's & lady don't stop dateing people with kid's you really don't know what you are missing i know for a fact ..... single in south west michigan & looking .. rocky219 / roger | |
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Posted: 9/9/2006 1:13:42 AM |
IM NOT HERE TO JUDGE WHAT TYPE OF MOTHER YOU ARE BUT IF A BLACK MAN JUDGES YOU BY THE COLOR OF YOUR KIDS THEN YOU NEED TO LET ME HOOK YOU UP WITH SOME BETTER BLACK MEN...WE ARE ALL GODS PEOPLE..ISNT THAT WHAT EVERYONE FOUGHT 4..2 BE EQUAL..I DATE BLACK MEN AND I HAVE TO SAY THAT BLK MEN ARE NOT THAT SHALLOW OR JUDGEMENTAL....UNLIKE WHITE PEOPLE!!!!
Do you not realize you're white? Nevermind. Guess you're the perfect example of that stereotype you just said. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:13:26 AM | I don't really understand any of this. Have you looked at your own ass? YOUR WHITE!!!
"don't want the unwanted attention of walking around with white children"
If your boyfriends thoughts meen more to you then your kids, give them up. | |
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Posted: 9/9/2006 3:13:17 PM | | I'm not sure I like kids. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:54:27 PM | | You are quite naive! God did not make those children her and the black man did!! You are are also judgemental and in mature to call that guy a redneck because you did not like what he said. I am no redneck but I agree with everything he says. The thread is asking something so outrages " Would you Date a Women with White kids" It dosen't even deserve an answer. | |
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Posted: 9/9/2006 9:58:02 PM | | Another messeage from a judgemental female from the dark side | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/10/2006 10:54:21 PM | hell yeah i would, but i'm white so let me put it a different way. i would also date a black woman with children. it sounds kind of odd that they would not want to be around your white kids but they don't mind being around you. are they insecure about the fact that they are a black man with a white woman but she doesn't have any black babies with her. i think you have to clarify this with the men that you are dating because i don't think that you have the whole story. if i were dating a woman and she didn't want to be around my kids because they were a different color than she was i would have to try not to laugh at her as i asked her," what #$!%$ color do you think i am. i don't think it would matter if they were serious about you as a person | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/10/2006 10:54:49 PM | | hell yeah i would, but i'm white so let me put it a different way. i would also date a black woman with children. it sounds kind of odd that they would not want to be around your white kids but they don't mind being around you. are they insecure about the fact that they are a black man with a white woman but she doesn't have any black babies with her. i think you have to clarify this with the men that you are dating because i don't think that you have the whole story. if i were dating a woman and she didn't want to be around my kids because they were a different color than she was i would have to try not to laugh at her as i asked her," what #$!%$ color do you think i am. i don't think it would matter if they were serious about you as a person | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/10/2006 10:54:57 PM | | hell yeah i would, but i'm white so let me put it a different way. i would also date a black woman with children. it sounds kind of odd that they would not want to be around your white kids but they don't mind being around you. are they insecure about the fact that they are a black man with a white woman but she doesn't have any black babies with her. i think you have to clarify this with the men that you are dating because i don't think that you have the whole story. if i were dating a woman and she didn't want to be around my kids because they were a different color than she was i would have to try not to laugh at her as i asked her," what #$!%$ color do you think i am. i don't think it would matter if they were serious about you as a person. it kinda sounds like the old slave master who thinks that the black house maid is beneath him but he still sleeps with her(just as long as know one finds out) | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/12/2006 10:18:49 PM | | Team B..... wtf your WHITE. Your joking right? I'm white, I'm not christian, I'm agnostic/atheist (I don't like bible thumpers either), I don't spread or oppress anything anywhere.... I'm too lazy. But if I did, I'd spread white pride, not be a traitor to my own race. I'm not talking about the KKK kind of white pride either since people assume I'm racist when I say that..... which is rather ironic considering that racism is all about assumptions. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/15/2006 4:53:20 PM | What does a person's race or their kid's race have to do with anything?
I'm much more concerned with a person's intelligence, moral sense, sense of adventure, what they love and cherish in life, do they want to have fun, are they concerned about children, about what is happening in the world, ....
Bigots ... be it against race, religion, sexual preference, social status, whatever ... I don't have time for them.
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/20/2006 11:38:50 AM | | You just have to keep looking for the right person.. When I was married I adopted my wifes son, which makes him my son now. We got divorced and I'm still his dad. I share joint custody of him and his brother, My biological son with her. The boys see themselves as real whole brothers and I pity anyone who tries to tell them different. I don't care how people perceive me and my boys..we go to amusement parks, stores, or whatever. You live life to make you and yours happy and to heck with the rest. ignore rude, uneducated characters. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/20/2006 12:29:08 PM | smooth u got some issuse chicka evry one i've ever know treats them like shit and u dumb ass girls love it so don't try saying it's something it isn't if that's how u enjoy being traeted fine but don't try to say they're "smooth" and all that bull shit it's bogus | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/20/2006 12:46:14 PM | | it's not that they didn't like ur kid cause they were mixed ur right it's not they're fault they r it's ur's if you weren't the dirty rotten **** dumpster whore that u r this wouldn't even be an issue for others like you i'm not saying there's anything wrong with black ppl i have a few black friends that actually r really close to me but i think women like you should still be lined up and shot for polluting the gene pool the way you do so don't put it off as you're kid's fault the guy wouldn't stay it was just proof that u ****ed a black guy and that's ur fault cause as the sayin goes "once u go black we don't want you back" u take take the hippy saying and shove it where the sun don't shine but then agin that's my opinion | |
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Posted: 9/20/2006 9:03:14 PM | I don't think race makes a difference on smoothness or whatever. I think that's an individual case-by-case thing. Being suave has nothing to do with how much melonin you have in your skin; there are plenty of smooth white and mexican, and arab, and...(you get the idea) men.
Personally, I have never dated outside of my race (white) because I have yet to meet someone from another race that I've clicked with. If you prefer black men, then you don't have to feel ashamed about it or anything, but as others have said; if you think your black boyfriend won't like you or your kids as much because of your skin color, then why would you want to be with them anyway? If it's for no other reason than to get some action, then you have a whole different set of problems on your hands.
As a mother, it is important that you set a good example for your children. Show them positive examples of what a relationship is and should be. Maybe I read into it wrong, but it sounds like you've had several relationships that didn't work out. Children need stability in the home; they need to feel safe and that home will always be safe.
I don't have children, but my sister was sleeping around for awhile and it did some damage to her children. Having a new man in their lives every few months is no good for them. If you want to date, then do it, but have someone sit with the kids, and don't introduce them to your potential bf until you're sure that it could be something more lasting. I don't know how old your children are, but they (especially preteens and teens) could start to think negatively of you for this behavior.
I don't think race is or should be an issue; besides, if a black guy has a problem with white kids, then he should have a problem with you, as you are also white. And if that's the case, you needn't be seeing each other.
I wish you luck in the future.  | |
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Posted: 9/24/2006 3:26:40 PM | | Thanks for the posts everyone, but to clarify for some of you who can't read, my children are white. I am not or never was I trying to say that I would rather have a man than my children. It was a real life dating question that I haven't seen addressed, and that is all. My kids are the number one priority in my life and everything and everyone else comes after. I have had some bad relationships, but I have learned my lesson. I rarely introduce my children to a man I am dating unless I absolutely believe that the relationship has potential. Anyone who has kids knows that eventually you need to know if your kids will click with your potential mate, if not they are history. Anyhow to all of you who just enjoy labeling me an ignorant airhead, I feel sorry for you. You know the saying, never judge a book by it's cover, yeah......... | |
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