| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/25/2006 10:25:06 PM | | Nice job , Lewis. Am new to posting and threading but was most interested in how you expressed yourself.I appreciated your class, and wanted to say so. I think it's a ridiculous question myself but was still impressed with yur take on the matter. Just wanted you to know. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 9/25/2006 10:42:27 PM | | you said it sista! So far no one has noted that if she loves black men so dearly WHY are her children white? She looks white to me, and having been caucasian most of my years I figure this would say something about her true value towards the black man. I believe that until she is truly certain that this man, of any color, is the one true person for her there shouldn't be any contact with her children, untils that's a positive surety. that her kids would be safe from him, as well as kept safe by him. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 10/6/2006 3:44:01 PM | | So thats why you only wrote me once, hmm..if only I had known sooner haha. I dont think having a preferance is that big of a deal. Personally I think your reasons dont make alot of sense .. Black people are more smooth and confident? It sounds like you like being played by manipulative men, or dont have enough education to realize that men are men and most players love women like you, because thinking of yourself obviously is too much of a problem. Think of it this way, most men are idiots. How do I know, well Im a man. If you really want respect from these guys then you have to demand respect. Draw a line in the sand and if a man crosses it you have to check them or they lose respect for you and then you get what you have now.. Personally I think dwelling on someonece color is alot like, trying to draw in the mud with crayons, doesnt tend to work out too well. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 10/6/2006 5:23:57 PM |
is the one true person for her there shouldn't be any contact with her children, untils that's a positive surety. that her kids would be safe from him, as well as kept safe by him.
Did it even occur to any of you bigotted idiots that she might prefer black men BECAUSE of the reasons listed . She must have had some terrible treatment by WHITE men! ?
None of you have obviously read any of HER replies as to her degree of education.... and those of you that keep insisting that her and some Black Man made those children are missing something in the attic. Have you EVER seen her children? No, you're just assuming. Why should she have to display them to you to get an answer to a perfectly legitimate question? She obviously does care about them, read her additional posts before you pass judgement. And to BaBumm Bum.... what goes 'round, comes around. Be careful with that smug little smile! Bad karma may come back to kick you in the butt. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 10/6/2006 5:27:44 PM | thats a pretty ridiculous statement if you ask me. it almost sounds like you are implying that all white men are mean old racists, correct me if im wrong.
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 10/6/2006 5:32:26 PM | | Not at all..... I LOVE white men!!! Wouldn't have it any other way. It just kind of gets under my skin that people take a simple question from someone and go all different directions with it to turn it into an issue; then start badgering the POSTER. Happens all the time on here. People get so far off track that by the end of the post, no-one really knows what it was about. LOL | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 10/6/2006 9:09:51 PM | | Well, I'm white and I'd date a women with any color kids. If you've ever noticed kids on the playground, they don't care about the color of other kids until their parents or other influences make them think that way. Maybe I'm wrong, but color never mattered to me. So yeah.. I'd date a girl with green colored kids as well, as long as I get to paint them every once in a while. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 10/7/2006 5:12:46 AM | My serious take on this whole post is this: I don't think these forums were formed to turn into any kind of ethnic, or personal bashing; which is unfortunately what happens to many of them.
For whatever reason, this girl asked a serious question, presumably to get some input - perhaps she had just had an unfortunate encounter with someone who gave that as an excuse to not be seen with her. For whatever reason, she stated her preferences - it could just as easily been any other ethnic group.
People tend to read one or two posts and pick up wherever that leads and the whole post goes in a dozen different directions. Looking at the whole post before you answer and UNDERSTANDING the entire original question does help when you reply, if you want to sound intelligent.
Each of us are entitled to our own preferences. That's what makes our country so fantastic. Just because I like blue skies and you like rain should not entitle you to bash me for my opinion.
But then....some people just say whatever comes out of their mouths without thinking about how it portrays them. Unfortunately - some of the answers are extremely biased and end up showing the poor quality and lack of intelligence of the person replying. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 10/11/2006 1:31:18 AM | | I actually think the issue isn't with a childs color. I came from a broken home with three kids, and look back on how hard it was for my mom to find someone because of the three of us. We're all well mannered, but your own child is a huge responsibility let alone someone elses. I also think it is interesting how a woman or man for that matter will post in a "profile" how their kids are "first in their life, and always will be", but yet they expect someone to enter their life, be a role model, help raise the kids, cook, clean, do their laundry, pick up after them, and even provide for them to a certain extent, and yet they'll only be 2nd best...how does THAT work or even sound right? I've dated women with children and the fathers have, and in others have not been in the picture. Granted, I'm not a yeller, or a spanker(unless mommy wants it! lol) so it was easy to treat them as they were my own. Those relationships never ended because of the kids, and sitting them down and telling them "goodbye" was the single hardest thing I've ever had to do. Personally, I think people bring their kids too early into relationships, and people with kids don't take the kids into consideration enough when it comes to someone to spend their life with. i.e.- if the person you're dating isn't the type who is willing to do for your kids like they are their own, then you are dating the WRONG person!!!! If a man or woman has the attitude, "I'm not gonna pay for someone elses kids", then you are dating the WRONG person. I'm not saying they should have to financially be obliged to, but having that mind frame up front isn't what I'd call ready for a relationship with a single parent. j.m.o. :) | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 10/13/2006 11:30:30 PM | GOOD MORNING VIETNAAAAM!!!!!!
PERHAPS, the elaborate concept eluded you...........that I, myself, am white??
I guess not everyone can be born a detective. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 1/30/2007 3:52:51 PM | right on---you are a man I'd like to meet. Being color blind is a rare and beautiful quality I cherish in anyone. My kids are all white but I'd like them painted once in a while.  Good on you to hold on to that and speak of it so open-mindedly and lovingly. Carrie Love | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 1/30/2007 7:50:47 PM | | first off kids come first and your a flaming idiot if you let these pof heads meet your kids are you clinically insane.my mom dated your kind and well you suck arze we dont want you .SHE HAD A MIXED CHILD AND IT WAS VERY HARD FOR MY HALF SISTER TO JUST GROW UP...THE WHITES AND THE BLACKS NEITHER WANTED TO ACCEPT HER THEY WOULD CALL HER ZEBRA AND WE ALL HAVE OPINIONS ..ME MY SELF IF YOU WERE MY DAUGHTER DATING ANOTHER RACE I WOULD DISOWN YOU...TROLLUP.....OR SKEEZY WEEZIE IS WHAT WE WOULD CALL YOU | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 3/12/2007 8:50:24 AM | L1977: I am confused here...are you directing your question only at men of a certain color? You are white, so one would assume your kids would be white...or at least half.
If you met a man who didn't approve of your white kids, what could you do about it? First of all, he's obviously got issues, so who cares if he doesn't want to be a part of your life with your GASP! White kids. I would hope that your kids are your number 1 focus and would REALLY hope that your love and dedication to your children wouldn't change because some man told you he was ashamed of them.
I gotta say, you sound ashamed that your kids are white.
My parents had white kids, they got through it okay.
Valkyrie:
ME MY SELF IF YOU WERE MY DAUGHTER DATING ANOTHER RACE I WOULD DISOWN YOU...TROLLUP.....OR SKEEZY WEEZIE You talk about your half-sister having a tough time, so your solution is to make ridiculous comments and spew hatred...racist much? | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 3/12/2007 2:07:57 PM | wow wow wow i don't even want to get in on this
to me if a man was worth a damn and really love you he would care about your kids to
i would never respect a woman a woman that would push her kids aside for guy | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 3/12/2007 9:50:22 PM | Any woman that wants a guy more then her kids dont deserve her kids. I have 2 awsome boys and they are my life. I do anything for them and if a guy has a problem with them then he isnt for me. There is no man worth more then what came from you!!!!!! | |
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