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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 4/14/2007 8:33:52 AM | Sex is like air....it's only important if you're not getting any!
Of course women like sex too, in fact it's usually not the sex we don't like, it's the guy...that's why it's important to find the right guy. One that is mentally, emotionally and physically stimulating otherwise sex will be cancelled due to lack of interest!
If the rest of the relationship is great - sex probably will be too, but if you settle for the wrong guy the sex will be mediocre at best or non-existent at worst. You get what you settle for!
For all the people who say attraction isn't important and anyone who think's so is just shallow, blah, blah, blah.... like it or not, here's where attraction becomes paramount! If there isn't any attraction there isn't going to be any sex either! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 4/14/2007 4:42:48 PM | Are there women with a high sex drive. Sure there are!
I didn't read all ten pages, but I think it might take a rocket scientist to actually wield any sort of predictive power here.
For a man to keep sex drive consistent, he just needs to keep testosterone levels optimal, needs to chill once in awhile (destress), and he needs to want it.
Women are much more complicated to figure out. Doubt anyone is going to argue with me on that one. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 4/14/2007 4:50:27 PM | Good god it used to make me cringe ,living with my grandparents,and listening to them make love at night,,,,I'm sure my grandfather died a happy man,,, my grandmother couldn't keep her hands off of him,,,it was hilarious | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 4/14/2007 5:29:20 PM | Interesting topic! I truly enjoy sex..always have..
Taureans are very sensual beings..but I do not with jump on every Tom,****& Harry..sorry if these are your name guys..:-)
Anyhow, cliché or not..I am almost 60 and I've never stopped enjoying sex..in fact, it has gotten better & better..The last 6 years have been divine! I must say..the lover man is one handsome and special person!! not every lover is created equal...
As the saying goes..It takes two to tango..until both, know each other well and know how to please each other, and know exactly what you, yourself prefer and then give pleasure to the other as well........hmm..mmmm..mmm..
I've had a few guys whom, clearly, did not know how to make love..it was boring, boring, boring..I ran away from those!
Enjoy sex.......become the best lovers that you can be, both to yourself and to the other...Learn about tantric sex.
Sehaweh | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 4/14/2007 5:40:37 PM | | Its funny I am almost 50 and in the past year i have had the best sex ever in my life. You know how. I downloaded sex tapes and learned from these tapes. I also took the attitude that i HAVE to be a giver in the relationship and it has been 200% better now. I give her sooo much and she cumms 5, 6 , 7 times with me and she cant keep her hands off of me becuase i do soooo much for her. She is 60 and is the wildest woman Ihave ever met. I think she will be wild up to her 90s. She just does not back down. OOOPS she does back up however lol and that is hottt. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 5/15/2007 12:01:57 AM | | the three stages arent always true persay. Even after a few years being together you can still desire eachother as much as you did when you first starting dating, at least thats how I am in the relationship I am in and have been together for almost 4 years. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 5/15/2007 4:21:53 PM |
Is there just a certian type of woman that are sex crazed and want to just drag your ass into the bed and make happy with Mr happy
Yes, why yes there is. In fact specific scientific classifications have been developed which make it much easier to spot them:
Domain- Eukaryota
Kingdom-Animalia
Phylum or Division-Chordata
Subphylum or subdivision- Vertebrata
Class- Mammalia
Subclass-Eutheria
Order-Primates
Suborder- Haplorrhini
Family-Hominidae
Subfamily-Homininae
Genus-Homo
Species-H. sapiens
With luck that should help you immensely in your search for that you seek. I would however advise you avoid those dressd in what look like penguin suits, as that is apparently some strange sub species, and you aren't apt to get far with them. Good luck!
Have fun ;)! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 5/15/2007 11:44:03 PM | I have always been in relationships where I had the stronger drive by a long shot. It kind of makes me wonder what it would be like to be sitting on the other side of the fence. If I were with a woman who legitimately wanted it twice a day or more, I wonder what would change.
In any event, what boggles my mind is how so many people get paired with partners and very badly mismatched sex drives. It has happened to me in most every relationship I have been in. All I can think of is that it must be self selecting somehow.
I know a lot of women claim to be able to have a lot more sex and are more ready to go at it than their male partners (not sure that is entirely true paired with the right guy). But I am also well aware that there are many men that can consistently have at least 2 orgasms a day ad infinitum. For someone who can last, it also comes down to how much endurance you have. Men are generally capable of having much fewer orgasms than women. But men can have sex just as long and can also maintain a constant state of horniness just like women can.
If you pair two people with a high drive, I doubt either would care that much if you only happened to do it once, twice or three times in a particular day. You know you'd be doing it nonetheless. I think the reason reality looks so much like a lottery here is because people prioritize many aspects of a relationship. And sex is just one aspect. Only much later do they realize how big of a problem it is to be with someone who has a completely lopsided sex drive compared to yours. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certain type?
Posted: 5/16/2007 5:48:39 AM |
I have always been in relationships where I had the stronger drive by a long shot. It kind of makes me wonder what it would be like to be sitting on the other side of the fence. If I were with a woman who legitimately wanted it twice a day or more, I wonder what would change.
Speaking from my own experience...you would be happily exhausted! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 5/16/2007 6:06:30 AM | Like purplestardust101 puts it...
.Well, if you are in a relationship that you really love and care about the other person, making love to them is included in that relationship...and making each other happy...you always think of the other person before you think of yourself...so if she knows making Mr. Happy...happy is what pleases you , then I wouldn't complain too much...lol...she's loving you man....
To me this is an important part of a relationship... if your man isn't happy then your not!!!! " If he isn't getting any, he usually isn't" | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 5/16/2007 12:59:42 PM |
o and another thing.. most guys can't keep up to me or to my friends that are like me... sometimes they just want to sleep or watch tv but we usually want sex... I think women aren't supposed to like sex as much as men and a high sex drive is usually associated just with males so women hide their desires more to fit into society.. but really I think alot of women are much worse than men.
I don't think a LOT of women are much worse than men but maybe a handful out there somewhere.
Apparently they all live in Alberta.  | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 6/11/2007 11:27:54 AM | | even as a matter of basic biology women are more sexual then men. does a man have a single part of his body 100% dedicated to sexual pleasure? ever met a man who can have multiple orgasms? didnt think so. societ has done a really wonderful job of conditioning women to hold back on their sexuality, all the while telling men that they need to crawl across hot coals and broken glass to get laid. its such a shame that things really arent that way. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 7/15/2007 8:23:14 AM | Hmm I need some FB... I'm a bit picky thought is that usually a bad thing ?
like I'm looking for 3 years within my age range, has to be beautiful in and out, and needs to or wants my sexual hunger.
(virgin 22 years.) any girl near lethbridge wanna sex me up?
LETHBRIDGE SUCKS for such things.
I wanna get some practice for when or if I do get married. (lol sad)
P.s I gots no mode for transportation yet. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 7/15/2007 11:16:04 PM | D--get in the real world of a woman i am 40 years old i loved sex tremendously before i was married guess i was a nympho---and now 15yrs later getting divorced and finding myself so addicted to sex that i am in control of when!!!one phone call does it all--your 1 out of 100 is more like 10out of 50--just because we dont flaunt it doesnt mean we're not getting it--some of us are more private than others--at my age sex is an important part of every relationship as is companionship with fun exciting sex the companionship is a breeze!!!we are emotionally based but thru the years in bad relationships we have learned that we can control our own sex activities and men will drop everything to get a piece of you as long as they are attracted to you--with a committment or not--but ladies beware of certain men(needy-clingy) if you have sex with them you are asking for trouble i have come across 3 so far that i never even touched and they said i was the only one for them--no kissing-no sex-no touch---im not looking for committment til my divorce is final--i have a friend that will rush over when i need him which is often and i think im falling for him but i am holding back my feelings til things are straight and see where he is going with this also---SEX is awesome and will not mess that up..---SEX is the biggest DESIRE for woman we love it the way we want it and we can be more sexually desired by men who used to be unattainable--because with age we can reel them in and let them go at the drop of a oin
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 7/16/2007 4:23:42 PM | Um...Darakko, I beg to differ with you.
Some women are VERY sexual beings. I would hardly consider them "nympho's" because they are in touch with their sensual/sexual side. While it is important to make your partner happy, it is equally important that they take care of you as well.
The women that I know of that do not like sex reveal that it has more to do with disappointment in the bedroom with a specific partner, or with lack of emotional attachment or reciprocation from the one they are with.
Nothing is a bigger turn off than a selfish lover... and believe me, they are out there.
Just my 2 cents...
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 7/27/2007 6:57:29 PM |
I find that men say that want a woman who just wants sex, but as soon as they are encountered or approached in such a "let's just get it on" manner they quickly turn tail & run..
I find that lots of people say they'd like a free iPod, but when I offer it to them they quickly start asking questions rather than just accept it with the entire pyramid scheme and endless junk mail for the rest of their lives.
There's lots of things men worry about besides the sex. Do you have some disease that makes it hard for you to find a man? Do you have a 250 lb boyfriend who, when tearing guys apart in a jealous rage, really turns you on?
Women that don't have a shopper mentality are extremely rare. Those that don't are generally taken. Men go to the store, they find what they're looking for and buy it. Women go to the same store, find what they're looking for, then go look around the rest of the store to see if there's a better deal, split hairs over three things that are essentially the same for a couple of hours, go eat lunch to talk about the decision, return and split hairs a bit longer, and then... eventually... buy whatever they came to get. Not all of ya, but most of ya. And most of ya are the same way with men. We're used to it. So when you act the way we'd like you to, we figure there has to be a catch. We couldn't have been *that* lucky! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 7/27/2007 7:20:20 PM | OK GUYS READ THIS.....99%OF THE WOMEN WHO ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE "FAKE ORGASIMS" AT LEAST 9 out of 10 TIMES THEY HAVE SEX WITH THEIR PARTNER JUST TO GET IT OVER WITH....SORRY GUYS BUT IT'S TRUE....WHAT THE WOMEN LIKE MOST IS THE FOREPLAY...CUDDLING ETC ETC...AS FOR THE "ACT" ITSELF IT'S SIMPLY ok...just ok !! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 7/27/2007 7:30:08 PM | | I have yet to come across a man who is willing and able to keep me "happy" for the entire relationship...so there's goes the hot, lusty sexual drive from me for him. Sure, I do it sometimes just to make "myself" happy but who wants to be in a miserable relationship when one can do it by themselves and satisfy themselves sexually just as much/if not more alone!!! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 12:11:45 PM | | Did this become the Cryptozoology forum? Wome who like sex are in the same catagory as Bigfoot and the Loch Ness monster; a creature people say they've seen, but there's no proof that they actually exist. Women only like sex when it can get them something. For men, sex is the goal, for women it's the means to an end. If they can get what they want without having to give up anything, so much the better for them. Otherwise, they'll suffer through it. But actually liking sex for it's own sake. Maybe in the movies, but very rare in real life. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 12:35:14 PM |
99%OF THE WOMEN WHO ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE "FAKE ORGASIMS" AT LEAST 9 out of 10 TIMES THEY HAVE SEX WITH THEIR PARTNER JUST TO GET IT OVER WITH
Oh those numbers are so far off base....without even giving it much thought I can think of 5 other women who have strong, healthy, sex drives ...and by the way we are all over 40... I actually sent them this link...they dont fake either.
When you learn how your body works, and when you start to get turned on by your partner being turned on...its a win win situation.
There are times when the big O is just not going to materialize..but I have no problem saying so...and my lover is confidant enough not to be insulted...I really dont see the purpose of pretending....getting there can be just as much fun as the end result. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 1:29:06 PM |
Some women are VERY sexual beings. I would hardly consider them "nympho's" because they are in touch with their sensual/sexual side. While it is important to make your partner happy, it is equally important that they take care of you as well.
The women that I know of that do not like sex reveal that it has more to do with disappointment in the bedroom with a specific partner, or with lack of emotional attachment or reciprocation from the one they are with.
Nothing is a bigger turn off than a selfish lover... and believe me, they are out there.
Asbolutely...although some of us would rather just boot the terrible selfish guy, find a good lover, and keep him on speed dial than put up with bad sex eternally just to avoid being single. Good sex can happen without the relationship if the option is not being in a good one, or in between relationships. Women are learning that one doesn't have to include the other. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 1:40:43 PM | To Darakko:
Dude. You are seriously misinformed about women. Women are highly sexual beings. Most of my friends are. What you wrote sounds like an article from a 1950 issue of Good Housekeeping, back when women were supposed to "pretend" they weren't sexual beings.
Do you really believe that it's 'always' only about love? Where have you been??
Sex in and of itself is not a desire for women?? I guess that could be true, if they are with a guy who just doesn't know what the heck he's doing, but it's not true as a general rule. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 2:04:32 PM | [/Quote] Suffice it to say, sex in and of itself, is simply not a desire for women. Sorry bub.
Thats an old thought.
With the knowledge thats out these days .
I honestly don't know a single woman that does not love it. If they don't love it or holding out they aren't getting fulfilled . Ask any man who knows what he's doing and he's a happy man. | |
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