| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 2:20:58 PM | Oh Poor Darakko!!!
Not sure were you learned about the" Birds and The Bees"...But I'm sorry you have your head up your *** with these coments... "Woman are not sexual beings" ..."They do not desire sex"..." Only reason we get involved with sex is to make the man happy"..."It is about love"..."Suffice to say,sex in and of its self, is simply not a desire for woman"...
I'm a very very sexual woman and I love, desire, crave, want sex with or without the quote "Love" word involved... Sex is not always about love...It's about wants and feelings and needs...I don't need a quanity of parteners just one with quality and I'm his little "Female Nympho" as he is my "Male Nympho...
Its not always to please the male partner... Its for the two of you to please each other ...
I think a lot of woman hid their feelings of sexual desire because we are always branded and judged by the male if we act on them... Think about it?... Read the threads in here...Even by your coments here you are judging woman ...Just let us be ourselves... Let us act on our feelings ... Stop Judging us... Except us as we have excepted you as a male... Bet the world would be a heck of a better place and we would all be smiling... | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 2:23:58 PM | tattat, you so need to grow up and become a Man, any male that calls his penis Mr Happy and refer to the pleasure of the joinging of two minds and two body's, taken the time to enjoy one another and please one another as make happy! I agree both parties should be happy ...... and there lies the answer to your dilemma!
Try to forget about your *Mr Happy* and see if you can please the person you are with first and foremost, the response will no doubt blow your little cotton socks off, because you sound like the type of man who knows not how to give pleasure but only to receive! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 2:27:58 PM | Yes! Yes! We do exist, we love sex, enter into it willingly, early and often, and don't expect emotional entanglements from it. I don't know why this is so, maybe we have more androgens than other women?
You said it perfectly Deb, took the words right out of my mouth    | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/2/2007 3:05:37 PM | | Well I don't know what women you have been with but there are many of us that are VERY sexual beings. We dont do it to make or keep a man's love we do it cause we need it just as much as a man. We are just a little more picky on who we sleep with. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/4/2007 5:13:18 PM |
OK GUYS READ THIS.....99%OF THE WOMEN WHO ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE "FAKE ORGASMS" AT LEAST 9 out of 10 TIMES THEY HAVE SEX WITH THEIR PARTNER JUST TO GET IT OVER WITH....SORRY GUYS BUT IT'S TRUE....WHAT THE WOMEN LIKE MOST IS THE FOREPLAY...CUDDLING ETC ETC...AS FOR THE "ACT" ITSELF IT'S SIMPLY ok...just ok !!
OK, prissyme, Read this. With all due respect, I think you've been dating the wrong guys! Guys who care and put your satisfaction as a priority concentrate on foreplay. You should be having an orgasm, maybe even several, before even getting to the "act". And as you say, lots of cuddling and after-play as well.
I joined this site rather recently. As I read these forum boards, I'm just appalled to see how many people are not being satisfied with their sex. I didn't think sexual satisfaction was anywhere near that rare. OK, when I was young and inexperienced, I didn't know what to do, but a little practice....
Surely I'm not the Only one who knows how to satisfy women? 
If I am, I think I'm going to get one of those Take-a-Number machines for my front lawn.  | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/5/2007 6:07:13 AM | A strong labido is healthy in a male or female adult. I think most ladies want a guy with a strong labido but also whom treats her with respect and wants to be in a caring relationship before she makes Mr Happy feel like he's in heaven. Don't we all want someone to drive us wild in the bedroom? | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/5/2007 4:52:01 PM | Darakko,
Your post was funny. Some, not all, women look at sex as singularly an emotional act. Bottom line..bumping uglies is fun...feels good...is great for the skin....and releases lot's of magical endorphins. Before I married, while I was married and even now that I'm on my own...I have always enjoyed sex. And it's a crock of bs to say women do not desire sex as men do. When I was in my twenties I might have agreed..I hit my thirties and that's all I thought about ....now I'm in my forties...I ROCK and I wanna ROCK with a like minded lad.
I might be a far sight pickier than some men, when it comes to sexual partners, and I'm not into bed hopping.....but those I have an intimate relationship with would scoff at your notions about women and sex. Just because SOME women don't talk about sex like men do..it certainly doesn't mean they don't think about it or have sex as often as they want. And to suggest having sex is only to make a man happy is absurd. I can pass a man the tv remote and a beer and do the same thing.
Love has nothing to do with it...least for me, however, when I am in love...it justs makes being intimate a bit more intense and fiery....but I still can enjoy sins of the flesh minus loving the man I'm with....just need that magical sexual chemistry. Some women think if a man has sex with her he loves her, but most sensible smart women KNOW that is a crock. Sex isn't love and love isnt' sex.
Hmmmmmmmm all this talk about sex...hehehehe...thank GOD for booty calls!!! LOL | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/5/2007 8:42:19 PM | This is the kind of thread that annoys me. I agree with LucyLastic. You are missing the point completely. I am a healthy, sensual 35 year old woman who is very secure in my sexuality and I enjoy sex very much.
Also, just because a woman really enjoys sex doesn't mean she should be defined as "sex-crazed." What is your definition of sex-crazed? Some little hoochie/playah in a bar looking to hook up night after night with a different person?
I get really annoyed with the "virgin-slut" paradox. She's damned if she does and she's damned if she doesn't. Sex begins in the brain. It begins with a connection (for me it does). It means feeling comfortable and sharing an amazing sexual, sensual and passionate connection with that other person. It's a person's right if they want to hook up with different people on a nightly basis (personally, I feel that's unsafe but that is the person's decision).
I just don't appreciate it when people lump women into categories: oh, she really loves sex then she must be sex-crazed....oh, she's really shy and doesn't make a move in bed, she must be frigid and hates sex.
I love sex with the right person. Sometimes I like a lot of sex and sometimes I don't. Just please don't lump women who enjoy sex as "sex-crazed." I feel it's a bit insulting and demeaning towards women. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/12/2007 12:48:13 AM | Women like sex as much as men so not sure where the sex crazed bit comes from.
If you meet someone you really like then you will both want sex it's natural it's only if two people are incompatible that the sex doesn't happen.
All women like sex as much as men, they can even get multiple orgasm's men don't  if you havn't met a woman who enjoys sex as much as you then keep on  but then you might find it's more your attitude to sex than theirs making them inhibited. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 4:10:38 AM | yes we do exsist. I guess most men think they go out to pick up and get laid, well what makes you guys so sure we're not thinking the same thing.
We are not certain type of women and probably can't tell that we love having sex but it's only as good as the partner that you're with and if it is, why say NO!!
If both partners are so comfortable with each other and are both happy to satisfy each other well then i guess that's the part of us that always say YES!! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 1:50:17 PM | | I think women who enjoy sex as much as men are just more in touch with their sexuality. They are unafraid of society's norms or what we perceive them to be and allow themselves to be free to fully experience that wonderful part of what makes us human. One thing that many men seem to forget though is that it is much easier for a woman to let herself go if she feels safe to do so and if her needs are being met. Me? I love sex. It is a physical and emotional expression of who I am. My hubby loves that I love it too! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 2:02:11 PM | | There is a difference between loving sex and sleeping with everyone that has a penis. Sex is generally better when feelings are involved and with the right man, who not only knows what he is doing and is also attentive to the woman out of bed, yes, many women like sex just as much as men. They have also figured out that while quantity is good, quality is better so if you are talking similar sex drives, that depends on the people involved. | |
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| Women who love sex as much as men do: Are they a type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 2:04:02 PM | Anyone who reaches the age of 30 and still wants to believe there are "types" of people isn't going to get very far with anyone. We grow and learn and change and make new choices to the end, or else we sit in the middle of our path muttering our confusion and festering in our resentments unto death. I haven't found a third way between those two.
Sex crazed types . . . good grief!
Cheesy Crusts!
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 2:22:33 PM | Oh my god, Darakko,
You must be a very lacking individual to believe what you wrote. Most women I know, myself included, are extremely sexual beings. Especially if attracted to the male physically, and even morseo if we care about the male on a deeper level.
More is never enough, yippee!!! The sharing is so intimate and beyond words. The excitement and release is divine !!! Only if there is hurt,with a particular person, does that change, in regard to said person.
Good luck learning, lol | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 2:36:32 PM | Absolutely!
I can't tell you what type of women that makes me or what a man needs to look for who's looking for that type of woman though...
It seems all guys talk like they want to f*** all the time, but I'm not so sure... and, I don't want to end up with some mission-position, 10-minute, 3 times a week kinda guy.. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 2:39:27 PM | Sorry to hear that you think that way. It's bad that you see women that way. Cause boy, you're gonna have NO sex when you hit 50 and beyond. Studies have been done, and are still going on to test a female's sex drive. The older women are from ages 50 to early ninties. And studies have proved that older women are like a fine wine. They get better and more plentiful with age! Yes, that's right, women hit their sexual peak later in life rather than in their earlier years. Women also want sex MORE later on. So say a woman in her late 20's wants sex only 2 times a week. Well in her 50's after she's gotten comfortable with her body, and every one's outta the house, she may want way more sex than before.
So in other words, I disagree with your statement. I for one LOVE sex. I happen to have a very high sex drive. Some may think that's a bad or a good thing. But guess what? i don't care, either way!
To think that having sex with a guy/girl in the hopes to attain love, a depper meaningful relationship, or a relationship at all, is a purely fictional and very dilusional ideal.
We females are very much sexual. Some just don't talk about it alot, unlike men. Some don't feel the need to advertise that last night they "banged 3 guys/girls at the same time"! (Whoo! high five!)
I also think that some men don't want to believe that women can infact be the aggresser when it comes to sex. Some don't even like it when the woman they're with is the one to suggest or imply that they want "it". Most of the time men do'nt know that women are indeed sexual beings because society has taught us (women), that we don't want sex or to engage in sex too much. We're also taught that (sometimes, or that certain kinds of sex), is taboo. I don't agree with that either. As long as all persons involved are willing and of age to consent, then why not?
If wanting sex more than once a day almost every day is a nympho, then: I - am - a- nympho! And damn proud of my high sex drive! I don't care what any one thinks; good or bad. I am who I am. And no one's gonna tell me otherwise!
P.S.: I suggest watching the Sexfiles once in a while. You may be surprised at what you'll learn. ;) | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 2:55:42 PM | spacemanspiffter: Hey, come on everyone. We all know there is three stages of sex in a relationship.
Stage 1: House sex. This is where you just can't get enough of one another and you do it in every room of the house.
Stage two: Bedroom sex. This is where you have been together for a few years and have become complacent.
Stage three: Hallway sex. This is where you pass each other in the hallway she looks at you, you look at her, she says F**K you and you respond F**K you too. :P
I thank you.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^OMG! Friggin’ hilarious!^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
From message # 7 You must understand that women are not very sexual beings, on average. Every now and again you may come across a so-called "nympho", but those are probably 1 out of 100. Women are emotionally based beings.... they do not desire sex as men do. The only reason women get involved in sex is to make the man they are with happy
^^^^PLEASE get a clue! This whole comment is about a prize short of a Happy Meal!
I see Ima gonna hafta edgamicate you a lil’ bit…
You talk about women as if we are all certain types or “cookie cutter” versions of ourselves. All women are different. Some women happen to have a stronger sex drive than men! Some women have a hard time finding a man that can keep up with them!
Hate to bust your bubble sweetie…(whispers like a secret)… but sometimes women have sex just because we want to make OURSELVES happy! Imagine that! (smiling cheesy)
And for the record, just because a woman truly desires sex and to have it often does NOT make her a nympho!
Nympho defined: (Noun) A woman with abnormal sexual desires
So when did it become “abnormal” to desire, enjoy, or participate often in sex?
HELLO?????!!!!!!
From message # 7 If they are in a relationship with that man, it is about love. If they are not in a relationship with that man, they are hoping that by sex, that man will end up in a relationship with them eventually.
^^^Are you telling on YOURSELF here? Are you secretly hoping for this out of women to get what YOU want? Be warned ladies...me thinks THIS boat sprung a leak!
From message # 7 Sadly, the older women get, they realize that the second option is not true, so they hold out more (which is wise on their part). Suffice it to say, sex in and of itself, is simply not a desire for women. Sorry bub.
^^^^ “Sorry bub”, but women are both PHYSICAL & EMOTIONAL creatures…for that matter, so are men. Not everyone can be categorized.
Ok, getting off my soapbox now.
Forget “my two cents”…anyone got change for a penny? | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 3:38:52 PM | I can't really say that there is a certain type of women that enjoys sex just as much... I for one have been told that I have a higher sex drive then a man...lmao... However, I really don't know which if any "type" or classification that I would fit into.... | |
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