| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/15/2007 1:52:40 PM | "You talk about women as if we are all certain types or “cookie cutter” versions of ourselves. All women are different. Some women happen to have a stronger sex drive than men! Some women have a hard time finding a man that can keep up with them! Hate to bust your bubble sweetie…(whispers like a secret)… but sometimes women have sex just because we want to make OURSELVES happy! Imagine that! (smiling cheesy)" Amen to that! High five! I totally agree with your statment. I am one of those women who have a hard time finding any one who can keep up to me. I have yet to find that special some one who can keep me interested AND keep up to my drive. Most people are UNIQUE INDIVIDUALs (yes, that's including women), that are'nt like every one else. Some are just sheep and follow every one else. All they can say is: Baaahhh. I'm quite different from pretty well any other person out there, and I know that. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/20/2007 1:09:49 PM |
OMG!!! who says that sex is not a desire for women... and the older we get..etc etc..
I am one of those... if i want to i will women.. and i love sex at the ripe young age of 40.. Sheesh the mis understands of some men...
I think women tend to not want to have sex due to the inability of alot of men to "please" the women and only think about Mr Happy..... Mystery solved...
Enuff said!!!!! I tend 2 crave sex alot more now that I'm in my 40's and when it's raining hard, thundering/lightning, Oh My! LOL!!!  | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/21/2007 6:01:49 AM | | dude I have a statement for you which is absolutley true... if your woman dosen't enjoy sex as much or more than you do then your not doing it right... women have more nerve endings. better tactile senses, better sense of smell and better sense of taste (in both forms) than men do... if your enjoying sex more than she is I would recomend one thing... have a night where you don't slip her the C**K and see how many orgasms you can give her with just your fingers or just your toung... there is nothing hotter than a woman who is multi orgasmic and who appreciates that you can give her as meany as she can take... one or two might be good for a man but I can tell you, if all your giving your girl is one or two you should send her to me... my policy is that I don't cum untill she has at least 4 good ones with aftershocks and all... 1 or 2 just isn't enough I would feel like a F***ing failure... | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/21/2007 6:20:38 AM | | I love sex and I am not ashamed to admit it......I have a higher sex drive than a lot of men I know.....I also love sports, so maybe I just hae a lot of testosterone, who knows? I just get fustrated when me don't know what they want. A lot of guys complain that their women either don't want sex enough or mull their way through it with no enthusiasm, but when they get a woman who wants sex every day or at least every other day, they can't handle it. I actually had a boyfriend tell me that he felt "obligated" to have sex with me.....and after only six months we were only having sex twice a month!!!!!! Needless to say, he is not my boyfriend anymore. I loved him immensely, but it was actually very hurtful to think that the person you're in love with doesn't want you. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/21/2007 7:27:16 AM | C'mon spacemanspiffter........there are far more suitable spots than just the house, hallway and bedroom !!
What about the kitchen, mile-high, hood, back seat, chandelier, meadow, carpet, bath tub, recliner, swing?
There must be more!!
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/21/2007 7:46:02 AM | Of course there are women out there that enjoy sex as much as men. In the past if a woman was to make her sex urges known she was often referred to as a 'slut', 'prostitute', or 'whore'. This is not the case. We are finally starting to realize as a society that both men and women can have equal urges without there being something wrong with them.
There have been so many misconceptions about a woman's desire to have an enjoyable sexual encounter. One thing that people often forget about is that just as men are not all created equally in the size of their packages, women are also not all created from the same molded size and shape. Have you ever put together a puzzle and seen all of the pieces fit equally into any position??? You have to find the right fit to make your experience enjoyable.
Another reason women are viewed as having little or no sex drive is due to child bearing and rearing experiences. job. In the past the resposibility of running the household and raising children was primarily placed with the woman, even when she was holding a full time. After dealing with a full day of these activities all a person wants to do is fall in bed from exhaustion. Fortunately men and women are starting to equally share in the responsibilities, which I am sure will result in a more balanced sex life. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/21/2007 8:00:53 AM | I dont know if we are a type, but I have heard alot about the 'type' that doesnt, I do have brothers and friends ya know. I often heard that I am a rare breed. I often find men who dont like it as often as I do, so when in a relationship, I often have to wait for the guy to want to. Poor me. I wish I could find one of these men that like it as much as I do. I hear about more of them, but havent experienced any. Maybe we need a site for that?? No, not just sexual encounters, but highly sexual relationships with meaning. Gotta have meaning. lol. I'll keep looking though.
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/21/2007 9:49:26 AM | I love sex and have nearly always wanted it more than my partner. I am 54 and in very good shape--5 ft. 3.5 inches and about 110 lbs. I jog 3.5 miles 2 or 3 times a week, work out several other times a week. I am athletic, love to participate and watch sporting events. I am very good at math, spatial abilities/directions. My ring finger is much longer than my index finger. Studies have shown that people whose ring finger is longer than their index finger were subjected to more testosterone when they were a developing fetus and tend to do better in math and spatial abilities--the typically more 'masculine' abilities--than people whose index finger is longer than their ring finger. Don't know if this has anything to do with my love of sex, but maybe?... Extra testosterone???
I am also a very open person and highly kinesthetic. That could be part of it as well. Sex just plain feels GOOD--very, VERY good. Thankfully my bf has as high a sex drive as me--for once!!!
It does depend on the man though too. There have been men who just didn't 'do' it for me at all. Fit and technique are important as is personality/compatibility. Despite a very high sex drive I am still all woman and need to feel the closeness and compatibility in other areas for the sex to be truly great.
Right now it could not be better! I still feel like a teenager! Isn't life grand??!! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 8/30/2007 5:04:33 PM | Heres a shocker ! women love sex as much as men, yes we do.We like to experiment, be spontaneous and have fun and laughter with it.We like it preferably with someone we love and respect but have been known to satisfy our lusts with Mr right now ,rather than Mr right.It is nothing to be guilty about , its natural fun and usually free except for the condoms of course those xtra light,s cost money.I wish guys would drop the whore/ madonna complex its sex not serial killing.Its not dirty or wrong its , odorous , messy and more fun than a barrel full of funky monkeys.Make love not war either way the earth moves Ciao Tigh Just keep it consensual and safe. | |
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