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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/25/2006 9:31:17 PM | Hmmmm I am not quite sure what you are looking to get from this post. Are you looking for the secret formula? LOL. I guess i am one of those sex crazed women. My boyfriend has never heard no from me in the few months that we have been dating and he is extremely happy, as am I. I love sex and I am good at because I love it. When i perform oral sex, it is not a chore but an act of love that turns me on because I am bringing the man i love so much pleasure. I have been known to give him 2 hour bjs. And yes like most women i do like to "make love" sometimes but I truly prefer the other type of crazy, knock the pictures of the wall sex.
Is there some personality trait in me that makes me like this? I doubt. It just is what it is!
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/25/2006 9:37:46 PM | WTF - are you on crack???
There are plenty and plenty of women who love sex just as much if not more than most men.
I for one get excited just thinking about my man bending me over. If it were possible i would have sex with my man every single day if not more, unfortunately the amount that we work and our lifestyle does not allow that. I think that those women who dont want sex all the time are just with the wrong partners. I know, i was married to one. No matter what we tried he just didnt do it for me.
Any woman who has had the kind of lover i have now will know exactly what i am talking about. I am with a man who can make me cum over 10 times in one oral session and works my Gspot like never before. He is also very manly and can get me going just in his mannerisms.
So personally i think what you wrote was just pure BULLCHIT.
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/25/2006 10:17:33 PM | Are you kidding me? Women aren't sexual beings? We only have sex to make the MAN happy?
I don't know what planet you live on, but here on earth, that is simply not true. Women are every bit as sexual as men. Perhaps we choose to be more discerning; perhaps we have higher standards, or both. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/25/2006 10:29:37 PM | LOL! Your jokin right? Of course we love sex. It feels damn good so why wouldn't we like it and even love it as often as we can get it? I can however tell you that not every guy will turn my crank nor attract me either. It takes that chemistry thing. Then look out! I'll never get it often or long enough. Never thought about being a certain type either. If a guy does not like sex...dead deal breaker for me. He is done like a dinner. Believe it or not........guys of all ages have problems performing. Women might to for all I know. LOL! But different in our appetites we are not!  | |
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| Women who love just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 3:32:57 AM | I'm just writing this sentence as filler, so it doesn't reflect on the link at the bottom of my profile. Oops, I kind of gave myself away there...
Anyway, call it "Eve's Revenge," but here's the rub: ten Ooooos to your one. Read it and weep, Darakko. | |
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| Women who love just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 8:05:35 AM | | LOL....the poster who said most women don't really enjoy or like sex is funny to me. Not really sure it was worth responding to...but..umm..for the record..I LOVE sex. I'm just picky who it's with. Which leads me to make this comment. I think alot more men than women have no qualms about picking someone up and having a one night stand. Therefore, maybe it just seems like women don't like sex as much as men. I could be wrong. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 8:27:47 AM | | well nice question,,,,glad you posted it,, I love mr happy,,, I sometimes feel , like maby I put that ahead of breathing,, smile,, but I don't sleep around cause I have been alone for a long time,, but if I have a mate, partner, lover, a guy in my life,, he would need to have some energy,,,and a thirst for makeing love,,,cause makeing love starts with the very first kiss in the morning, and through out the day,, and the older I get, the stronger the need gets,,,,xxx | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 9:16:27 AM | | very funny spaceman...but I would have to politely disagree...I can say that I have been around long enough to have figured this one out so...guys are you listening???...Cool...here it is...yes, it is a MAJOR help if you respond and understand what a woman wants...i.e.are a good lover, it is VERY hard to tell a guy he just isn't cutting it in bed...also I find that sex for a gal starts OUTSIDE the bedroom...in other words...if you are good to your woman, listen to her, help her carry groceries (I have been told..make two trips...don't laugh!)...and in general try to be a good mate...she will want you anytime...anywhere...I know it is true for me, and I love sex......and by-the-way...it ISN'T obvious...I know what you're thinking ;) ...that's why I am still here...a single fish...lol... peace D | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certain type? Posted: 6/26/2006 9:48:12 AM | I love sex. However, it only happens when I'm physically attracted to the male. It's best when I'm relaxed and not concerned about work, family, money and things are going well in my relationship.
As a woman, I do not disassociate my sexual center from the rest of my body. Sex is an emotional, mental and physical activity.
If there is stress in the relationship, having sex or making love is probably not going to happen.
Men tend to be able to disassociate, and it's probably a good thing. I know more laid back men and lots of harried/stressed women who complain about their SOs. Men can release even when other things in their lives aren't going well. Few women I know feel like sexual creatures when the kids are failing at school, the husband is off for yet another round of golf, the bills are piled high, the garbage is overflowing and the dripdripdrip of the tap is driving her insane.
If you want your sexual relationship to maintain that early relationship VAVOOM, help your partner. Calm her, relax her, take the stress out of her life. Don't stop being her knight. Don't start looking for that pleasure elsewhere. Don't take your company away because you cannot stand being at home anymore, because TRUST ME when I say this, IF SHE WAS NOT SO RESPONSIBLE, she would probably want out too.
I've been online for a few years, I've spoken to many a disgruntled husband whose wife is no longer intersted in sex. I do not give them any masturbatory sex chat, even if the sexy dominatrix fantasy is what they are looking for. I ask them if they love their wives. Most admit that yes, they love the woman they are married to, BUT, she's not interested in sex, she's too busy with the kids, with work, with the house, with everything.
Rather than giving them the "ohhhh, you poor thing", I tell them that if they are not willing to be a part of the solution, then they are a part of the problem. They are not helping their wives by being online searching for something they think they lost in their relationship. The wife still loves them, and probably misses the great sex they once had. However, she just doesn't/can't keep having sex if she's angry, if she suspects cheating, if she's not happy with herself, if she feels you are just using her body for your own pleasure (wham, bam...and not even a thank you ma'am).
My advice to those husbands is always the same. After telling him that I do not play with married men, I tell him that if he's not happy, and he is going to have sex with other women...do his wife and family a favour and let them go. THEY do not need his selfish bullshit in their lives. IF he wants to fix what is broken, start by taking responsibility for his part in the breakdown of the relationship.
Start paying her the attention he is paying to the other women he is seeking sex from. Start sending her the roses and chocolates. Hire a housekeeper, a babysitter and take her away. Remind her that he loves her, remind her that she is more than a cleaner, mother, bottlewasher, diaper changer.
We all love that "new relationship" f*ck. It's exciting. BUT, if you're looking for just casual sex to satisfy your own need, you're missing out on the stuff that you can only do with the person you already know, love, trust and respect. How much better can sex get than when you've reached that level of connection with another person???
People think I'm a pervert for enjoying being the one in control of my relationship, for being Dominant. I say...not a perv...a deviant, yes...kinky, indeed...in control, damn straight...but I'm getting what I need from my relationship...it's not one sided in any way. I give as good as I get. I'm a natural nurturer, I'm sensual and sexual. It's all good when I'm in control.
I think you're off target with the question about what type of woman enjoys sex. Make her pleasure your pleasure, and you will find that we are all sexual creatures. Respect her, never give her reason to mistrust...love her unconditionally, love her body, love her mind, and you will be the beneficiary of a good solid loving relationship and a woman who loves you and herself. What can be better than that??? | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 11:16:51 AM | It is a certain type, though I haven't really met another woman like me yet. I often think I should have been born a man. It would have been easier to justify life-long sex craze.
Oh boy, here it goes now... Why can't I keep my mouth shut?
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certain type? Posted: 6/26/2006 11:25:39 AM |
Make her pleasure your pleasure, and you will find that we are all sexual creatures.
Couldn't have said it better...I get turned off by a woman who's not expressive...the biggest problem is the ego too....guys complaining about this topic are the ones who THINK they know it all...when they don't....and they don't wanna go looking for "help" because they THINK that'll make them look weak.....
....the reality is...a man who can recognize weakness and have the discipline to change for the better is WAY stronger than the man with a huge ego....
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 11:37:33 AM | | I can only talk for myself....but I disagree totally about women not being sexual beings!!! Every woman's sex drive is different....just as are men's. Some men do not have a very high sex drive. Women, are indeed, emotional beings....and I think that sex drive has a lot to do with their self-image. If a woman perceives herself as a non-sexual being, then that is how she fuctions in everyday life. I, myself, enjoy sex and intimate encounters very much!! I do not consider myself a "nympho", but I have a very healthy sex life!!! Mr. Happy would stay happy with me!!!! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 11:37:51 AM | women's libidos cover the full range...nympho to complete cold fish. i'm at the high end of the sexual spectrum...and YES it intimidates some men. i know what i want and i know what to do when i get it...so just lay back and enjoy ; )
but to be fair, i also know two female acquaintances who have absolutely no sex drive, never enjoyed a single sexual experience, and would rather be alone...of course both are clinically diagnosed with depression as well. sexuality is healthy, and so is its expression! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 11:56:19 AM | I'm not offended DARAKKO. BUT your wording made it include ALL older woman. LOL, NOT.
The older I get the better I am at rockin a mans world, and the comment about having a good partner is 100% correct.
Men don't like being with a dead fish, so why should a woman be with a burnt whinnie?
If there is something to look forward to at the end of the rainbow, then I'm there dressed in green!  | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 11:57:05 AM |
The only reason women get involved in sex is to make the man they are with happy
Suffice it to say, sex in and of itself, is simply not a desire for women.
There's a big difference between enjoying sex and givin' up to any freak with a pen*s.
As to the above quotes.... well, those are just fallic fallacies. There are books out there to help you along with these little issues... Try one ~ you might be surprised at what you *don't* know.
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type? Posted: 6/26/2006 12:27:57 PM | Nope I love sex and am completely insatiable. If I can't get satisified by my boyfriend, I will go to my girlfriend and when she can't wear me out thank heaven for my multispeed! Hey I love sex and everything about it I jut don't think men are equipped enough to always know how to satisfy a woman but here is something for everyone to ponder and mostly for the ladies...
At first I was afraid, I was petrified, When you said you had 10 inches Lord, I almost died. But I'd spent so many nights just waiting for a man that long, That I grew strong, And I knew that I could take you on. . .
But there you are, Another lie! I was ready for a Big Mac and you've brought me a French fry. I should have known it was so small, Just a sad pathetic dream, Should have known there was no Anaconda lurking in those jeans.
Go on now go, Walk out the door, Don't you promise me 10 inches then turn up with only 4, Weren't you a jerk to think I wouldn't notice it pop out, Don't you know we're only joking when we say size doesn't count?
I will survive, I will survi-ive, Cuz as long as I have batteries, My sex life's gonna thrive, I will always have good sex with a handful of latex. I will survive, I will survive. . hey, hey!
It took all my self control not to laugh out loud, When I saw your little wiener standing small and proud. But too bad about your ego and to Hell with all your needs! Now I'm saving all my lovin' for a cordless multispeed
Go on now go, Just make a dash, Last time I saw a****that small I was treating diaper rash! I should have asked for confirmation, Should have asked for pictures, please! Then I wouldn't have you waving that wee winkie thing at me.
Go on now go, Just hit the track, Don't you bring me home no little worm, I'll always throw them back. The only thing that I could do with a****as small as yours, Is to stick it with a tooth pick And then call it an hors d'oeuvre!
I will survive, I will survi-ive, Cuz as long as I have batteries, My sex life's gonna thrive, I will always have good sex with a handful of latex. I will survive, I will survive. . .hey, hey!
Go on now go, Get out of my sight, I'm going back to my appliance, Cuz I know it's length is right, And if I ever see your tiny pecker peckin' at my door, You'll be counting your 4 inches as you pick them off the floor. Go on now Go!
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