| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 4:55:44 AM | | I have to agree with you! If the physical attraction is there, I mean REALLY there, "it's all good". This would be the "emotion" side the men are always referring to when talking about us, the emotion of pure uninhibited lust. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 6:49:58 AM | "Especially if you arent doing things to please me. I'm certainly not gonna be in the mood ot please you in that case"
Exactly my point.
A man has sex to please himself, and his partner if possible. According to you, a woman has sex to please her partner.
I don't want to have sex with a woman who try to please me. That's close to be called prostitute. I want to have sex with a woma who want to have sex for herself. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 7:08:07 AM |
Is there just a certian type of woman that are sex crazed and want to just drag your ass into the bed and make happy with Mr happy---> LMAO. I wonder how many women would respond honestly and later tally up to see what they all had in common? Hummmmm?
That's odd. If you saw something you liked and had good sex, what would it matter what else you had in common? That's not related. It'd be cool to see if you could keep the good sex convenient and continuous, but why would you try to make a relationship out of it?
I love sex just as much as men, and depending on the situation, I can totally separate it from any type of ongoing relationship. It's nice when included in one, but when it isn't it can still be a good thing.
But, I am sort of a science study. A woman with a man's brain. I am sure no woman alive will agree with me on that, lol. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 7:36:46 AM | WELL SAID..............Playdbluz and Pink Rose Lady... Couldn't have said it better myself...although I have weighed in on this thread b4!!!
Women are as much to blame for unfulfilled sex lives as their male partners IF they do not communicate their needs or take some responsibility for their own pleasure. It really isn't fair to our men to expect them to know how to please us or do all the pleasing.....what is pleasurable to one is not so for another.
And shame on any of you, male of female, IF u roll over and drop off to sleep directly afterwards, some of the sweetest moments to lovin' come after the orgasms!!! 
Hey gals, learn about your own bodies and sexuality then show 'em what u like, what you want.... and then enjoy watching your man enjoy watching you enjoy him-that makes for mutually satisfying, fulfilling, awesome love makin'!!!!  | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 7:46:41 AM | You know I have been reading this thread and I already see something in common, Please to those who read this please do not send me crap email, you know what I mean by this.
The women who state they love to have sex also seem to mention that they have more in common with men and their way of thinking. Not just about sex. Take me for example I have worked in a male dominate career for over 15 years, I prefer to work with men over women, most of my friends are males, My best friend for over 18 years(no we are not, nor have we ever been in a relationship, had sex or even kissed..no he is not gay) is a guy. Yes I act every inch of a LADY, I am not butch by any means and love being a woman. I absolutely love having sex, I want it more than once, daily, if the sex is good. My only thing is I like to be and want him to be manogomas during our stint together. It does not have to be a relationship, as in it is going to go somewhere eventually. Would I want it to? Depends on the person at the time. I am extremely picky in who I choose as a sexual partner. Too many dieases out there.
What gets me is why men say that women are not sexual beings, that we do not enjoy sex. Why blame it on the woman all the time? I really believe it has alot to do with those she has partnered with either now or in the past. The past can also affect her and her thoughts on sex. I was lucky in that my ex-husband made sure that I was taken care of as well, he was really my 1st sexual experience (I was married for over 20 yrs to this man). (We had sex at least once every day up till I left him) I also think that women can have low sexual drives just like some men, there is good news there is medication for it now days just like there is meds for Men's ED. Sometimes medications that a woman takes does this also. Age has nothing to do with sexual enjoyment, look at my age. My suggestion is if your woman has a low sex drive 1st check yourself, is it you? has it gotten to be where she can predict every move you will make and exactly the same position you will end in? Guys if we can predict it, it is boring!!!!! If you are not to blame and yes that is possible then talk to her go to a Dr and see if he can help her. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 7:50:53 AM | | There is a type, but there aren’t many that are willing to do it out of a relationship; if you find one you will know it. There not tom boys or sluts or anything of that matter, you won’t be able to tell by her looks; but only by how she talks about sexually things and how comfortable she is. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certain type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 9:25:35 AM | My last relationship, I couldn't keep my hands off of him so maybe it has a lot to do with who you are with and not so much of the type like you had asked; if they're exciting in bed I'm sure that brings the sex crazed women out in all of us. Not to mention that I've noticed ever since I hit my 40's (ugh, LoL) I can't seem to be active enough in that department, what gives?!
I think you'll find it's pretty even between men & women.
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 2:17:09 PM | While casual sex (and the pleasure you my or may not get from it) is hit or miss, you can improve your intimacy with your steady partner with good communication.
"faking it" is the same as saying, "WAY TO GO! WOOHOO! NICE JOB! KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING!"
Most men are concerned with their woman's experience, are trainable, and will take instruction. Even an experienced man needs to learn a new lover. talk, move, groan, hit him with a bat... He'll get it eventually.
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/1/2006 5:53:20 PM | | Dear umarie: I'm full of ...................what and what and what?????? There is someone here full of something... I've read your profile...I know who that is!!! You've obviously supporting an ego bigger than the Empire State Bldg. I'd prefer to be nice and gentlemanly,but when faced with someone knowing so much more then us "average" folks,,well.... You're obviously facing a big fall,probably not you're first,but can you listen to someone who's experienced? Forget that you are obviously far superior to us little people. Just take people at face value,and fight only when attacked. Men and women are not that different. Both will respond to genuine feelings of any kind...happily. The trick is to offer them and truly mean them. Most women love sex as much as men. Maybe not when they're in their teens or 20's(men and women),but we all mature(most of us,anyway)as we age. For that small group that doesn't,well.... they're on their own. I've had friends like this. A "victory" is all that matters to them. I wouldn't even waste my time with them. I've met women with similar desires...and I feel the same way towards them,too. It's human nature that causes us to reach out. We were not meant to be solitary creatures. I,myself,will continue to reach out until I either meet that someone(whom I'll continue to reach out to,forever),or I get too old to care. I just hope it's the first! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certain type?
Posted: 12/2/2006 1:18:12 PM | | I truly believe that most men and women would love sex if they learned how to... that it's not just a "quicky"(although sometimes a quicky is exciting). When we are in our teens and 20's,a quicky is usually all we're interested in/all we know. Isn't sex great? We're always watching the time. But as we mature,most of us(hopefully)LEARN that we can make the pleasure last/increase it by taking our time and being concerned with our partner's pleasure,too. 20-30 minutes can very easily be turned into hours of mutual pleasure. I feel that the reason a man or woman doesn't like sex is that they simply havn't learned to experience this. Once one learns this,who would opt for the 20-30min. quicky? | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/4/2006 1:47:45 PM | I wanna have sex every time we see each other and we currently see each other about 3 times a week. THAT IS NOT ENOUGH! 
Eagerly looking forward to moving this thing up a notch to phase 4 and getting some regular (and NO, I don't really mean regular) sex.
But to answer your question, no, this isn't typical. Libido kicked in when I hit 35. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/4/2006 4:41:50 PM | | I think it is certain "kinds." I think those females who are so hard up for a man that they "can't" be single, they're so dependent and clingy, will never appreciate sex. They do it to get/keep the man, instead of doing it for themselves. I notice most women (most PEOPLE) are like that; where they just "can't" be alone. I think that does carry over into the sex life. I don't date. I don't have kids. Everything I do is for me. Do with that what you will. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/5/2006 8:28:20 AM | | I kinda have to agree with Bryan and Pieces. I have always loved sex, but at 38 my libido kicked in to full force. I have talked to other women in that age range and they say the same. So getting older has it advantages. On Pieces, I agree that clingy women most likely do have low sex drives as they have low self esteem, which can in fact lower a sex drive. They feel incomplete without a man in their life. While in many ways this may be true as women and men are meant to have partners in life, one does not have to feel that they MUST have a man in their life to be a woman at all times. Indepenent women seem to me to have a higher self esteem I have female friends in that catagory as well, I feel sorry for them. Everyone need "ME" time, everyone needs to have outside interests to keep the romance and themselves alive. You don't grow old that way. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/5/2006 4:23:52 PM | Oh God! I don't think I should even wade into this one... but!
There isn't really any consistent "Type" with any aspect of human behaviour and you can never tell by someone's appearance what their sexual drive is going to be like. I've met women who dressed like Ho's but were sexually conservative and women who dressed like Mrs. Cleaver who were tigers.
Sexuality is only one aspect of human behaviour and it's questionable to try to generalize or pidgeon-hole anyone into categories. A person's sexual behaviour may reflect on other aspects of their lives but it generally isn't all that apparent
There are men who have no sex drive and women who have no limit to their sex drives. If you're just looking for horny women then there's probably about a million web sites dedicated to it. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/5/2006 4:52:20 PM | I think about two thirds of us women like sex now days, maybe only one half of us will admit it, it's not only to keep Mr Happy happy, I think it keeps us gals happy as well.
I used to do it because it was my duty, Now I do it because it's my pleasure,,,,,,,, | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/5/2006 5:42:58 PM | ves stated: "There is no argument that a woman's sexual pleasure is greater than that of a man."
My gawd, ves, how do you stand it, then?
Now, to the original question.... I know that most ladies like sex just as much as we guys do. There is a lot of truth in a lot of the posts I've read so far from a lot of the ladies and most of the guys. Some though, I think is total BS and some of this comes from both sexes. Funny isn't it. Life in here is just sort of a microcosim of life in general. Lots of diffeent opinions and views form lots of different kinds and types of folks. If everyone were alike, it would be a very boring old world. I thank God for the differences, even when I don't happen to agree with all of them. It gets the old brain a'workin a little and proves that you're still alive and kickin'. Baskin-Robbins makes 31 flavors for a reason, ya know? Plain ol' vanilla is still my favorite flavor but that certainly doesn't keep me from trying the others and liking most of them as well.
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